Taurus Girl & Scorpio Male

Please any advice would help translating his words....

I've been seeing a scorpio male for only 2 weeks. We get along awesome. But, he has made a few mistakes along the way that were kinda bad...I said I would only continue to see him if we were exclusive. He said if that's what I wanted we could be exclusive. Anyway, he kinda made we upset the other day and I said we shouldn't talk anymore. He said why don't we just take a break. I said no. but a few days later I regretted my decision and texted him I couldn't possibly not talk to him anymore. I said we should just take a long break. Last night I texted him to ask him how he feels about me...he said "I dont know how I feel."..."how about you?" I am not sure what this means as in the past he has said that I am a super awesome girl, I really like you alot, and it's hard to find people you really get a long with. In response to his question I said "we have a really good connection...and maybe I am confused too." I was too scared to lay it on the line and tell him I really dig him. I am quite a bit older (way older in fact and I know the age thing kinda scares him). So, how do I hook him completely—? Do i just give him time and he'll make up his mind— Do you think he knows how I feel but just wants to hear me say it— I'm confused please any advice would help me to the utmost. Thanks!

Thanks Madalena for your insight....its hard but i'm taking your advice and laying low...I hope he comes around...

why would you ask him to be exclusive after only two weeks?

you guys are both being stubborn. somebody has to speak from the heart and put themselves out there or you guys wont get anywhere. i never understood this "lets take a break" thing. it would leave me feeling so unsettled and unsure if we were still together or if he was running off with other girls for the weekend. if you're in a relationship it's ok to be pissed off and leave each other alone for a couple days and talk when you've cooled down. dont be so melodramatic and "take breaks" every single time something happens

Ok...I didn't want to be too long winded but here it goes....we weren't exclusive and he kissed someone I knew at a party I had....so I said the only way I'd be comfortable still being together is if we didn't have other outside influences coming in so we could explore what we felt for each other and what we wanted. Unfortunately, he asked me to come over sunday night to play board games...he kept touching me and hugging me and complimented my pj's but I was cold to him as...I guess I wanted him to show some emotion tward me...all I got was cold right back... I laid it all on the line...told him that I really liked him and that I just didn't want to be friends...and that it hurt me when he talked about his ex and other women in front of me...I said "if you are not feeling it...than we should just be free to date other people" and he agreed. That's what's happend with all of the scorpios I've hung with....they never want anything serious...it's funny....yet, he always answers my calls...even though we are supposed to be on break...I told him I need to just start dating other people so that I won't like him more than a friend anymore and that we need "a break" he said "I thought you were over that" meaning liking him....typical scorpio thing to say...both my parents are Scorps and I've heard my father say that more than once...as if you can just get rid of or erase feelings instantaneously...Anyway, I texted him telling him exactly how I feel...straight forward...no games...and he said "than we need a break....don't you agree..." Swift as that, cold as that...with no feeling at all...in my text I added that I started dating someone....this guy Josh...which I have started seeing again...and he texted "who's Josh"...I'm not reading too much into it because I know how curious scorpios are....so, yes I'm sad....I love Scorpio's they are so loyal...... Ok we just talked I knew something was fishy sunday night when he bolted from our trivial pursuit game.. his ex called and he met her...he said that's the only thing that could have ever made him leave the game we were playing (I think he meant "the only thng that could have made him leave me" but please correct me if I'm reading what he said wrong)...he said he was not over his ex and he couldn't committ yet...he says it wasn't me...it is the fact that when he makes someone his girlfriend he wants to go "full force" and he couldn't give that to me right now....does this mean in the future we may have a chance.

And btw....thanks for the advice I luv ewe...I am sooo melodramatic....it's terrible...I have a sun in taurus, an rising in taurus and a Gemini moon....I think its the Gemini part that really does it too me...LOL!🙂

Thanks purpledot for your advice...its not that I didn't appriciate your advice...b cuz I did..I'm just a steadfast
Taurus...U Know...lol...I am dating the other guy...and for some reason I'm still gonna hang in there with my Scorp man...as friends...I have this weird feeling he's gonna come around...he's just not ready...normally, I'd be outta there already...but we have amazing fun together...I mean a really good time....so maybe sometime he'll be ready...I just realize this is not the time....and so...tonight I told him thanks for the nice things he said about me....of course not expecting a response, because it doesn't really matter anymore...but he texted back "what r U doing?' because i know he misses me...he just can't express it outrightly like us Tauruses. He told me about a show tommorow night...but didn't directly ask me to go...its that
Scorp thing again...but even though us Tauruses don't possess the intuitiveness that Scorpios do...I really think he wanted me to say "hey that sounds good I wanna go" so he could say..."for sure!" I may be completely wrong here but.....that's where all of you have helped with your advice....btw...when he kissed that other girl....he point blank said "I was scared of the age thing" it always takes a big mess up from him to just "out with it" its weird I know.....