
Ariess
@Ariess
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Posted by Ariess
He's made a Facebook, instagram and insists I accept his requests so he can see what I do.?? ??





I spent every day and night home with our son alone while he partied, cheated, drank, went on vacations w friends etc. i spent my nights callig around to try and find him!

Posted by ellessque
he's threatening and demeaning to you because you are obviously not acting like a mother.
you broke up with him....you then jumped to a taurus and now to a scorp.
...and you complain about his behaviour. you clearly need to check yourself.

Posted by ellessquePosted by Ariess
Whoa. I'm not saying I never want him to talk to me again. I mean, that he and I are over and we need to focus on parenting our son peacefully.
I disagree because if that was the case, you would have put more focus on your son on your first post than you initially did.click to expand

Posted by BlueSandCacoon
Some astrology insight here...
His Sag placements neglected his family in favor of social life. That Uranus touching those planets and that Moon-Venus square seem to be what triggered his infidelity and subsequent break up.
Moon in Taurus finds it hard to move on. Even more if there are children involved. He needs his family back, but that's in conflict (square) with his Venus in Scorpio. He feels unappreciated because he lost control over you, so now he's angry and acting cruelly. He wants to punish you because of that. He's not likely to use physical violence (Mars in Libra) but he will use any other means to hurt you. Taking away your son seems to be his next course of action if he's unable to manipulate you.
Don't try to make him do anything. Protect yourself and your son. Get all the help you can to keep yourself together and fight.
Be well 🙂

When I wrote this I JUST ended a call with Sag where I asked to just be left alone! He made it sound like my son was calling so I answered but he just wanted to find out what I was doing and had done these few days. He has our son;he is a part of his life.

Posted by WynterWhen I wrote this I JUST ended a call with Sag where I asked to just be left alone! He made it sound like my son was calling so I answered but he just wanted to find out what I was doing and had done these few days. He has our son;he is a part of his life.
Maybe your son wanted to know where mommy was and how she was doing? It seems like you think the whole relationship is about you.click to expand


Posted by Wynter
Oh, so now the son is with relatives. God your story is so full of holes and backsliding that it's too hard to keep track.
Good luck to you

Posted by ellessquePosted by AriessPosted by WynterWhen I wrote this I JUST ended a call with Sag where I asked to just be left alone! He made it sound like my son was calling so I answered but he just wanted to find out what I was doing and had done these few days. He has our son;he is a part of his life.
Maybe your son wanted to know where mommy was and how she was doing? It seems like you think the whole relationship is about you.
My ex was at work. Our son is with relatives. So no the call had nothing to do with our son wanting to talk to me BUT that is the exact reason I answered the call.
you - hello?
him - blah blah blah....you are an idiot....blah blah blah....selfish bitch....blah blah blah *takes breath*
you - does our son need something?
him - no, blah blah blah...cuntface...blah blah blah
you - *hangs up*
him - *calls back*
you - *ignores call*
you - *texts* I would prefer you not call me unless we are discussing our son. thank you and have a great day.
*done*
and FOLLOW thru with it....unless you enjoy this kind of shit.
after a dozen or few times with zero reaction from you that feeds the drama....he'll get the point.click to expand

Posted by ellessque/a>
and FOLLOW thru with it....unless you enjoy this kind of shit.
after a dozen or few times with zero reaction from you that feeds the drama....he'll get the point.
Thanks Elle. It's true. I tend to just give in to pacify him. While i know we will never worki do love and care about him. He will always be my sons father and i want a good relationship for us all. His anger is his pain and even with his cruelty, I get caught up in wishing he could be at peace and be happy! so when He will call/text me all night long, crying and pleading - I give in. I know I feed his behavior by not being consistent. it's so hard.





Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
yay to judgmental sunday!!! LOL!! every day is a sunday in my world 😄

Posted by Ariess
I don't have girlfriends to discuss these things. Just my mom and sis who are both Gems. I usually ask what they'd do and do the opposite.click to expand
LMAO!! i have a gem sister too. i know EXACTLY what you mean!! 😄
btw...no-one can say if you're dating too many people over a given period...that's your personal choice and you don't have to defend it. it's just my own view that it's better to sort out things with baby daddies before getting involved with anyone else. for a start, you have another person involved in what is already a difficult situation and he's gonna have a view of it and there's no room for any other 'views' than yours and the sag's and that's primarily as parents.
i was personally so exhausted after such a long-winded and bitter separation that i had no room emotionally for anyone other than my kids. i also have a daughter and i think it's crucial that i teach her by example and the example i want to set is that a woman can be independent of a man and STILL be happy.
kids don't necessarily know what's going on but they feel the vibes and they detect things in your behaviour that you aren't aware you're transmitting. i just think that there being another man in the equation is not beneficial to YOU right now.









Posted by scorchedearth
why is this not on the sag board?










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I'd been with him for 6 years, we have a son, long story short he didn't want to settle or marry and spent all his time, money and energy on his social life. His family was NOT a priority. He had to know and control every detail of my life or we fought. He would cut throat, be cruel and mean until he won. Infidelity during pre marriage counseling. We broke up all the time bc he lied keeping so manu secrets about where he was or what he was doing and finally in Dec I ended it and started dating my Taurus ex. He went insane when he found out I was w someone else. He is volatile. He is angry. He says he wants me back. He is now trying take my son away saying that since I won't be back with him *i* am preventing our family being together so I should be punished and he should keep our son. We live in diff states. I had been a stay at home mom all this time.
He's made a Facebook, instagram and insists I accept his requests so he can see what I do. He is trying to infiltrate my entire life. He texts me and calls all day and night. He calls me nothing but names and goes on and on about how *i* refuse to be with him and am ruining his life. He called me crying last night - why wont i just be with him? This has been since March. I can't handle the stress, anxiety and fighting anymore. He suffocates and exhausts Me
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Sun Sagittarius 4.25 ?? ??
Moon Taurus 25.40 ?? ??
Mercury Sagittarius 9.34 R ?? ??
Venus Scorpio 21.27 ?? ??
Mars Libra 18.49 ?? ??
Jupiter Aquarius 11.40 ?? ??
Saturn Sagittarius 1.09 ?? ??
Uranus Sagittarius 17.23 ?? ??
Neptune Capricorn 2.18 ?? ??
Pluto Scorpio 5.51 ?? ??
Lilith Taurus 19.46 ?? ??
Asc node Taurus 8.57 ?? ??