Taurus Scorpio Dying flame

I am a taurus dating a scorpio guy. We have a fun, exciting relationship that is filled with spontaneity and a wonderful and unforgettable sex life. When I first met him he had told me he was cheated on in his last relationship and I saw some insecurities and trust issues. I thought that in time he would be able to look past this and trust me. But one night he shows up at my house and says he wanted to surprise me. He was drilling me with questions and acted as if he wanted to catch me in the act. I couldn't take the way he was acting and yelled at him. He was very angry and we didnt talk for a month. I started to move on and went on a date with another guy. He is very sweet but I am having a hard time getting my scorpio out of my head. The connection with him was undeniable. But just when I started feeling okay without him he reaches out to me. It was a month from out argument and he tells me how hurt he was by the things i had said. We talked it out and have been speaking on and off. I feel like he has been emotionally distant and am afraid that this is turning into a sexual relationship. Is this relationship fixable? Will we ever get back to the emotional part of the relationship again? I need advice because if I need to move on then I don't want to keep pushing this new guy away. I'd love to make it work with my scorpio though..

I cheated on both my scorpios and they still want me in certain ways but realize I'm incapable of giving them what they really need.

So for that little argument I'm sure you can repair it. But he may always be scared cause of the tramatic past. But maybe your love can be strong enough to kill the fear.


That sounded so gay.

I guess I'm unsure how to fix this. I feel as though he has alot of responsibilites and started school again. Maybe there is no time for us? I wish I could get this guy out of my head.

Posted by taurusxm18
I am a taurus dating a scorpio guy. We have a fun, exciting relationship that is filled with spontaneity and a wonderful and unforgettable sex life. When I first met him he had told me he was cheated on in his last relationship and I saw some insecurities and trust issues. I thought that in time he would be able to look past this and trust me. But one night he shows up at my house and says he wanted to surprise me. He was drilling me with questions and acted as if he wanted to catch me in the act. I couldn't take the way he was acting and yelled at him. He was very angry and we didnt talk for a month. I started to move on and went on a date with another guy. He is very sweet but I am having a hard time getting my scorpio out of my head. The connection with him was undeniable. But just when I started feeling okay without him he reaches out to me. It was a month from out argument and he tells me how hurt he was by the things i had said. We talked it out and have been speaking on and off. I feel like he has been emotionally distant and am afraid that this is turning into a sexual relationship. Is this relationship fixable? Will we ever get back to the emotional part of the relationship again? I need advice because if I need to move on then I don't want to keep pushing this new guy away. I'd love to make it work with my scorpio though..

First of all I want to tell you CONGRATULATIONS for not taking bullshit from the insecure Scorp!! I also applaud the fact that you moved on while he was having a tantrum and ignored you for a month for pointing out disrespectful behavior. Yes, you will not forget how he touched you emotionally, but you were able to forget about him which is another great thing. DO NOT push the nice guy away, because I can assure you this Scorp knows he fucked up, and he's feeling quite insecure and may even pull the "beg" routine. Once he has you back he'll treat you like shit again and throw this other guy in your face almost daily as a reminder of "how dare you not wait for me to get over my tantrum" routine. Not worth it..and you'll regret not staying with the nice guy. Don't say I didn't warn you. I wish you luck! 🙂

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Posted by Sag89
I cheated on both my scorpios and they still want me in certain ways but realize I'm incapable of giving them what they really need.

So for that little argument I'm sure you can repair it. But he may always be scared cause of the tramatic past. But maybe your love can be strong enough to kill the fear.


That sounded so gay.

no it didn't.

I have nothing to add....but I really like this.

For someone to be mature enough to say you walked away because you realized you couldn't give him what he really needed is epic.

To also walk away because you value yourself enough to know that he probably couldn't get past the trauma......is also epic.

Too many people hold on due to "wants" and rarely can someone step outside of themselves and evaluate real "needs"....for themselves (especially) and for the other person.

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🙂 thanks eL

Thanks so much Ellybean. I guess time will tell at this point. If he wants this to work he will make it happen and I need to realize that this could take some time. I will definitely let the chips fall where they may. Sometimes it feels like we move two steps forward and one step back everytime. I'm afraid that I'm not ready to let him go and am trying so hard to move forward with the libra/scorpio(New guy). I'm taking my time with him and feel like my hearts not in it yet. This new guy has told me that he is searching for a relationship, we have alot in common but will the spark be there? I sure hope so. Do I need time before I can start something new? I feel that maybe my wants are holding me back from my needs. My needs may not be met with my scorpio man.

From what I read I'm a Taurus III which is between May 11-18 and my Scorpio is Scorpio I Oct 25-Nov 2. This new guy is Libra/Scorpio Cusp October 22 birthday. And I read that scorpios work better with a taurus. but these specific break downs tell a little more about the personalities. It says I could get along with both but interesting enough it says we both could work. my cusp guy may be better in friendship and intellectually while the scorpio is apparently better in relationships because of our deep passion. So I guess I'm about to deal with very opposite men. hahhaa