What does being there mean from a scorpio women

What does being there mean from a scorpio women

A Scorpio woman asked me to be there for her if something bad happens in her life and this is a friend. Another Scorpio girl that i liked cried during friends gathering while saying that she wasn't there for me.

What does it mean when you guys say that kind of stuff? Why does it matter so much?

Physically and emotionally.

Being reliable, being supportive, being an ear when i am having a bad day.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
we are really independent creatures (scorpio women)

'being there' is that one time when we are standing there at a loss of what to do (which is very VERY rare) and grabbing us by the hands and surrounding us with a big bear hug.....preferably in silence.

sometimes that is all that is required of 'being there'.

Exactly. I am a very independent person. People don't understand that I don't need help 75% of the time and I will refuse it because I believe i'm capable of handling things myself. People assume just cause help is offered that i'm obligated to take it.

But on the rare occasion i'm in a situation that I cannot handle...when I need you, I NEED YOU! So be there for me please 😄 Meaning physically, emotionally or just an ear when I need to vent. That's it.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
yeah, sometimes just talking it out helps us find the answers.

just stand there and nod when we are right and speak up when we are wrong.

that's the bestest! 😄

Exactly. I love when people call me out on my crap. Sometimes my ego or sensitivity gets the better of me. So when I'm purposely being an ass. I love it when people put me in my place 😄

But if they put me in my place when I'm not being an ass, then I will be angry and stinger comes out!

Posted by seezythescorpion
"Being there" is serious for scorpio women..

we love to be there for you, give you a shoulder to cry on, a helping hand, a support thru good and bad times our loved ones are going through. We love to encourage people for the better.

So having all above traits, u being there for us means alot. We dont do things for you and expect anything in return but your honesty, respect and love.

And believe it or not most of our dissapointments come from thinking everyone else would be as caring as we are.

I'm sorry if this question sounded real vague, it's mainly because how independent and objective orientated you guys are that makes this "being there" sound so manipulative and irrelevant.

The reason i say manipulative is because those ladies I mentioned all have bf and husband. So I have no idea why would they even mention being there for them when they already have someone for them to be there for. In that situation I treat them like what most people would treat them "keep some distance" but somehow they always say this kind of stuff.

From my point of view yes it does mean a lot. I have noticed I don't like friends or family members going out of the way or troubling them. I deal with a situation on my own first and when I feel I'm ready to reach out, I will. I have experienced when you need someone to back you up or be there for you, they have let me down, so mentally I have realised don't need to depend on others. If I push someone away and they still be there for me, it will be a overwhelming feeling but at the same time i would appreciate there presence so much more.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
we are really independent creatures (scorpio women)

'being there' is that one time when we are standing there at a loss of what to do (which is very VERY rare) and grabbing us by the hands and surrounding us with a big bear hug.....preferably in silence.

sometimes that is all that is required of 'being there'.

^^^yep