I'm a scorpio sexually involved with a Taurus man

So I found this site after much googling about Scorpios and Taurus.

My Taurus and I are not in a committed relationship, in fact he told me that the chance of us being " together" is not posssible simply because he said we're incompatible. I don't really know what I did to prompt him to say this, but apparently he felt that he doesn't want a relationship even though he does see marriage in 10 years time.

If Tureans are brutally honest, then am I just setting myself to get hurt in the long run knowing that I will be nothing more than a FWB?

BTW, He broke up with his ex of two years last Oct and had been in a FWB previously.

I know Tureans are hedonists ( and his personality right now goes really well with my Scorpio passion) but he has told me he doesn't really want to be a hedonist ( as they are selfish). Yet, what he's doing with is selfish.

I haven't been honest with him about my feelings since I'm absolutely scared of rejection, but supposedly if I do manage to be patient with him and wait him out, what are the chances that he'll come around and want to be with me?

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
We are incompatible.he isn't kidding or lying.......you are just asking for a lot of pain :\
Chemistry is always great,but that's all there is.sorry. 😢

I know. And the thing is that we had a conversation together last night while we were in bed together.

He said that he do want good things for me and that I shouldn't be afraid to love. I asked him who I should love then, and it felt like a slap to my face when he said there are 2.5 billion people in the world and I was bound to find someone.

I'm so upset right now.

And the thing was I told him that if chances were that I do develop stronger feelings for him I would never want to see him again. But then he went and replied " So, we're not going to see each other anymore?" in a way that sounded like he was upset about it.

The thing is he is so affectionate. He hugs and flirts and is always so playful with me, yet he tells me that the reason we're incompatible was that he's looking for a woman who was more driven in life. His ex was driven he said so himself that she was a planner and had marriage and family planned, so then why would he stupidly break up with her over " complacency"?

I guess I'm just in denial.

I don't know what to do now.

Unfortunately, I agree with the others because I will take this a step further and say it's not necessarily just a Taurus male thing, it's a male thing. Men (typically) say what they mean and mean what they say. Women are the ones that take what is said and try to spin it to suit what they want it too. I agree w/Bella, that I'm sorry you are hurting, and while I'm one of the very few women that I know who can have a physical relationship with a man and not want it to go any further; 99.9% of women are NOT wired this way. Save yourself some time, tears and hurt and find someone who is wanting the same things that you want: a committed, monogamous, loving relationship, because if you keep trying to make something work with someone who doesn't want to be there...it's usually prolonging the inevitable. The longer it goes on, the more it will hurt.

Let me qualify one thing - men CAN lie to get something they want, but if they DON'T want a relationship, they will be fairly clear about that, even if they continue having sex with you.

Posted by xpaperxcutx
So I found this site after much googling about Scorpios and Taurus.

My Taurus and I are not in a committed relationship, in fact he told me that the chance of us being " together" is not posssible simply because he said we're incompatible. I don't really know what I did to prompt him to say this, but apparently he felt that he doesn't want a relationship even though he does see marriage in 10 years time.

He made it pretty clear.

If Tureans are brutally honest, then am I just setting myself to get hurt in the long run knowing that I will be nothing more than a FWB?

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Yes...

ah! i love taurus men for this very reason... i do find that blunt honesty to be incredibly sexy.

^^^It's a blessing AND a curse ninjamu 😉