Some advice needed

Heya guys (and girls),

I've been reading a lot on the Scorpio-bord since I've got involved with one.. And I need a bit of help right now.
I won't bore you with all the details, but three months after seeing him many times and contact everyday he started to act hold and cold.

Now were six months further and at the moment he has withdrawn himself since we've spend last Christmaseve together.
After Newyearseve he texted me for the last time and I haven't heard from him since.

The last time when I saw him he admitted that he pulls himself away sometimes, so I thought that he needed some space.
But after a month I start to lose my patience. Is it a bad thing to send him a short text to ask how he's doing?

He has his sun, venus en mars in Scorpio and his moon is in Gemini.
I'm a Capricorn with an Scorpio moon and ascendant, but my venus and mars are in Aquarius and Saggitarius.

I would really appreciate your advice 🙂

Haha, well sometimes it's like playing Russian roulette... He could be excited, but at other times he might stay distant.
I don't know what it is, but sometimes it's like I have a mechanism to react the same way as he does. He has also said
that he recognizes some parts of his own character in me.

But back to what you've said.. I could at least give it a try and need to stop overlooking things, I guess.

Thanks!! I think I'll wait 'til the weekend, still haven't convinced myself hahaha.

He passively dumped you, that stings but yeah if I were you I'd forget about a man that ignores, that's not a good sign, it's over for him but hey that's just me, good luck though.

@tiki33 I'm not sure if that's the case, because this happened another time end than
he was like "I thought you were done with me". He also never ignored me when I tried to
contact him. But thanks anyway.

@libraCUSPscorpio I think you're just right, I'll just give it a try. But what bothers me that everytime when he opens up a little he just disappears.. Mostly after a few days
or even weeks he'll send something by himself.

you havent heard from him in 30 days?? hell naw. i cosign with Tiki.

I'm not sure if that's the case, because this happened another time end than
he was like "I thought you were done with me". He also never ignored me when I tried to
contact him. But thanks anyway

i do this when i forgot about someone and they call me. to spare their feelings and to put the awkwardness to rest i use that line. totally diverts attention away from my obvious intent to forget about the other person and trips up the other person into thinking they messed up.

to men, they will pick up if they can still get N. if u catch my drift. when women call me, imo, it takes all the guesswork out for the guy. no risk, he knows he stands a very good chance of getting N.

@DMV that other time we ended up in some sort of fight, because he was jealous about something he didn't need to be jealous of. He then said that he didn't want to see me anymore, so I deleted him from my facebook. A week after that fight I accidently saw him at the cinema (thank god he didn't notice me), and two weeks after that I send him a card on his birthday. It was around the same time my grandfather was diagnosed that he had cancer. After that was known the scorpio supported me 24/7. So that's why I'm mixed up about it. This last time I saw him I thought we were having both a great time.

@QUIETstorm thanks for your insights. Yesterday I send him a short message and he answered within ten minutes. Because I was at a friends house I haven't responded right away and thats why he asked me 'what are you doing?'. This morning he has also send messages and asks a lot.

I think it wasn't such a bad idea after all.