tell me a love story

any scorpio women out there with a cancer man ? i'm interested to hear how you all got together...

is that REALLY necessary?

Just wait Scorpiogem, there are a few on here who have dated cancer men. They will come 🙂

'The really odd thing, I'm always thinking about work when I'm not at work. Checking emails and such. But I'm writing this profile update while I'm at work. I go to meetings quite often too, or attend them by conferencing in remotely. So much that I actually have my companies meeting line programmed into my Myfavs. how about that?'

umm yeah.

thank you darling.

so you're a moron too. get off my thread.

I was married to a cancer..

"There are two things I don't do. Read minds, and listen to women"

wow, like really wow, you sound like the biggest loser... *shakes head*

well, wow, you all are so candid and sweet with your input.
nothing is happening with this cancer yet, but this might be our second time around. We work together, started our job at the same time, sparks flew right away, we slept together the first chance we got. I don't necessarily subscribe or support getting involved with co-workers, but it was very strong for both of us. At the time I was heavily drinking, and if there are any Scorps out there who have dealt with this know that it can f*ck up your life and the lives of those who love you. Anyway, I am 6 years older than him, and at the time of us first meeting , I was still a bit of an ageist///////...the list is too long. Long story short I got really carried away with my feelings, largely due to the fact that I was in a really bad place, I MEAN REALLY BAD. I freaked him out and he jumped ship. I don't blame him. We work together and that is a disaster in itself. He started dating someone else pretty quickly after, and my heart was broken. ***more drinking*** He dated this girl for almost two years and they just broke up. He plans on moving across the country in about a month. I looked a the calendar at work and saw "jdjdh's last day", and there were all of these residual feelings pouring out of me. Granted this has been 2 years since the first time around, and since then I have completely stopped drinking and evolved to a level I never dreamed I could. He says he sees this, and it inspires him.
I have learned to let go of a lot of false beliefs that I once had about myself and relationships, and in doing this have become open to...well, everything. I have very little expectations for the next month and am happy to just see what happens.

"Dont read minds or listen to women"

Haha Nice One :-)

so far so good....

"When I was involved with virgo man, what surprised me the most that they appeared so soft, but they have the hardest inner..."

OMG!! Is that ever the truth!!

"When I was involved with virgo man, what surprised me the most that they appeared so soft, but they have the hardest inner..."

I have the hardest time with Virgo men because of that. I've never met so many wanting to be somebody else and abusing their time on earth as a means to an end.
Their so completely mind identified that they cannot see who they really are, or if they do, they don't accept and deny. Any tie to their emotions are dismissed. I had many wonderful Virgos around me, don't get me wrong, I love em. It can't be easy being stuck in a mid life crisis your whole life.

Ok, ok back to the Cancers.