SeaVixen .... I found it ....

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/serious-self-issues-1259322/?=NoCache=7 17 2010+10% 3A04% 3A33+AM


That is the thread I wrote about Scorpios and their trust issues ....


Two things ..... I wrote on 4/17 which is Sean's birthday .. yay !!!!!

... the other thing ***** gasps ****** is PP gone? I'm talking to him in the thread, but, he's not there.

Hey P-angel,Im gonna read that thread in a bit,gotta do a few things.You seem to have great understanding of Scorpio from a Piscean perspective.Im wondering could you have a look at the 'Could a Scorpio Woman...' thread.You go deep to the heart of certain issues quite well,I would really appreciate your thoughts on that thread.

"Do you think then that perhaps the trust issue and it's related pitfalls is just a condition that scorps are more pre-disposed to, rather than inherent in all of us?"


Yes, and I agree about ones socio-economic status playing a huge part.

You're welcome 🙂



I seriously believe though, that people fear in others what is their own monsters.

I wrote one on the Virgo board about how they fear people who are fakers, because they themselves are .. the whole mirror/reflector thing they do .. yeah, that's being someone else, you know.

And I wrote one on Pisces, of course .... about the whole ... we're fucking crazy, you know, and think we're sane .. but, we're not.


so, where is PP? Why was I talking to him and his posts are gone?

Does anyone have messages from him where they can check to see if they are still there?

Beetle ... it's inherent.



As I mentioned .. it's a blind spot, so you wouldn't be able to see it in yourself.

OMG, accidently block PP?



That would be a tragedy.

Sorry if you cannot handle your own issues ... sort of the whole point of the thread in the first place.

Posted by Dynamite Parfait

Posted by P-Angel
OMG, accidently block PP?

That would be a tragedy.

Some people have even accidentally blocked themselves.

😛

click to expand

That's something my a $ $ would accidentally do!!! Yea, it would be awful if PP were gone 😢

^^Thank goodness I'm not the only one! I have a thread in the changes/updates/suggestion thread where I'm asking how to remove myself from my own favorites list! I stupidly/inadvertently added myself to my favorites! Yes, I have an 'L' on my forehead! LOL!

^^^ 🙂

Posted by P-Angel
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/serious-self-issues-1259322/?=NoCache=7 17 2010+10% 3A04% 3A33+AM



I wrote on 4/17 which is Sean's birthday .. yay !!!!!

Hah if there is one thing that will never change about P-Angel, its her love of Sean.
P, a gift for you. Sean in the role of a favored character of mine in 2011.

Posted by Dynamite Parfait

Posted by P-Angel


so, where is PP? Why was I talking to him and his posts are gone?

His http://www.dxpnet.com/users/profile.asp?username=Prince_Pisces>profile</a> is still here.

Check your ignored users list to make sure that you haven't accidentally blocked him.

click to expand

^^ This. I accidentally Blocked shaks one day. I thought he died or something.

Posted by Prince_Pisces
Im still here P 🙂

Shew ... there you are 😄

Posted by VirgoHero

Posted by P-Angel
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/serious-self-issues-1259322/?=NoCache=7 17 2010+10% 3A04% 3A33+AM



I wrote on 4/17 which is Sean's birthday .. yay !!!!!

Hah if there is one thing that will never change about P-Angel, its her love of Sean.
P, a gift for you. Sean in the role of a favored character of mine in 2011.

click to expand

Thank you so much VirgoHero, you are so sweet .... isn't he everything? Yes, he is.

What movie is this?

I do love that man .. I am a true fan, to my very core.

Posted by LovelyScorp

Posted by Let*It*Be
"Scorpios aren't discerning in who they trust, yet, they think they are .. they will believe that every acquaintance has their back, will stand loyally to protect them ... even someone to whom they just met, they erroneously believe this person is thier "friend" .. that is until this other person gives them reason to not trust them."



^^No way in hell does that define me...that would mean Scorps are naive. I don't trust anyone off the bat until I KNOW them well enough to earn it. Always been that way, and always had my own back. 😉

I really think there is something to this. Speaking for myself, I always give trust first, but it's CONDITIONAL trust. If you break it, I'm done. I always am willing to give the benefit of the doubt. However, something very small and petty can make me run right back behind my wall.

This is not naivety.

...and by nature we always have our own backs because nobody, absolutely nobody can live up to the standards we set.

This is just too fucking deep for a Monday morning.

click to expand

Sometimes I wonder if no one can live up to your standards or do you not allow someone to live up to your standards for the fear of control you feel you might lose because you've met someone whom you see worth of making an emotional investment in and that frightens you?

Just pondering...

Posted by Alir0x


Sometimes I wonder if no one can live up to your standards or do you not allow someone to live up to your standards for the fear of control you feel you might lose because you've met someone whom you see worth of making an emotional investment in and that frightens you?

Just pondering...

I've watched several Scorpios do this. Turn their back on the person they have true feelings for and settle with a "safer" match, i.e. the person who loves THEM more, rather than the other way around or a more equal match. This way they retain control. To truly love, you have to surrender to it, and some Scorps seem to have a difficult time with that, especially after they've been hurt. And let's face it, who hasn't been hurt at some point? 😢