Venus in scorpio saidsorry?Does they really mean ?

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I had a terrible argument with him..where he said lot of mean thing to be...as he is too much suspicious..
We both actually said mean things to each other...because we both are not able to understand each other.
I have mars in Scorpio
Venus in leo
He has venus in Scorpio
Mars in leo
but after an argument i backed off...he mailed me that "I feel bad & sad...& apologise that he is sorry for hurting my feeling....I m not a bad person..."
Sometimes words like "Sorry" are not enough when u r in gr8 pain...so i did'nt replied...after four five days i thought...& as also apologise because there were my fault too....but do not want to talk to him because i m still in pain...pain of not able to prove myself...not able to gain trust...things he said to me ...dnt knw he said purposely or he really thing that i m so...
he got super jealous when i talk to my friend....he behave as if he do not want to hear abt them.

what you think...does scorpion really mean if he said sorry
or he has some purpose behind it...
One thing i need to mention...while arguments
He said "you again win by not saying anything bad"
what does it mean....?
scorpions pls share your opinion
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Obviously, I don't know what happened or what was said.

My question is what did you do that made him jealous? Did you put yourself in a situation that looked bad and warranted the suspicion? Although it is totally innocent to you, it may not have looked that way to someone else. Did you consider his feelings when you did whatever you did? If the roles were reversed, how would you have felt? With the information he had at the time, does he have a valid reason to feel the way he felt?

Must be careful not to put yourself in a situation that will feed his suspicions. Scorpio venus's are pretty intense people. We have the need to know that we are the ONLY one and we don't tolerate games or people that pique our suspicious nature. We definitely don't tolerate betrayals of any kind.

I'm not saying you did anything on purpose or that you were playing games. Just trying to explain how we think. Obviously, I can't speak for all scorpio venus people and there are some that may not agree.

Now, to answer your question. It's not easy for a venus in scorpio to say "sorry". We tend to hold grudges (and can do so forever if need be). I think he means it and you should give him another chance. Jealousy can drive us to lash out and do some pretty stupid things. If alcohol were involved, then we can do even stupider things.

Two questions to ask yourself.
1. Do you really love him?
2. Is the relationship worth saving?

If the answer is yes, then does it really matter who was right or wrong if you can talk it out and fix it?
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I did'nt do anything to make him jealous...neither i was aware of this kind of reaction.
I told him that my ex is approaching me for marraige...just to share with him...so that later on if he found it...he should not think that i m doing anything bad at back of him...becoz this is d thing i expect also with him...

I have strong feelings for him...I m not aware about him...While arguing i told him about my feelings.
But i dnt knw what is in his mind?Neither he tells me anything...yes his words are different and action are different...

Do venus in scorpio hurt people whom they love
or he is himself unaware about his feeling...







/>Obviously, I don't know what happened or what was said.

My question is what did you do that made him jealous? Did you put yourself in a situation that looked bad and warranted the suspicion? Although it is totally innocent to you, it may not have looked that way to someone else. Did you consider his feelings when you did whatever you did? If the roles were reversed, how would you have felt? With the information he had at the time, does he have a valid reason to feel the way he felt?

Must be careful not to put yourself in a situation that will feed his suspicions. Scorpio venus's are pretty intense people. We have the need to know that we are the ONLY one and we don't tolerate games or people that pique our suspicious nature. We definitely don't tolerate betrayals of any kind.

I'm not saying you did anything on purpose or that you were playing games. Just trying to explain how we think. Obviously, I can't speak for all scorpio venus people and there are some that may not agree.

Now, to answer your question. It's not easy for a venus in scorpio to say "sorry". We tend to hold grudges (and can do so forever if need be). I think he means it and you should give him another chance. Jealousy can drive us to lash out and do some pretty stupid things. If alcohol were involved, then we can do even stupider things.

Two questions to ask yourself.
1. Do you really love him?
2. Is the relationship worth saving?

If the answer is yes, then does it really matter who was right or wrong if you can talk it out and fix it?
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If your ex is approaching you about marriage that means you've been in contact with him. Do you understand how that looks?

I don't understand why you would tell your guy about this. What do you mean if you found it? A text?
Was it to let him know someone else was interested? Were you trying to figure out what his feelings were? Was it to light a fire under him to step up? Are you conversing with your ex behind his back? If it's truly over, why isn't it over? Most people don't text with/talk to exes. So, he is wondering if what you say doesn't match what you do. Makes it look like your word is false.

I would think the same things.

See where the suspicious mind comes into play? And we can't help it. Scorpio venus people are very intense.

Now, I suppose you were coming from an honest place in telling him. I would also consider that too, by the way, but it wouldn't be the first thought. He had analyzed it all and may have come to this thought, thus, apologizing for his over reaction. It was coming from a place of hurt because he may have initially believed (correctly or not - only you know) that you were in contact with an ex that you said it was over with.

If he apologized, he means it.

Basically, he was hurt
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I told him to share it with him...to tell him that he is approaching me for marriage...becoz it was over from myside....but that guy is not giving up...due to i feel irritated....and want to share with him...about the conversation i had with my ex...where i told my ex about him...

but secretly Yes...actually i was also checking to see weather he really care or not....but at that time he did nt reacted...
After so many months when i thought he is not interested in me...
&told him that i should leave...
he blasted....and bringing all old conversation between us...

but i still dnt know...whether there is my future with him or not?Because he do not show anything...express in words...what he wants from me..
no clear conversation
😢

I don't understand why you would tell your guy about this. What do you mean if you found it? A text?
Was it to let him know someone else was interested? Were you trying to figure out what his feelings were? Was it to light a fire under him to step up? Are you conversing with your ex behind his back? If it's truly over, why isn't it over? Most people don't text with/talk to exes. So, he is wondering if what you say doesn't match what you do. Makes it look like your word is false.

I would think the same things.

See where the suspicious mind comes into play? And we can't help it. Scorpio venus people are very intense.

Now, I suppose you were coming from an honest place in telling him. I would also consider that too, by the way, but it wouldn't be the first thought. He had analyzed it all and may have come to this thought, thus, apologizing for his over reaction. It was coming from a place of hurt because he may have initially believed (correctly or not - only you know) that you were in contact with an ex that you said it was over with.

If he apologized, he means it.

Basically, he was hurt
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Posted by IrresistableScorp
I'm not a scorp venus, but as a scorp sun/merc/neptune, I personally will only break ice face protocol over someone I genuinely care about. Anyone else? If I feel even a twinge of jealousy, I'm going to pretend you don't exist. Although, if I really really like you I will test the fool out of you for loyalty.




He is also scorpio sun,scorpio mercury ,scorpio venus...I have a huge communication problem with him..
"If i say i m not well...and he is seeing me online"
He says dnt fool me....
All these things hurts...
if i m ill ...cnt i be online...for anything..

If i say any sentence...he take out the different intrepretation of it...
sometimes he himself says i provoke you to see your reactions...& Laughs..

i m mercury in leo...he is mercury in scorpio