Are Venus in Scorpio men abusive?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by cherrychapstick on Wednesday, August 28, 2013 and has 14 replies.

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Posted by cherrychapstick
Are venus in scorpio men abusive? Would a venus in scorpio man try to force love from you through violence if you dont love him back?

Um are you trying to justify physical abuse by implying it's might be a way to get you to love themβ€”

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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
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Posted by MintSprinkles
Be careful what you post here, there's an angry little male scorpion looking to sting people πŸ˜›

You were so calm to his insults that I had to check your profile to see your placements. I noticed you were a Virgo moon too and I chuckled. No matter how pissy people get with us we never get worked up. We just shrug it off like whatever. LOL.

Insults? Hardly. She hasn't seen insults. I just called her out on her crap.

Let's compare these two topics:

Why do Scorpio men treat their ladies like crap

Vs

Are Venus in Scorpio men abusive.

The second topic is a legitimate question. The poster isn't making assumptions or lumping everyone together.

The first topic assumes from the very start that all Scorpio men are the same. It's a shallow and shameless attempt to validate her own idiotic beliefs.

I don't go on to other boards and make dipshit assumptions and generalizations based on signs.

However, if she wants to come in here and stir up shit...by all means bring it on.


Fair enough Neuro. But I think she came in peace. You should hear the comments they make about Pisces women on the Pisces board. **Shudders**
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Hmph. *wander off to the Fish pond*

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Question for you Cherry. Are you trying to understand this man so you can learn to maneuver around his behaviour (that's as kind as I can be), or are you trying to figure out a way to "fix" him?

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Posted by cherrychapstick
Are venus in scorpio men abusive? Would a venus in scorpio man try to force love from you through violence if you dont love him back?

My Venus is in scorpio. Abusive, no. But obsessive yes...I've learned to control it though as i've gotten older. This is just my personal experience though.

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Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by Sag89
Posted by cunninglinguist
I only notice this with Sags with Venus in Scorpio.

sag and scorpio in a chart can be a dangerous mix

I know it frustrates me at times, but why do you think it is dangerous?

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I don't know. I think both the signs darks sides combined is really scary.It's the complete opposite thing. Like I have a venus in aqua but a mars in scorpio.

It's the two extreme trying to find balance together. I feel like scorpio and sag can feel like that sometimes.

Even some of the sag/scorpio cuspers i've known... man.

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Posted by cunninglinguist
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Posted by cunninglinguist
I only notice this with Sags with Venus in Scorpio.

sag and scorpio in a chart can be a dangerous mix

I know it frustrates me at times, but why do you think it is dangerous?

I don't know. I think both the signs darks sides combined is really scary.It's the complete opposite thing. Like I have a venus in aqua but a mars in scorpio.

It's the two extreme trying to find balance together. I feel like scorpio and sag can feel like that sometimes.

Even some of the sag/scorpio cuspers i've known... man.

With me I only notice psycho tendencies with Sag suns with Venus in Scorpio. Sags just do not wear Venus in Scorp well at all. Neither do Libras, but with Libras it just makes us seethe-y. Sags with the placement will actually act out on their VinS issues.

I think it's because Sag is a fire sign. VinS is already an overly passionate, reactive placement. Sag doesn't aspect Scorp well, and has no clue how to manage their Venus in Scorpio than to add fuel to the fire.

And before I get any angry bunnies on my tail, I'm not saying they're ALL like that. Just the ones I've known.

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yeah i get what you mean