Venus in Scorpio!

I'm here again needing some advice. My relationship with this sag sun.. Scorpio Venus.. Moon in Capricorn is progressing. He's very submissive when it comes to relationships. He has not asked me to be his girlfriend coz before he told me he wasn't ready for one so we agreed on detaching ourselves so j won't get hurt. We tried to be friends but obviously it didn't turn out that way. I always been honest and sincere with him and told him I want all of him. He can read me and is always asking me about my health. he called me cute while we are having sex.. He used the word "my" as an expression when talked to me las night. He always asked what I'm doing. What time I finish work and what plans I got etc Etc. I having see him for 5 days and I told him I missed him and he said "me too" it's been ages. He's very very subtle and a little secretive when it comes to his feelings. he told me he can trust me but he doesn't trust many people and it's only very early with us but we bonded very deep very quickly. My question is. how do I go about this. I don't want to be with anyone else coz I want him at this moment in time. it will feel like cheating to me yet I don't know if he is on the same page and I'm afraid to ask coz I don't want to ruin the chase. When we were keeping our distance and he said it won't be a good idea for us to do anything coz he's not ready... i was very sad and shared with him my most inner soul writing piece and he strongly appreciated it... On my birthday I showed him it was him I wanted out of every guys n he came back to me stronger. He told me to stay over etc which was I expecting. I am a little confused yet very happy at where we are at. I just hope he doesn't take this lightly! Is he now aware now serious I'm taking this relationship? Advice would be amazing. Ps: since he started talking and being with me he has changed a lot in positive ways. He's trying to quit many many many things which I never asked him too. I know partly it's for me and for himself too.. should I keep my mouth shut? He's luring me in with his quiet deductive ways... I just want to have the same effect to him without playing games ....do I keep being me ?🙂

Posted by Impulsv
How long have u been at this stage?

Humm I have those placements, but I'm a female

I would guess if he's not acting aloof then you're problaly in good with him 🙂

It sounds promising. Don't change anything and u should be good

Just be upfront about what you want. Based I'm what your saying, he doesn't seem to be interested in a commitment. Just sex.

What do you mean, you don't want to ruin the chase?

Posted by Impulsv
Well its fair to go with flow for a few but after a certain point u need to voice ur needs. U know your limits when you will feel like going with flow has reached it's limit.
For now enjoy it 🙂

Posted by CreativeCap
Just be upfront about what you want. Based I'm what your saying, he doesn't seem to be interested in a commitment. Just sex.

What do you mean, you don't want to ruin the chase?

Posted by SunTauVenGem

Posted by Impulsv
Well its fair to go with flow for a few but after a certain point u need to voice ur needs. U know your limits when you will feel like going with flow has reached it's limit.
For now enjoy it 🙂

Thanks! I have voiced my opinion and so far we have decided to just be friends. He's not ready for a serious commitment... his recent post was " when you hve chemistry..you only need another thing timing.. But timing is a bitch"... He also commented on it to his friend that it's heart breaking.... We continue to chat but I'm keeping my distance... I like him a lot... But I need to detach myself... Taurus sun and sag sun... I never thought I wud be seeing a sag guy! Must be his venus and his moon that grab my attention.

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I have the same placements as him but I'm a female. I'd say at least he had the decency to tell you straight up that he's not ready for commitment instead of diving into a relationship only to deceive you. Venus in Scorpios are not the type to lie so he will perhaps come back to you when he's ready.

You jump head first into every relationship or non relationship that you have or havnt got as the case may be.

You were nearly going to marry a taurus you hadn't even met a few months ago, and this was following on from a non-break up from the love of your life who you were not in a relationship with. You switched from the Taurus love of your life to the new never even met Taurus that you were planning on moving country for and marrying in matter of days.

Now you are thinking this sag, who has clearly told you he doesn't want a relationship, is wanting to have a relationship with you.

You need to step away from involvement with men until you can work out what makes you behave like this.