They say u never know till u try - should i?

People, i need some "tough talk" 🙂

Right now i am soo overwhelmed with emotion that i am almost ready to cry! (and it is really hard to get me to do that!)

Here is my sob story...
Sometime at the end of last year i met someone and he was my mr.perfect!
It was a long distance mail thing. At the time we were both really busy with our own lives (me with my job and him with his bschool applications) and frankly even though i knew he was so perfect for me i could not stop myself from taking the "I will
sit here and if he doesnt extend his hand and pull me to the dance floor then he can go his own way!" kind of attitude.

I guess with soo many things happening in life i did not think that mr.perfect's are a one time phenomenon! 🙂
Also maybe i was not convinced that he liked me. He never told me that either(except for subtle hints!).
I guess, i wanted to run off before i got burnt beyond repair!!

Anyways, for some such vague reason i thought it would not work out and i told him so. We parted ways and moved on!

Now it is 10 months since and i havent been able to get him off my mind no matter how hard i try! (Gosh!!)

Recently i was visiting some b-school sites and i saw his name up there in the students list and that reopened this whole "cant get him off my mind" thing all over again!
I simply have to do something, else i am afraid i will end up spending months in a dark room crying my eyes out! 🙂

Now i am thinking maybe i was too hasty and did not give it time.

Do you people think it is a good idea to write to him?
Will he completley loose respect for me and take me for a baby if i do? (cause right now i feel like shaking myself up real good till my brains beg me to stop!🙂)

He is a scorp and since i have started visiting this site and reading some of the characteristic behaviour traits of scorp men, i think he is a typical scorp!

Any suggestions? Or anyone have anything to tell me—?

TIA,
Me

Tia Me?,

You made me smile! Thank you!!!

I would say you need to get in touch with them immediately!

Listen to your heart and tell him everything you told us here on this board. More than anything, I respect honesty in a person!!! You can be a complete geek, but if you are honest with me, I will hold you in very high esteem!

Please, follow your own path and don't try and analyze every single move you make. Just let your heart go wild!!!

Sincerely,
Scorpion lady

I think that you need to contact him, give him a chance, you never know when he has been thinking of you too. I think that you need to let him know why u skipped out the first time and then see what he has to say and try to make amends. IT NEVER HURTS TO TRY.

-Scorpio Woman-

I thinks that you should try to write him or talk to him, but I you may have to give him time to come around. I feel that scorps can hold grudges and they have very deep feelings. You have to let him come around. Let him call the shots. I was with a scorp and he got very upset because i didn't show my feelings for him or open up to him. If he ever says he loves you, it is true. Hope this helps and good luck!

Thanks everyone!
I appreciate your response!
I think i will take the advice and contact him. Afterall whats the worst that can happen, right!? 🙂

I will keep my fingers crossed and hope for the best! 🙂

Me

If you do not take action. If you do not take the time to confront your feelings for him will stay inside of you. And even more frightfully fester and ache deep inside of you. Even though you may manage a regular life it will be that little absess inside you that never really healed. It will be that voice inside that will haunt you. "What could have been" "You didn't even try" "What if he was my match". I think the worst thing is to do nothing. Keep an open mind. You will most likely find one of the two love or closure, however the cards lie. Test the waters.

I agree 66. I do belive that she needs to confront him with how she feels.

- Scorpio Woman-

Thats right! After some thought i think thats the best i can do and thats exactly what i am going to do!
Thanks again for all your help!

This decision would have been a little difficult to reach all by myself!
So, thanks once again!

You are very welcome, let us know how it goes!!!! 🙂


GOOD LUCK!!!!

I AM CHEERING FOR YOU!!!!

- Scorpio Woman-

for every hurt you encounter.. for every fall..you can only come out stronger.. so dun u ever worry.. about being hurt. it only makes u a much more better person.. on the other hand, if it turns out well.. be content and seize the moments.. 🙂

I am also where you are now and the pain is no easier to bare even though its a year later.

I feel you must try for your own sake at least then you can sit back and know that you done all you could. It is much harder to think if only I had ....

I send a card off a few weeks ago and well I got no response but deep down it has helped. I am still in love with this guy but now I know its over he aint coming back! Prepare yourself in case this will be the same for you but dont let it stop you from getting in touch you need to know - you need to have an answer!

I wish you all the luck in the world, I hope he returns back into your life and things go well!

But remember (and this is the only thing that keeps me going at times) you will find love again and hopefully you will be in a better position to go with it, give it your all. Unfortunately like you I fell for a scorpio and dont want to put any signs down but to me and I know to a lot of others they seem to be the hardest sign to forget! Something in their kiss just keeps you going back for more whether its weeks or months that you've split.

Go for it - get in touch and the best of luck!