The Scorpion & The Goat

Could someone give me some detailed insight into the typical dynamics between female Scorpios and male Capricorns? I ask because most of the information I've dug up on this subject only deals very broadly with Scorpio & Capricorn; as opposed to FEMALE Scorpio + MALE Capricorn. I have a very strange relationship with a Goat, we are good friends which sometimes fight, yet have a whole lot of sexual chemistry. I'm wondering where I should go with this, astrologically speaking. Thanks for your help! By the way, is this a British board? I am from the U.S., so I was just curious.

Hey Phoenix!

I don't think this is a bad combination...

"Scorpio and Capricorn will spend most of their time together discussing their individual and mutual hopes, dreams and wishes, and although they'll be in general agreement regarding the nature of their goals in life, they may not be in complete agreement as to the ideal methods of achieving them. They both secretly desire to be respected, they both aspire to a quiet kind of power behind the scenes over their sphere in life...;yet, the Goat may deplore Scorpio's inner intensity, believing it to be a waste of vital energy, while Scorpio may think the Goat lacks sentiment and sensitivity. Still, they're both practical-minded enough to consider their divergent methods of achievement of far less importance than success or failure in the final analysis, and once they decide to trust each other, they can intermingle their abilities to increase their chances of the former.
Fortunately, the Goat will receive the retaliatory sting of the Scorpion somewhat less frequently than others, and will find those few stings easier to shrug off.....
Scorpio is likely to understand and be patient with Capricorn's Saturnine broodings, for Scorpio is also susceptible to spells of inexplicable depression...
Scorpio's compulsive secrecy will not normally be a cause of friction between them, for Capricorn is seldom fascinated by anyone's secrets. The Goat is invariably bored with any variation of a guessing game. Unless there is a Cancer or Scorpio Moon sign or Ascendent, Capricorns will ignore Valentines signed 'Guess Who?', the reaction will probably be a polite yawn...
The Goat's lack of interest, however, is not synonymous with a lack of caring...."

Sound anything like you two?

Take Care!
P.S. I don't know if this is a British board...there are friends of mine from the US on here and also from the UK...
Star

This part is specific to a female Scorpion and a male Capricorn:

"His Saturnine aura magentizes a Lady (Scorpion). The Goat is a great deal like herself, and that's why she feels strangely secure when he's near___even across the room, before they really know each other. She won't allow him to be aware of how she feels right away. In fact, she may exert all her considerable self-control to make it appear that she doesn't realize he even exists. He may sense that she's looking at him, but the moment he looks back, her eyes are gazing in another direction, and he believes he only imagined she was looking his way. He didn't imagine it.

Oops! I clicked the wrong thing and sent it...I wasn't done!

...."She was lookingwhen she thought he wasn't looking. Later, when she's decided she's tortured him long enough, she'll not only look at him, she'll stare at him, with a steady gaze that flusters his poise, and it is not a small thing to possess the ability to fluster a Capricorn's poise. She possesses it.
He is intrigued....
It isn't easy to make a Scorpio's heart turn over, especially suddenly. But this man's soft eyes and shy grin can do it. The quiet wisdom behind his calmness helps too. And this is how the Goat and the Scorpion fall in love. Never noticeably, almost soundlessly.
The Goat is, by nature, undeniably possessive once a commitment has been made that symbolizes his attempt to make a relationship a permanent thing. The Scorpio woman won't be happy about this, since it is her own exclusive right. It could be interesting when she discovers it works both ways....
the way to deal with a possessive person is to make that person know, beyond all doubt or speculation, that he (or she) is wholly loved___and to do so frequently.
Sexually, the Scorpio woman will enrich her Capricorn lover or husband' emotional spectrum of awareness. He is stirred into feelings he never experienced before by the depth of her physical need to give__and to receive. And she will feel comfortable with him___in a cozy way. His quiet strength and soothing gentleness calm the unnamed fears that haunt her, and that lie behind all her mystery. She may sometimes wish he would be more imaginative, more verbally expressive in his lovemaking...he may sometimes feel she expects too much of him....
this man and this woman are friends, as well as lovers, and so they should talk things over more often, with honesty. It clears the air, and allows them to be themselves with each other. Both of them tend to hide their real selves from the curious and uncaring, but the moment of Oneness is not a time to be anything but real. It's a time to trust all the way, to do___and to say___whatever is true. These two are both experts in self-discipline, self-control, and may need to learn that controlled passion is not the way to discover fulfillment in mating with the one you love. A change of scene, whether it's a new residence or a trip, is often the miracle these lovers need to refresh their emotional energies."

Ok...I hope that helped some!
Star

hi fellow us citizen and scorpio female...you are not alone in this one. I have an almost identical situation w/ a capricorn boy. just be prepared that it may last a lifetime and get in the way of many other possible relationships, for it is a bond like no other.

Hi everyone

Sorry to intervene but I am a capricorn lady involved with a scorpion male. A lot of these comments seem to relate vis-a-vis in my relationship. Would be grateful for any extra insight.

Hey!

I will get back to you...not enough time today...

There are some similarities, yes...definitely, but, for some reason the Scorpio male and Capricorn woman relationship is just a bit more complicated...but, it can still work!

Hopefully, I can get back to you tomorrow...
Have a good day and think good thoughts!
Star

Wow you guys...thank you SO MUCH!!! That's awesome, Star, and everyone, that you responded with such information! It really does help a lot.

Now, I need to update you all on a couple things. My Goat friend and I had a discussion, where everything was brought out into the open--we both admitted our attraction to each other (which is quite strong) and the fact that we have that whole sexual chemistry thing. However, he has been dating soeone for two weeks, and I have been dating someone, but not seriously. Now, my Capricorn thinks that we should be "friends with benefits", if you know what I mean, and I want the whole thing. I don't want to be the other woman. Honestly, I think I am in love with him. In fact, I pretty much know I am. I am just completely distraught over his lack of feeling toward me! And I must tell you, we shared a few kissing sessions, a couple years ago, which was incredible, but neither of us knew what to do with our feelings so we just separated. I just don't know what to do at this point. I asked him why he didn't think I was worth more than just being his "friend-with-benefits", and he said, "your worth isn't the issue. we should just do this and let the chips fall where they may". This is all quite confusing. So I hope you all don't think I'm a bad person after this, I really am trying to figure out the right thing to do...

I find that men always think sex should be tried...they think it is part of the compatiblity test! LOL! Women do not think this way.

I don't think he is trying to hurt you or is saying that is 'all' he wants..it sounds like he has been hurt before and is guarding his feelings...

I must admit..I started out as friends and then 'friends with benefits' (my idea) and now a serious relationship with my guy...
But, we have both been hurt and, for us, it just seemed a natural progression...

Do what you feel comfortable with...
Just stay friends if that is what is best for you...
Star

To the Female Capricorn:

It must have just been the way I was thinking as I was reading...because it does look like it could also work well with a female Cap and a male Scorp...
The female Cap seems to bring out his protective qualities...

Too tired from working long hours!
Hope you are well!
Star

Message to Star from Cap female

Thanks for the info. Would be grateful if you could tell me where you find out all the info you so willingly give to us all. Its just that I would love to know more about this relationship and dont mind spending time trying to find it out - just dont know where to look.

Many thanks for all your help Star.

H

Star, I just want to thank you for being so helpful and forthcoming with all of your information! You sound like a professional astrologer...are you? And to the female Capricorn: I wish you luck with your situation, and wish I could also provide some info for you; however, I don't know enough about astrology to feel comfortable doing so! = )
By the way, I told my male Cap friend that I needed some time to collect my thoughts on his proposition, as there are so many possibilities I am thinking about--some good; some not so good. He was good about it, he said that he understands but would like an answer one way or the other "soon", and he thinks there's "no point in fighting it; it's inevitable". LOL. Alright. So when he comes back in a week from his trip, I have decided that I need to have come to a firm decision by that time. No stress here, right? LOL. So, Star, any additional advice you might have for me is greatly appreciated; I think it is so nice that you take the time to do this! By the way, how do you think the fact that I have Libra as my rising sign factors in to all of this? Well, that's it for now, but I will be eagerly checking back! = )

Heather

Linda Goodman (my favorite astrologer, who is no longer alive, much to my sadness) wrote "Love Signs" which is where the information I provided came from. It is still available in book stores.

Star

Heather,

Thanks, but the only credit I deserve is having an interest in astrology and taking the time to share.

Take Care!
Star

Star,

Right on, Linda Goodman is also my favorite astrologer! I have her book "Sun Signs", which I thought was (and continues to be) a great read. I will be sure to pick up "Love Signs"...I've actually seen that one before and for whatever reason didn't buy it, but I really liked what you posted here and so I will be taking a little trip to B&N ASAP!

Take care,
Heather