Should I?

Libra here, I got a few scorpios after me. Any advice on whether I should pick one of them up for a relationship. Deep down I just want to be extremely close friends with all of them, yet I can't help but consider... But I don't know if it would work out in terms of personality configurations etc.

You're gonna get on their nerves after a while if you don't open up a little bit.

If you just want to know about the scorpio/libra relationship yes it can work.That stuff is based on cut and dry,air goes with air,fire goes with.....blah,blah,blah.You really have to figure that one out yourself on the what you should do's.

Don't think it'd be so much opening up,libras can be pretty honest(when they want to be)and open but they do get annoying when they don't make up thier minds or are trying to be too nice which leads to small lies,if you want to be with a scorpio,start being decisive and stick to the decision to back it up.Basically problems get solved by confronting it so you could have to complain honestly and directly as well as the good stuff.I think that's the main thing you'd have to look at if your a typical "astrology" like libra.

Thanks everyone! What should I say to the two scorpio's that I won't choose...that I want to be really good friends with them?

WWJD?

Nice pic truevenusian!

O dear, I feel like I hold the lever to some type of jealousy fire! I pray the 3 never meet! But thanks everyone for the advice...will do. 🙂

And if the 3 DO meet, just think of it as a once in a lifetime opportunity to see the beauty (in a weird, Black Rose type of way) of the Destruction of Life up close.

Actually truevenusian,im going with kenny on this one I just checked your profile and your only 16 so yeah,play the field a bit if you can't decide but also the jealousy thing could still happen considering they're probably young and hormonal as well.I think sometimes it's just the inexperiance that could be a cause for some people who are jealous,date em and only worry about that stuff if you or one of them gets serious,only then you may want to decide things-break up or getting more serious.Your young live it up and find out which one you like more.

'So Elliot let me ask you... Can your partner have other male friends? And if the answer is yes.... But not Scorpio friend's—'




Oh please! Those things are so unworthy of thought in my opinion, I think that's getting unneccesarily uptight about a relationship.

I'll explain.

I've Discovered that Control (just as everything) is looking for proper balance of itself - there are Constructive and Destructive uses of both.

I'll dub negative control 'Control Out of Fear' and positive control 'Warriorness Control';
The former is utilized by some man/woman who cannot handle uncertainty very well, who needs to see the happenings of all things so as to use them to his/her advantage. This person will never let their spouse go out and about with others for fear of betrayal and unfaithfulness. They have to be the Directors and Controllers at all cost, fearing the worst if something were to slip out of their strangle-hold. They ask all the questions in an interrogation of your private/personal affairs because they don't like to be surprised by things they wished they would have known. They are not to be blamed for this loss of Faith to the romp of humane fears, but there is a way to conquer the feeling of helplessness (when out of immediate control)!

The latter form of control I named is Warriorness Control. I came up with this name to represent the Impact of an Influential Being (A Warrior)! Dr. King, for example, didn't grab white conservatives by the throats in efforts to control them, hell he wasn't vying for any type of control at all; yet through his words and his positive Influence, he was a black man given more attention than any man had received throughout the entire struggle. He appealed to Ethos (Credibility, Authority), Pathos (Mind, Spirit), and Logos (Science, Study). Many people, such as King, have controlled the outcomes of their predicaments not by caring to control, but by Caring to Touch a nation's core! So in the same way, men should wish to touch the core of a woman (with respect, spirituality, thought, etc.).

Now back to my main point in its relevance to this post,
If I am to be afriad that my damsel is going to get nasty with other guys, do something to betray my trust, be unfaithful in any form of the word, then I HAVEN'T DONE MY JOB RIGHTLY and I deserve to receive a swift kick to the a $ $ ! If whoever I'm with is unhappy enough to cheat, then I'm neglecting her somewhere in the relationship, correct? If I even have to SLIP into thinking that she might be doing something scandalous behind my back, then the Trust in the relationship is weak for a daaayum reason, correct? Of course that type of relationship needs controlling; for a relationship like that to work, one of the pair is sooner or later going to have to chain their partner to the bed for fear they'll leave for good, which they should!!

'Warriorness Control' suggests that through cultivating great Trust in a pair, High romance in a pair, a sense of humor, openness, action and activity (ari), stability (tau), communication (gem), nurture (can), appreciation (leo), service (vir), balance (lib), sex (sco), growth (sag), respect and responsibility (cap), uniqueness (aqu), and faith (pisces), there is noooo need to worry about you partner cheating hahah! Go ahead try and get my baby, try and seduce her, try and impress her away from me, keep her for a month, it really does not matter!! My Ultimate Philosophy is, that if I've done my job as best I know how and sincerely as I know how (and deep down we allll know how), there is barely any chance of her betrayal or her unfaithfulness -


Just as a Warrior should, I've now controlled the outcome simply with the power of 'touch', by letting go of how SHE wants to act (trying to control her actions is called MANIPULATION remember lol) and ONLY concentrating on how I must act toward her! If I act Supremely, then I do NOT ha

'Oh Elliot I didn't mean to expose you, However, Thanks, cuzz you are the same as my scorpio.'


Oh I didn't look at it like that, I was just looking to vent my beliefs in detail, sometimes I just need to communicate you know what I mean!? lol, I'm not too expressive of beliefs like this anywhere outside of this board and my closest friends who have time to listen hahaha.

Okay I'm Tired, Take Care,
Elliot!

If deep down you wanna be friends then don't do it. Why would you do somethin you know you don't wanna do if you don't have to?

Candlegirl the LEEBRA who is going to have another birthday soon!!

Am I invited to the party? I know Libra's give the BEST dinner parties....The LEEEEEEBRA! YEAH!

'If deep down you wanna be friends then don't do it. Why would you do somethin you know you don't wanna do if you don't have to?'

We don't HAVE TO do anything, we bring ourselves to, or we don't. What I find is that when I bring myself to be friends with someone who I deeply do not want to be friends with I end up learning a lot from them. I learn from things I do like, and things that I deeply hate, and I gain a better Understanding of them.

Plus, I feel like by NOT being friends with someone I don't want to be, I'm being nice to myself; by being friends with someone who I want to be friends with, I'm being nice to THEM (It all depends on what kind of person you are trying to be).

I've met people whom I love through people who I didn't love so much haha, I've stumbled into great pieces of Information, or things that I'll remember for the rest of my Life by traveling with people that I don't get along with so well, as much as the people who I DO get along with so well. It all works to my advantage depending on the way I'M BEING, not on the way that THEY are being (Because that can't be Controlled)

I'm telling you - DO YOURSELF, and all else will fall into place, even the things that seem out of place are in their place.

"All things work to your advantage if you pursue them with an open heart" -Miyamoto Musashi

"Let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of Spirit." -Kahlil Gibran

Sorry I made a mistake in this paragraph:

'Plus, I feel like by NOT being friends with someone I don't want to be, I'm being nice to myself; by being friends with someone who I don't want to be friends with, I'm being nice to THEM (It all depends on what kind of person you are trying to be).'

Few things.

1) I don't live in a third world country! I live here in the USA, I do happen to have Indian parents and my photo is Indian b/c I was at an Indian party when it was taken. Just to clarify....🙂

2)Elliot you make a very significant and profound point and here's how it somehow applies to all worldviews...

All forms of immorality are due to dissatisfaction with something whether it is a circumstance, or some idealistic thing such as hate or fear in this world. And these dissatisfactions have 2 sources: external and internal (outward and inward). If Elliot advocates the "Do Yourself" action plan, this self explanatorily takes care of outward dissatisfaction, but inward dissatisfaction brings us to a problem. We are all immoral by our innate sinful nature. Some of us are more "moral" than others, but none of us among humans come anywhere near moral perfection". Like rocks thrown from earth towards the sun...some travel further than others, but no one is anywhere close. Once one finds the meaning to life, he finds himself, and if he completely lives off of his true identity in this meaning and truth that he has found governs existence, inward dissatisfaction shatters. I have much more to say concerning this, but will save it for a more related message board.

3) not looking forward to the black rose thing, the scorps aren't my age...2 are in their twenties and 1 is a few years older than me(why do I always attract older men??)

Again thanks everyone 🙂

'it somehow applies to all worldviews...'

You got it.

'I have much more to say concerning this, but will save it for a more related message board.'

I'm going to do the same haha, I believe I could go on till I died.