They love to have attention from more than one person. They need the freedom. A scorp i used to date with his venus in sag once said " when i go a long time with out sleeping with someone new I almost get depressed" Its in there nature to have more than one lover. He was emotionally committed to me he just could be physically, not yet atleast I think it's a have to live life to the fullest thing.. and thats achieved by experiencing different people.
Okay, would a Virgo Moon offset some of the skanky-ness? He does not appear this way to me at all. Says he likes commitment! This is the man I love! I just haven't told him. I understand the space and freedom issue (I have Venus in Gemini) ... but I want commitment. Is this possible? We have not had sex. He kind of pushes purity on me. I think he pretends I'm a virgin. Hee.
I know another Scorpio with Venus in Sag and he is exactly what's been described. He also has a Gemini Moon, if that makes a difference. Total whore.
yes, they're hard to deal with at times. they're fine as long as you don't tell them that they're in a relationship. it's like mine tells me that he's in a relationship and i'm his gf and he is my bf and spends his free time with me but doesn't change his facebook profile to in relationship. moronic. i tell him that it bothers me and i don't feel like it's a real relationship but he keeps reassuring me that it is. the less you think about it the better it is for you in a long run
i love sex too and have venus in taurus. liking sex doesn't mean you have to f-k around😉 it's normal to be skittish since 50% of relationships break up. it's just how you deal with it and how you believe in each other and communicate. easier said then done
Ray''s Heart: " It always seemed like a friendship to people's eyes or even a friends with benefit (as they call it nowadays) type arrangement, looking from the outside. It's like they were two single individuals who enjoyed each others company but they were faithful to each other"- i think it can be almost a description of my relationship with my scorp. sometimes it works but sometimes it can be very annoying. i'm glad to hear that other ppl are like that too. it's my 1st relationship that has this particular dynamic to it so i was confused about the arrangement
Ray''s Heart- i implied a few times that i wasn't happy and wanted to walk away and he's the one who made the efforts to change some things that were bothering me. but he'll be the one to say i won't be devastated if you walk away but looked terrified when said that. ppl can walk out from a formal marriage too. i know this type of a relationship is hard
i think at some point of life ppl use their heads more then hearts. i think the older you get the more head you use and less heart involved. either that or i'm not that romantic. most marriages are not based on love but on convinience. not making exuses for this particular arrangement and i'm getting used to it myself. i think it is more logic based then emotional. not sure which is the better way.
it's be a year at the end of the month since we know each other. it's been a weird and unconventional relationship. i don't consider us dating for a year but for about 6 months. it takes me a while to accept a relationship. i'm not one of those ppl who dates someone for a month and then you're a couple
"I have people close to me with that placement and all of them, are either in or has been in committed relationships but what I noticed is that they never really defined it as so. It always seemed like a friendship to people's eyes or even a friends with benefit (as they call it nowadays) type arrangement, looking from the outside. It's like they were two single individuals who enjoyed each others company but they were faithful to each other and in their eyes they had a relationship which is really what matters at the end. They didn't seem to like the relationship label to be put on the relationship too often. They move around and you have to follow or you'll most likely loose them. They don't necessarily sleep around, like it's being said."
i agree. i prefer the term "loose" over "skank" though.
i think he did a lot of soul searching for the past few months. and he came to some realization that he needs to change some things in his life both professional and personal. since last week he seems somehow calmer and even a bit more caring
"yup and for venus in sagi men and woman... people say we cheat. " - mine told me that when he was younger he cheated on his girlfriends. hopefully, ppl change😉
i have venus in sag and i don't cheat, once he is my man, i would settle down unless like everyone else says here if you suffocate me which my last scorp did, made me run
Lunamistress : well, you're a girl maybe it's different🙂 i don't like cheating either too much effort. i know that ppl that have sagis influence are hard to get into a relationship and they tend to have a rowing eye.
Asc,sun,moon,mercury,Uranus in Scorpio.Jupiter,saturn,N.Node is in Virgo.Mars in Leo,Venus in Sagittarius 18 degrees.Neptune in Sagittarius and Pluto in Libra.
Ive come to learn that these are very contradicting traits.. How does this work for a guy with a sagittarius in venus but also a scorpio man. Like for example i know sagittariuses love outdoors and adventures whereas scorpio is very private. Im so confuse
My {unofficial} man has a Virgo Moon and Venus in Sagittarius. I can't read him!
I'm a Cancer.