virgo gay male with scorpio previously straight ma

I am a gay male Virgo, I have a great deal of female energy and have no problems geting even straight men to fall for me. All my lovers have crossed into the gay/bi world to be with me. I dont think this is special just peole likeother peole. My problem is he wants to break up now after 8 years saying that he has fallen out of love withme and wants to be with women. My body does not excite hime and so he wants out-
I dont want to ebd our relationship but he head anaffair and I am hurt but I know he is making a mistake becuase he loves me but does not want to love me and has trouble keepinghis pecker in his pnats.
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Geez, why don't you go take a shower you sicko!!!!

I have met quite a few scorps who seem to be bi.. Is it my immagination—

That sicko comment was total bullshit,and it was RUDE. A gay male is not a sicko. Your partner was with you for eight years-and if after 8 years, you suddenly "decide" you're straight-you got a problem. Most "BI" people are dabblers. They like both, but are yusually just trying it out. A long relationship generally entails that you have made up your mind about your tendencies-and this boyfriend of yours will figure that out. I think he is probably feeling social pressure to be straight. Your best bet is to let him go, let him try it, and if he really cares he will come back. Most of all, if he REALLY cares, he would break it clean, or NOT let you go. Thats just my take on it.

It's not only sick it's an abomination! God said that, is he also RUDE!! Being gay is a life style choice not something you are born with. Sounds like your lover finally got it right!!

Being gay is NOT a life style choice. As a lesbian female, I can tell you that I did NOT choose my sexuality I was born this way. Being a homophobic bigot is a CHOICE and it is an unfortunate one in which you have chosen. I hope you do educate yourself for everybody's sake.

By the way 167, I'm glad that you got to hear God speak to you personally so you can feel free to judge others by who they are attracted to. Don't you have anything better to do with your time besides come on an astrology message board to preach your hate and intolerance? I would hope so.

162...as a lesbian female myself I agree on what you've said. SOme people wouldn't understand what we go through being lesbians, but nevertheless, I love it. How about you? So people if you're not gay we certainly don't want to hear your comment. Remember the saying. If you can't say something Nice 162, then don't say anything at all". I'm sure your mom taught you that saying, so use IT! 162

I'm sorry 162 I meant 167 at the bottom of my closing.

NO, MY MOTHER ALWAYS TAUGHT ME TO STICK UP FOR YOUR PRINCIPALS. I DON'T HAVE TO AGREE WITH YOU IN ORDER TO BE NICE. I WAS REFERING TO WHAT WAS WRITTEN IN THE BIBLE. TRY READING IT FOR YOURSELF. IF BEING GAY IS SO HARD, THEN DON'T DO IT. YOU MAY LUST AFTER THE SAME SEX, BUT YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO CONTROL YOURSELF. IT IS A CHOICE. YOU ARE NOT COMPELLED TO DO ANYTHING UNLESS YOU WANT TO. THEREFORE, IT IS A LIFE style CHOICE. NOBODY IS MAKING YOU DO IT. YOU CHOOSE TO ACT OUT ON YOUR LUSTFUL DESIRES. IT IS DISGUSTING AND SERVES NO PURPOSE, BUT TO PLEASE YOUR OWN WARPED DESIRES.
PS. IF YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO WOMEN, WHY DO YOU (MAJORITY SPEAKING) ALWAYS WANT TO LOOK LIKE MEN??

where exactly does your bible say that gayness is an abomination? also, where does it say that you should judge other people? live and let live- it's better for us all, if we try to do that.

Dear ridiculous follower. First of all, ALL of the world is NOT christian. you probably also believe a lot of other things you have only read and had taught to you. think for yourself and leave other people to do the same. since your narrow world does not include other points of view, please keep your opinions where they are wanted and valued. why did you come on this post anyway? curious? HA! what a loser. keep up the pathetic hate or not, i hope you find a happiness that doesn't include ignorance and republicanisms. educate yourself!

you sure seem curious for someone who doesn't believe in variety of life style . also, while you are reading, you might want to grab a dictionary and look up the word "compel".

205-215
The two cities in the bible Sodom and Gomorrah were completely destroyed for that very reason. Hence, giving the name to the act of homosexuality today, sodomy. Throughout the bible it speaks of homosexuality being an abomination. Luke 16:15

the word compel means to urge of force action...I think they were trying to say no one forces you into the act of...just thought I would answer your question for you.

205-215 you have NO right OR authority whatsoever to tell anybody what they can or can't say. They have the same right as you do to say whatever they want. On the other hand, you are the one that is using malicious and hateful words that I assume you thought up all by yourself?? Or did other gay peopel teach you to talk so hateful and defensive.

If you are going to get on a open message board and reveal you sexual preferences, then be prepared to have others comment about it. Your the one who invited the dialouge.

Hello Mr. Virgo
Sorry things did'nt work out. I have always said there is not such thing as bisexual. Bisexuals are fence sitters. Now in the case of your previously straight scorpio male, well he simply is not gay. He can't make himself gay any more than you can make yourself straight. You are locked into an image of yourself that someone probably projected upon you so long ago that you don't remember how or when you bought the hype that your feminian expressions made you seem gay. When in all truth, you may have been seeking understanding and an outlet for wisdom or creativity. Your scorpio male more than likily loved you enough as a person and did'nt want to lose a good friend. As it is we scorpios' value a good friend more than money. In the end he as most scorpios has to live in the truth and if it took eight years for him find it I'm sorry it happen to you. In the future let the truth be your guide and don't try to make a straight man gay.

Yeah, but eight years. That was an awfully long time to just be testing the water. I think he just likes sex anyway he can get it, male or female. And there is a label for him. A SEX ADDICT!!

To the precious bible bashers and homophobes, yes... why did you look up this post? Feeling a little curious perhaps? And why do you criticise other peoples choices, dont you feel secure with your own?
Let me tell you, being gay is NOT a choice no more than being straight is. The best thing to do is follow your impulses or else you will end up a child molestor or something or a real 'sicko' (as you seem to call it).
Its a shame people 204 and 167 have to use the bible to justify everything you say. You obviously cant think for yourselves. I think i should tell you the bible is only a story, it is taken from oral tradition... Another fact, life existed way before the bible. If you were educated, you would know that.
In the Classical Period (we are talking about Greece), it was acceptable to practice homosexuality. One of the worlds most famous stories, The Iliad, even implied a gay relationship between its central characters, Achilles and Patroclus. So, as you can see, the gay theme has been going a long time throughout history.
To the person who said "we should be open to accepting criticism for our sexuality", well, i dont see anybody being criticised HERE for being STRAIGHT, do you? Why should 'WE' be criticised?
The only reasons i can find for people feeling uncomfortable or angry about gay people is that they dont feel secure within their own sexuality to accept other peoples differences. They think we should all be like them, so their existance is at once justified.
To the person that said the scorpio guy wasnt gay, just a sex maniac... accept it... he had a gay relationship for 8 years. You dont need to invalidate the virgo guys relationship like that. Have some compassion... There must have been something he liked about the virgo guy or else he wouldnt have stayed around for so long.
When it comes to scorpio men, I know plenty who are gay and i know plenty who are gay friendly.
To the virgo male, i dont know what to say except that i am embarrassed and i hope you got the answers you needed. You did get some support though which is good.
Keep up the good work and keep being gay, despite what certain ignoramous say, its fine.

To the precious bible bashers and homophobes, yes... why did you look up this post? Feeling a little curious perhaps? And why do you criticise other peoples choices, dont you feel secure with your own?
Let me tell you, being gay is NOT a choice no more than being straight is. The best thing to do is follow your impulses or else you will end up a child molestor or something or a real 'sicko' (as you seem to call it).
Its a shame people 204 and 167 have to use the bible to justify everything you say. You obviously cant think for yourselves. I think i should tell you the bible is only a story, it is taken from oral tradition... Another fact, life existed way before the bible. If you were educated, you would know that.
In the Classical Period (we are talking about Greece), it was acceptable to practice homosexuality. One of the worlds most famous stories, The Iliad, even implied a gay relationship between its central characters, Achilles and Patroclus. So, as you can see, the gay theme has been going a long time throughout history.
To the person who said "we should be open to accepting criticism for our sexuality", well, i dont see anybody being criticised HERE for being STRAIGHT, do you? Why should 'WE' be criticised?
The only reasons i can find for people feeling uncomfortable or angry about gay people is that they dont feel secure within their own sexuality to accept other peoples differences. They think we should all be like them, so their existance is at once justified.
To the person that said the scorpio guy wasnt gay, just a sex maniac... accept it... he had a gay relationship for 8 years. You dont need to invalidate the virgo guys relationship like that. Have some compassion... There must have been something he liked about the virgo guy or else he wouldnt have stayed around for so long.
When it comes to scorpio men, I know plenty who are gay and i know plenty who are gay friendly.
To the virgo male, i dont know what to say except that i am embarrassed and i hope you got the answers you needed. You did get some support though which is good.
Keep up the good work and keep being gay, despite what certain ignoramous say, its fine.