tangled up along with 2 scorpios

the last 48 hours have been very outlandish and difficult. almost like a dream,i am feeling literally like the hulk.ready to explode at the slightest trip.damn!
ok, let me take in a few minutes to write this damn thing down.

there is a scorpio friend(yes the same man who has been my best buddy from childhood).
and there was his gf(scorpio) of an on and off relationship that has had more ups and downs than the freaking himalayas.i have seen them fight and make up from the periphery,but tried to keep myself away from the heat of it all.
because its their matter not mine, the scorpio follows the same rule for me.we might help sometimes but not to the point of interfering.this time they pulled me into the storm.i tried to stay at a safe distance. they were having a spat,she said that he was unfaithful to her(now how am i supposed to help here?drrr). he obviously denied. i simply asked for tangible proof or some kind of evidence atleast.
she could not prove anything substantial,i figured it was her possessive and jealous nature rearing its head again.i knew it had happened before and then she cooled down, so i assumed it must go down the same pattern again.

she got more and more animated, so i suggested that they both should be apart for some time, to cool themselves down and think over the matter with a cool head.(what the matter was exactly is still with the jury,but now i am positive that she was making it up, for ulterior motives).
my friend said he was out,he left my place and i said to her tat she may go to any place she thinks fit to relax.krakatoa must have exploded the second time on me.drr
she didnt leave,she just kept sitting on the couch and instead turned on teli.i was quite surprised by her calmness after all this.but ag it was my home,my place, excuse me?!
i tried to ask in a gentle manner, whether she will go home now?(that after one hour of her watching teli).she said she feels scared,and wants to stay. i let her stay there, and went to my room to finish some work i had to leave half way.

i can see where this is going

(all this typing is making me insane now )
anyway,i'll cut this into one short para now,enough crap already.
she had started drinking from my wine collection(FUCK!).by the time i returned to see if she was now interested in leaving, she was already down on one.that time i certainly felt very disturbed.this was not going right way.i tried to talk some sense into her for another hour,but she just didnt repond,she kept listening,but did nothing.just staring at me.i was already tired,and wanted rest,but she was not moving her ass out.in exasperation i told her to do whatever the fck she wanted and that i am going to bed now.enough shit. she said>>dont leave,i need a stable man like you.
at this point,iwas positive that this is going crazy.so i texted him to come back take her away,anywhere,just away.

i cant write like this marathon ,so eventually she tried to get frisky with me instead.which is sick indeed SB.very sick. she turning into what i call a scorpio manipulator bitch.
i had to force her out of my house the moment she tried close in,i could see her eyes going glazy,that was a red flag.her behaviour changed dramatically after he left.i could sense it.it has created a very odd situation for me now.i cannot say if my friend thinks that i was a party with her,but his behaviour has changed.that crazy woman has created a rift.i feel very angry right now.she knew i was engaged,she knew who i was engaged to,still she did that.sick

Thank god. I was going to suggest that you call your friend and get her out of there.



i thank my stars for my that.i took notice of her odd behaviour soon.crazy woman.what was she thinking? swingers or someth?

Wow!!!

i dont know why he still goes after her,she left him once for many years and did not come back.as soon as she got back,he went to her again.but i am slightly thankfull for that. she is tantrum thrower,attention whore type.they fight regularly,but he will still remain with her.
now i am sure to cut her off,i dont do shitheads.but he is my friend,she has ruined a part there.right now i just want her being dumped somewhere.

She has something against Nyx.



i thought about that.can be.jealousy is not ruled out at any time with her.she can be deviously jealous of even a rock.and i think she put too much leverage into her looks and sex appeal,which obiviously cannot do anything for me.what does she think,men have no minds?

they are,which is why i kept myself at the fringe.i couldnt tell him to leave her.that has not worked ever.i was not the direct target earlier,but not it came strait at me.she had decided on it.stupid bitch.she is in for a backlash,better stay away from me now.

he is to blame too,agreed.i know i ignored her presence,just so that he may learn it the heard way afterall.because other ways he wont listen.but she as an individual trespassed on my personal space.this is her fault in totality.i never imagined she would stoop this low.

SB said it

i dont know what is up with my stars right now.i have been the recipent of 3 different females advances in the last week.first my leo ex shows up,bumped into her at a corp party,she then called me up after a few days and said she wants to hook up.i point blank told her that i was attached,so no.
then same happened with a cap who i know from a long time.

have you heard about the concept of a reasonable man? everything cannot be done perfectly.i knew they had to be apart for sometime so i thought she might leave seperately.which she obviously did not.
as i said,i usually try to stay away from getting caught up between fighting friends or family,but came to my place,i didnt invite them,as i said,it was beyond my wildest dreams that she would try to do this thing.couples fight,but this doesnt happen all the time.

in all reasonableness,i dont think i made a fault.

its pretzel pisces,you know only half the tangles of it.anyway,i see my relationship getting tested like this.i know its a lesson,i know i did the right thing.and i know my friend will see the light one day.he needs to let go of the crap.and if this friendship breaks now,then maybe it was not that strong afterall.
i think i have cooled down a bit now.i am grateful that my fiance is an angel🙂

K, I'm clearly not gonna read all that.


You're still with Nyx thought right? That's all I desire to know.

thought = though

SS,

I believe these two Aussies are still together... DTN: "i am grateful that my fiance is an angel..."

oh ok! whew....thanks, d.


::sighs with relief::

i think nyx should shoot her.

i would.

and then disembowel her and feed the entrails to my pet rat and then wait for the rat to shit her out and then set her on fire. see if shit burns muahahahhahah.

that should do the trick.


you never fail to amuse me🙂

so,i finally cleared the air with the scorpio friend,it took me two days to cool myself down.haahaa! what drama they have created.
i went to his place straight,and sms'd him that i am comming to talk to him.(you dont give options to scorpios when you want to straighten them up).
as i thought,she was there,but it wasnt going to change my mind on anything.she was there,it was going to be her problem,not mine,afterall she was the perpetrator.i didnt even want to sit there in the same room with her,i was so damn disgusted.drr

i went straight out and told him this to summarize all my pent up anger,and give a jolt to him>> "your fcking gf is a nutcase,and i am not going to take this shit from both of you now.you can gladly stay with her,and even butt your heads to death,but dont expect me to show up or negotiate.and if you do stay with her,i must say that one part of my respect for you has evaporated into thin air,because i'll be certain that you have also lost your marbles.she is a parasite,she is sucking your brains out and destroying your relationship with others.not only that now she wanted to blow up my relationship too.what was she thinking?that i am some dick driven idioot? and what the hell is wrong with you?have you joined a swingers club or something?she was the one trying to cheat one you,but she tried the wrong person"

there were even more things said,but this one i had thought about,how i would go about destroying her.step one. she tried to intervene to save her ass,obviously,but this is not her bf,if she took my tolerance for moderate mild nature,she was going to have reality check. everytime she would open her mouth, i shut her up,her time to speak was over now.stupid bitch.

at the end,nothing was working for her,so she started weeping.but i was done.the scorpio friend went silent again.which was a good sign,i know that from knowing him all these years.anyway i left the place,more like stormed out,because i felt like strangling her right there.what a dramaqueen attentionwhore! if i ever see her again on my turf,she is going get a hard lesson from me.

i feel so much better now,i talked to nyx all along,she has a calming effect on me,keeps the lid from blowing.i have decided that if my friend is still going to stay with that ho,then i'll just have to cut him off.its difficult because we know each other from childhood and even our families are connected.but i see no other option then.

I take it you didn't sleep with the Scorp then...



usually i'd be cracking a joke here, but seriously,i'd rather feed her to haai(great white) than sleep with her.

ok. I know a few aqua/scorp bff relationships...they are really good together as friends.
Hopefully all will be all right eventually. Give each other distance....I know as men, you all should be just fine.

aha! film it? haahaa! i am sure you can even arrange a background score for it🙂

nyx is the calmer one in our relationship.whenever she loses it,its got to be something very extreme and serious.my cute cucumber😛

doo DAH! That sounds like quite a scene, devil! OMG I can just picture the whole thing....and with the girlfriend there no less. Well, good for you. You had the ballz to do the right thing by your friend and for your relationship. You're my new hero !!



so can i get a cheerleading team now?😛,with you as the leader of the cheer😉
i knew it would be difficult to handle the situation,but i knew that offence was the way to go,both of them needed a verbal slap,she even needed a physical one if you ask me.but obviously i am not THAT cruel.😛

🙂😉

I can think of 10 different ways you could have handled that badly. But you took the direct route and handled a really bad situation perfectly



i did an assessment,yes,it could go wrong in so many ways.
if i had remained silent>>*buzzer*wrong answer
if i had started on defensive>>*buzzer* wrong answer
if i had ignored it>>*screeching buzzer*worst possible answer

haahaa,now that i have cooled down,it does look funny🙂

Alright Devil,

I just read this, I couldn't read it yesterday because I didn't want my Manager to catch me.

I didn't mean to bring this back up, but I have to respond ...

DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What a nightmare. Dude, my situation was sort of simular (back in December) BUT I was dealing with TWO freaking scorpio girls. When they can together it like one whole creature from the swamp or something like that.

Anyway back to you, how darn she do that — I'm sure she was aware that you had a girlfriend but just like a "skank" she didn't care. Yeah, she started that whole situation on purpose. Ohhhhhh how wicked was that. Man, see -- this proves that having roommates sucks! And her boyfriend (your friend) let her there with you? Ummm, that was a VERY BAD move on his part. You never leave a woman alone with another man after you've just had a fight with her!!!!!!

i think nyx should shoot her.

HELL YES!!!! I agree! Too bad Nyx wasn't there, I'm sure she would've knew her place I betcha!

I sorry you had to go through that man, life is hard enough without crazy/ negative people. Now, when you add crazy/ negative people to the mix life can be unbearable.

Okay, now I understand why you wanted me to stop all the negativity 🙂 Alright, I get it.