Scorpio women and BPD

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Stihl46 on Monday, December 1, 2014 and has 34 replies.

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@Stihl46
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Okay I just stumbled across looking up BPD I have more answers to my friends behavior. I read Scorpio women are more common to suffer BPD I also read its common in Cancer and Pisces women. I'm 90% sure my friend has BPD more I read more it points to her it doesn't make her evil or anything it gives me more respect.

I know what went wrong when I tried to end the friendship I triggered abandonment issues with her its snow balled from there.

Is it common for Scorpio women or water women in general to have BPD traits? I'm pretty sure I have the answers now to what is going on with her and I. No I'm not obsessed I'm looking for answers.

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Posted by Iwill
Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey Stihl is back with yet another topic from the space!!!

What is BDP? And what exactly is it your friend does? That's what nobody understand Stihl. All we hear about is what you think. Aaaaaaaaan about her boyfriend, I feel like I know the guy now.

She doesn't like him... so he's diagnosed her

(and all Water women) with BiPolar Disorder.

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@Noreallynow
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Why are you always trying to come with reasons of why she doesn't like you? She.does.not.want.you. Leave her alone. I really think you are doing this for attention. Can't no one be this damn slow. Seems like you're the bipolar one. One minute you're saying she likes you, the next minute she's mistreating her boyfriend, then the next minute she is telling you to fuck off. It sounds like something you're making up in your head.

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She isn't bi polar she does receive treatment but I'm not going to say much more than that.

When I read about Borderline Personality disorder it sure explains her need for control it explains her behaviour to the T. It also explains her Jekyll and Hyde with me she's good with me for awhile something happens she changes. She isn't Bipolar as I know what she is being treated with.

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Posted by Rambunctious76

Posted by Noreallynow
Why are you always trying to come with reasons of why she doesn't like you? She.does.not.want.you. Leave her alone. I really think you are doing this for attention. Can't no one be this damn slow. Seems like you're the bipolar one. One minute you're saying she likes you, the next minute she's mistreating her boyfriend, then the next minute she is telling you to fuck off. It sounds like something you're making up in your head.

No. He has NPD.

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He likes attention right? A narcissist?

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Posted by Stihl46
She isn't bi polar she does receive treatment but I'm not going to say much more than that.

When I read about Borderline Personality disorder it sure explains her need for control it explains her behaviour to the T. It also explains her Jekyll and Hyde with me she's good with me for awhile something happens she changes. She isn't Bipolar as I know what she is being treated with.

Smh...

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Since September 29, 2014:

Why do scorpios keep coming back
Why does a scorpio woman turn senstive
More strange behavior
Why is she doing this
What makes a scorpio use a person
Messing with scorpios emotions
Shook things up today
Thanks
Silent treatment
Roast her or not?
Scorpio women and BPD

He can't take NO for an answer and that NO MEANS NO!!!
Nothing but a creepy stalker. Pathetic.

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@Stihl46
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There is a lot I haven't said about her now that I know about BPD I'm pretty sure that's what she suffers from. I will always be her friend but she's not worth getting involved in a relationship with right now. Her BF looks like butter I don't mean attractiveness I mean looks tired and stressed when I got people know him saying to me he looks haggard that drove it home I'm not the only one that has noticed. I've known him for years he's never looked like the way he does now a happy healthy relationship shouldn't make you look haggard.

Example I just seen one of my Gemini female friends I haven't seen her face to face in a while she just got through a very stressful relationship she looks just like the gem guy. Made me realize what happens to Gems when they are in stressful relationships it ages them fast.

As for my scorp friend she will always be my friend she has too many red flags that keep re-appearing.

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Posted by Stihl46
She isn't bi polar she does receive treatment but I'm not going to say much more than that.

When I read about Borderline Personality disorder it sure explains her need for control it explains her behaviour to the T. It also explains her Jekyll and Hyde with me she's good with me for awhile something happens she changes. She isn't Bipolar as I know what she is being treated with.

Rather than obsessing over the mental state of someone who doesn't want anything to do with you anyway, why not get your own mental health evaluated? No psychologically healthy person would be this fixated and delusional.

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She's after blood now I've never met a woman that is so vindictive son of a bitch she's attacking me pretty hard. My crab shell has some pretty good battle scars right now, WTF makes a woman attack a man that she "supposedly" doesn't care about. Why doesn't she just walk away if she doesn't want me I'm getting tired of her attacking me I wish she would tree trunk off. I think she's being nice to me for the last little while so I can let my guard down and attack me again.

I got some more info about BPD from a member here thanks for that πŸ™‚

I don't think she is BPD its more NPD I learned more about her recently from the people she worked with at a job position she took they don't want her back. She was demanding and controlling I knew that but the way I was told she is more controlling than I thought. Not sure what drives a woman to be controlling.

Her boyfriend doesn't want to defend her actions he says its his problem he's not sticking up for his GFs actions.

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Ok... so now you love her and you want her to leave you alone. You're asking her former co-workers about her (stalker). You want to protect her from everything and you want to destroy her life. She's the greatest thing ever and a psychotic demon in woman form. You know more about her than everyone, but you must seek out coworkers and stuff to learn more about her (stalker). You two were made for each other, but you're seeing other girls and you want her to leave.

I've come to the conclusion that your story is not real. You're a liar and a fake.

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Here's what I have observed what's been going on in her life for the last year using a pot of water on the stove as an example. The pot was simmering at low heat for 6 months until the summer of this year when the pot turned into a rolling boil. It was a rolling boil for the last 5 months I could see the pot boiling over I knew it was coming nothing I could do about it I'm getting splashed.

I'm not going to be cooked crab legs for her forget that noise I'm seeing a side of her develop I never seen when we met, I can see why her BF look like butter. All this stuff is happening fairly rapidly things took a turn in her life couple weeks ago not sure what really happened I'm in the line of fire.

I'm realizing how much a girl can get tree trunked up when she grows up in a dysfunctional family, I know now I have triggered her abandonment issues. I have to figure out how to get out of this ugly mess. Trying to disappear on her isn't going to work she will still see me, I try ignore her it just triggers more of her abandonment issues and she gets upset and hurt which turns into vindictiveness.

In an ugly spot right now trying to figure out how to deal with it there is no obsession over her I'm trying make a game plan to handle the situation I'm in. Yes I have an effect on her life I have to be really careful what I do there is a very good chance I could put her back in the situation she was in when I met her.

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I like being a scorp woman with multiple personalities!
One is an aqua (I think that comes through pretty strongly)
There is a chatty gemini in there too.
And then there is the fashionable libran with a love of nie shoes.

Its never boring πŸ˜‰

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Posted by LilliLou
I like being a scorp woman with multiple personalities!
One is an aqua (I think that comes through pretty strongly)
There is a chatty gemini in there too.
And then there is the fashionable libran with a love of nie shoes.

Its never boring πŸ˜‰

Hopefully the chatty one isn't around during PMS time! πŸ˜„

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Posted by SilverScorpio

Posted by LilliLou
I like being a scorp woman with multiple personalities!
One is an aqua (I think that comes through pretty strongly)
There is a chatty gemini in there too.
And then there is the fashionable libran with a love of nie shoes.

Its never boring πŸ˜‰

Hopefully the chatty one isn't around during PMS time! πŸ˜„

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😐 men joking about PMS... sharpens kitchen knife... then thinks about it more and sadistically blunts the knife again...

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Posted by LilliLou

Posted by SilverScorpio

Posted by LilliLou
I like being a scorp woman with multiple personalities!
One is an aqua (I think that comes through pretty strongly)
There is a chatty gemini in there too.
And then there is the fashionable libran with a love of nie shoes.

Its never boring πŸ˜‰

Hopefully the chatty one isn't around during PMS time! πŸ˜„

😐 men joking about PMS... sharpens kitchen knife... then thinks about it more and sadistically blunts the knife again...

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😒

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Posted by SilverScorpio

Posted by LilliLou

Posted by SilverScorpio

Posted by LilliLou
I like being a scorp woman with multiple personalities!
One is an aqua (I think that comes through pretty strongly)
There is a chatty gemini in there too.
And then there is the fashionable libran with a love of nie shoes.

Its never boring πŸ˜‰

Hopefully the chatty one isn't around during PMS time! πŸ˜„

😐 men joking about PMS... sharpens kitchen knife... then thinks about it more and sadistically blunts the knife again...

😒

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The fight is on with my friend it's time to make her realize don't screw with a Cancer man. Two emotional signs probably not a good idea to be battling it out lol