What about it—

Quick recap:
We've been talking to each other for about 3 mths...
Went out on a date...
Things got awkward...
Things got back to normal...

After things got awkward I decided to back off...

At first, when I thought he lived on his own...I just wondered why he wouldn't take me out and stuff...

Now that I KNOW he still lives with his parents it makes sense why he stopped things dry!

Our walk to the mountain didn't commit him to anything..there was no way we would have had to drop by his place after...not like after a dinner date or something similar...anyways!

Funny enough he has started telling me a bit more about his past times...He tells me about his family gatherings, what he did for his mom's bday...restaurants he would strongly recommend...or random stuff such as the fact that he went to buy razor blades on the week-end...it's as if I would mention that I had bought Deo or Wax...so endearing!!!!

Anyhow...I am letting him go and will see where it takes me...I am not in a hurry...but he is 38 and still lives at his parents's gigantic house (mansion style ). Both his brother and sister are married and have kids.

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Today I saw him at the gym...and we got to talking and than I blabbed something like: You must think this girl always has crazy stuff happening to her...lol

and he said something along: No no...I find you interesting...it's just that I'm not interesting.

At the end of his workout he came to see me and asked me if I was almost done...I was like yeah but I've gotta stretch...and then he said: ok...catch you later!

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So short recap:

He is Chinese, born in Canada, 38 yrs old, Libra with Cancer or Gemini moon.
He is single (100% )
He lives with his parents (Who go to China pretty often through the year)
He claims that he doesn't take his workouts too seriously...mehhh I don't really buy that.


I am canadian, 24yrs old, scorpio with saggi moon.

Posted by ScorpSage
Quick recap:
We've been talking to each other for about 3 mths...
Went out on a date...
Things got awkward...
Things got back to normal...

After things got awkward I decided to back off...

At first, when I thought he lived on his own...I just wondered why he wouldn't take me out and stuff...

Now that I KNOW he still lives with his parents it makes sense why he stopped things dry!

Our walk to the mountain didn't commit him to anything..there was no way we would have had to drop by his place after...not like after a dinner date or something similar...anyways!

Funny enough he has started telling me a bit more about his past times...He tells me about his family gatherings, what he did for his mom's bday...restaurants he would strongly recommend...or random stuff such as the fact that he went to buy razor blades on the week-end...it's as if I would mention that I had bought Deo or Wax...so endearing!!!!

Anyhow...I am letting him go and will see where it takes me...I am not in a hurry...but he is 38 and still lives at his parents's gigantic house (mansion style ). Both his brother and sister are married and have kids.

****

Today I saw him at the gym...and we got to talking and than I blabbed something like: You must think this girl always has crazy stuff happening to her...lol

and he said something along: No no...I find you interesting...it's just that I'm not interesting.

At the end of his workout he came to see me and asked me if I was almost done...I was like yeah but I've gotta stretch...and then he said: ok...catch you later!

****
So short recap:

He is Chinese, born in Canada, 38 yrs old, Libra with Cancer or Gemini moon.
He is single (100% )
He lives with his parents (Who go to China pretty often through the year)
He claims that he doesn't take his workouts too seriously...mehhh I don't really buy that.


I am canadian, 24yrs old, scorpio with saggi moon.

Don't waste your time with a libra lol, Megstings will tell ya all about them lol. She'd be the one you want to ask.

Thanks King with a sting...

The only thing that bothers me is that I don't how hot or cold he is...I mean, as a Scorpio I am quite influenced by my moon which makes me less intense...

And I see it with him...I don't care to see him everyday...and I don't mind giving him space, myself I enjoy being alone and independent at times.

What sort of bothers me is the fact that I am going through an ongoing trial with him...I don't know when I'll know if I've made it through...meaning that this feels like a never ending evaluation of me.

On the other hand he finds me courageous, beautiful and interesting...but I think that what is taking him forever to figure out is my secrecy...a very SCORPIO like trait.

I have a hard time telling him about myself or actually asking me personal questions...I mean he went on and asked me where I lived precisely, which company I worked for...and frankly I felt naked at that point because I didn't want to reveal so much...


Anyways...does Megsting post often, I could find her—

NO no not at all...I have no means to criticize HIM...I actually think he is wonderful. I just don't how to take things to another level...I had previously...2 months ago asked him to go for a quick bite and it was disastrous...he hadn't said no...but he hadn't said yes either! So I just want some input as to how I should approach the reminder of this situation.

@Pandora

I don't know...the way he talks about it...I guess his parents are elderly and travel often to China or Boston.

I believe he is the youngest sibling. His brother (the oldest) lives here with his wife and kids and his older sister is

married and lives in Boston...As for him, I think that he is closer to his mother and therefore still lives at home.

I'll try to figure out the details...