@LetltB
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What's up with all the weak male whiners lately?
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FYI
MOST Scorpio women who are into you will let you know if they are into you or not and treat you with the same respect you give to her.
Anything short of that, you have an insecure, immature girl/grey lizard on your hands. RUN and never look back. Let her sting herself to death, cuz anything you do, WILL NOT HELP. I guarantee it.
Penis' have feelings too!
Posted by LetltB
Stay away from the women who have their heads up their assesWomen like yourself.
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Did I touch a nerve? It wasn't long ago you were boo hooing over your supposed girl friend who came home with a bruise on her inner thigh and got all paranoid that she cheated on you...then went on to talk about your penis size. lol...
I actually expected you to be the first to respond to this thread.
She dump you yet?
Not that I expect an honest answer, but we all saw that coming.
You can't expect to make a feed about "whiney ass men" and not have a sag chime in. We love a man's man.
So do I 😉 Growing up with big brothers was a great example of what real men are.
There are plenty of real men here too.
Just pointing out the day in day out threads of men who forgot they are men..that is all.
Posted by Astrobyn
Penis' have feelings too!
Sorry...this thread isn't about Scorched. She does just fine on her own.
Shit.... I got a bigger penis than she does.
Posted by Astrobyn
Shit.... I got a bigger penis than she does.
Alone too?
Any woman who thinks they have a penis or wishes they did don't even have to mention it..
Real men sense it and run.
People can read that thread all they want if they are curious. I am not going to delete it.
In it, you sound like a complete imbecile.
If imbecile equals truth..I'll take it. I've been called worse for speaking the truth around here.
No biggie.
I'm not sure if you included me in your idea of this topic -I did post a thread about a unique situation with unique circumstances that I asked for some Scorpio women's opinions on. Not that I don't disagree with your premise and conclusion in principle, but there is a difference between whiny ass and genuinely confused due to certain mitigating circumstances, in my case her mother's death. I think I did say that if that hadn't happened things would be very different. I imagine everyone could argue that their circumstances are mitigating, but my intention personally was just to get some scorpio woman insight, which I did.
Posted by LetltB
She dump you yet?Not that I expect an honest answer, but we all saw that coming.
No - she started talking about children.
Sorry to disappoint you.
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Was that another reassurance you demanded from her?
meh...I'm gonna stay on topic and ignore the weak insults.
@empathicBull - in fact I did not even read your thread. Already sensed the Bull/Scorpio topic and there are more than enough in this forum, I knew where you were headed.
The threads that are absolutely ridiculous and painful to read is what I've pointed out.
LetitB-fair enough. Again, I see where you're coming from, and why, and get that the truth isn't always pleasant. I don't consider myself weak, but I am willing to take a chance sometimes. Not lots, obviously, but sometimes situations/individuals deserve a second shot. Though the danger of a pattern of Repeat bad behavior and dependency issues is nothing to invite. Just my two cents' worth.
I guess I just don't understand why some men choose to be treated like shit from women?? I ask women this same question, it doesn't make sense and what a waste of energy and life to fight to be with someone like that.
I keep coming back to people that continue to endure in this treatment had either a horrible upbringing, were neglected completely or were thrown to the way side along the way. No upbringing at all.
But I do take personal issue with these types of gender stereotypes, when this type of behavior is not limited to one sex. To just say in a general way —be a man?? is to suggest the opposite??_ that they are acting like women.
And using your definition if I'm not whinny, making constant complaints about my partners, and getting treated like a doormat, or the list of other things you mentioned. I must have a big ol?? DONG!
Posted by EmpathicBull
LetitB-fair enough. Again, I see where you're coming from, and why, and get that the truth isn't always pleasant. I don't consider myself weak, but I am willing to take a chance sometimes. Not lots, obviously, but sometimes situations/individuals deserve a second shot. Though the danger of a pattern of Repeat bad behavior and dependency issues is nothing to invite. Just my two cents' worth.
Hey...I'm all about exhausting all efforts in a relationship, and in most cases if two people love one another should. But if it's toxic, abusive and dead...why fight for it?
Communication and respect are the two ingredients in a relationship. If one is lacking, it's not going to work..EVER.
Yes dependency freaks abound in both sexes. I'm sure there isn't a particular sign involved unless you've noticed that there is
Again...there's probably 100's of threads in these forums of me asking women the same thing.
Posted by Astrobyn
Penis' have feelings too!
Urban legend
Posted by EmpathicBull
Yes dependency freaks abound in both sexes. I'm sure there isn't a particular sign involved unless you've noticed that there is
Astrology has nothing to do with it. I'm the first to bring up "upbringing" in these forums no matter where it is. You can be any sign..your upbringing is going to dictate your behavior in a relationship.
Dependency = insecurity and will kill every relationship sooner or later.
I actually like it when men post. I wish there was more of it. I dont think they should be discouraged from posting because some think they are whiners. I actually find it to be knowledgeable.
Agree about communication and respect being non negotiables.
What's up with all the weak male whiners lately?
idk but this is why pegging, femdom and financial domination exist 😆
Posted by DMV
I actually like it when men post. I wish there was more of it. I dont think they should be discouraged from posting because some think they are whiners. I actually find it to be knowledgeable.
Like the women though, when they keep coming back after advice given respectfully, and they continue to be tortured, tormented or shit on and ask the same questions over and over, there's nothing knowledgeable about that except ignorance and insecurity. THAT'S my point.
I for one cannot stand feminists.
They are an embarrassment to me personally and let them know that every chance I get.
I see a lot of the so called feminists treating men like shit. Who knows maybe that's what half these guys are complaining about. Regardless and either or, my question is...
WHY NOT KICK THEIR ASSES TO THE CURB AND MOVE ON?
Same exact question I ask women who allow men to treat them like shit.
What's the bonus in staying when it's not going anywhere but to misery?
Posted by DMV
I actually like it when men post. I wish there was more of it. I dont think they should be discouraged from posting because some think they are whiners. I actually find it to be knowledgeable.Like the women though, when they keep coming back after advice given respectfully, and they continue to be tortured, tormented or shit on and ask the same questions over and over, there's nothing knowledgeable about that except ignorance and insecurity. THAT'S my point.
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Repeat offenders are one thing. Shit even I have posted multiple threads about some guys. Sometimes its hard to see whats really going on when youre stuck in mud. Lol, dammit i like talking about some guys. I like to relive some moments lol.
its your right to be frustrated tho. Reading is a choice.
Posted by KVZZMIR11
I haven't been on Dxpnet for too long, and I still think there should be way to tell who is being serious and who is bullshiting.Lol.
Feel like most people post whiny threads all the time for laughter.
(Including OP, and that Cancer who is crying about a chick who is taken already).
Regardless...
I think some of you need a break from shit and work on yourselves you know—8
I do need something to read at work lol
Posted by LetltB
I see a lot of the so called feminists treating men like shit. Who knows maybe that's what half these guys are complaining about. Regardless and either or, my question is...WHY NOT KICK THEIR ASSES TO THE CURB AND MOVE ON?
Same exact question I ask women who allow men to treat them like shit.
What's the bonus in staying when it's not going anywhere but to misery?
attraction is a powerful thing.
Hell no! dxp is my guilty pleasure
People in general (both men and women) bitch about things they can't control whether its people or their own emotions.
BTW, you're kind of bitching in this post.
Most people and because we aren't perfect, are going to whine and bitch because we as a species naturally want what we want and when we don't get it we throw our version of an adult temper tantrum.
We learned to do it as babies and so we do it as adults.
No one's perfect matey!
BTW, you're kind of bitching in this post.
No one's perfect matey!
Considering I've been here quite longer than most of you...I've earned a bitch session here and there, and apologize to those who seem offended.
Never said anyone is perfect. Not being able to stand up for yourself against another..is total weakness, especially when it's abusive and toxic. Again, I apologize to those offended by that, but my thoughts and sharing so stands. 😉
Posted by Rabbit
It's the power of the pussy....
Interesting yet again weak.
100+ years ago
1) The Feminist movement was largely made possible by men who allowed it.
50-60 years ago:
2) The abuses that followed, was, again, largely made possible by men who allowed it.
40+ years ago:
3) The momentum of abuses steadily increased following Roe v. Wade - the women being empowered
more and more, each passing decade, to date. - on the side, there was the gay rights movement
that became another issue that real men have to babysit.
By allowing women to gain greater equality in the workplace, in politics, in academy, in media, etc.
Man has allowed and brought upon himself the miseries of perpetual competition. His load, made far heavier than it ever was before. And women call him weak and whiney.
When children misbehave, their toys are taken from them, they are grounded, they are spanked, they
are chastised and they are corrected and they are taught.
When this discipline is NOT enforced, the children are spoiled.
Multiply that spoiled, by millions and again, that spoiled by millions more, with each generation.
Thus shall it be with the fall of Rome. The fall of Babylon and the fall of our times.
To answer your question of why people stay in an abusive relationship, all I can come up with is that look at the alternative: The person will be alone after it is all over. Is it a better option? Yes. BUT, now that person has a void in their life and they probably don't know how to fill it. The abusive person was probably with them for so long that it is all they know. Now they have a life WITHOUT abuse(or mistreatment)! So now, they feel alone and possibly scared and unsure of themselves. They have the freedom they wanted, but now they have to deal with that freedom! Does that make sense? And what is your Venus/Mars signs, if I can ask? You've got a bit more force-of-personality than a typical Scorpio female. That's why I ask.
Posted by Rabbit
I place the blame squarely on the shoulders of many of the younger women out there.They demand sensitivity in men. So men changed who they were to meet that demand or they don't get laid.
Then these women get pissed when men try to act sensitive and fail because thats not who they are.
So you have whiney emo men and women bitching about those men being emo blah blah blah...
None of them know who they truly are or who they should be.
+1 women got what they asked for....be careful what you ask for.
Posted by Rabbit
I place the blame squarely on the shoulders of many of the younger women out there.They demand sensitivity in men. So men changed who they were to meet that demand or they don't get laid.
Then these women get pissed when men try to act sensitive and fail because thats not who they are.
So you have whiney emo men and women bitching about those men being emo blah blah blah...
None of them know who they truly are or who they should be.
^This too.
Posted by Rabbit
I place the blame squarely on the shoulders of many of the younger women out there.They demand sensitivity in men. So men changed who they were to meet that demand or they don't get laid.
Then these women get pissed when men try to act sensitive and fail because thats not who they are.
So you have whiney emo men and women bitching about those men being emo blah blah blah...
None of them know who they truly are or who they should be.
Actually, if you read each one of my posts in this thread minus the weak reincarnation interaction, it's quite clear this thread is NOT about men being "emo", "sensitive" or "changed" by a woman at all.
In fact I think a few of you missed the point entirely. I don't have a problem at all when a man can share his emotions..in fact I applaud those who can. It shows strength imo.
So if any of you want to use this thread to begin a discussion on men and emotions..by all means have at it. 🙂
men are acting like women.
women are acting like men.
Posted by SilverScorpio
To answer your question of why people stay in an abusive relationship, all I can come up with is that look at the alternative: The person will be alone after it is all over. Is it a better option? Yes. BUT, now that person has a void in their life and they probably don't know how to fill it. The abusive person was probably with them for so long that it is all they know. Now they have a life WITHOUT abuse(or mistreatment)! So now, they feel alone and possibly scared and unsure of themselves. They have the freedom they wanted, but now they have to deal with that freedom! Does that make sense? And what is your Venus/Mars signs, if I can ask? You've got a bit more force-of-personality than a typical Scorpio female. That's why I ask.
I do see your point, and I can also understand why it would make sense to some. Alone is not a bad thing. Settling for abuse is. Learning about one self, becoming independent and knowing you are going to be ok should a relationship take a shit is a VERY GOOD thing BEFORE you get into one. It makes you less dependent on the other person and allows you to be real and yourself throughout the relationship.
Venus in Scorpio - 8th house
Mars in Sag - 8th house
4 other planets in Scorpio in the 8th house including sun
Now explain "force-of-personality" please? I'm curious 🙂 Don't think I've heard that one before.
Posted by Rabbit
No I got the point....You're pissed about "weak" men.
Women created these weak men. It's what they wanted. They wanted a man they could compete with within the confines of the relationship instead of being partners.
A man who embraces and owns his emotions and knows how to appropriately deal with those emotions can't be bullied.
Noooo...again Rabbit. I'm not pissed about "weak" men. I'm pissed that men are too weak to say
"ENOUGH!!! OR "NO!!!!" to the abusive female partners and leave their sorry asses. Instead they stay, and try to pacify which tells the abuser her behavior is acceptable. Noone (male or female) has a right to abuse their significant other. Instead of whining about it...DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
Posted by Reincarnation
I'm going to guess that you are still unmarried without children.Some crow's feet and some cats perhaps.
I think you may be wasting your time LIB with comments like this ^^^. Is this the *script* now when a woman puts forth her opinion ~
references to age, and references to cat women ~ so blood predictableSheesh
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Yah...hence why I ditched his weak attempts back on page 2. 😉
Posted by SilverScorpio
To answer your question of why people stay in an abusive relationship, all I can come up with is that look at the alternative: The person will be alone after it is all over. Is it a better option? Yes. BUT, now that person has a void in their life and they probably don't know how to fill it. The abusive person was probably with them for so long that it is all they know. Now they have a life WITHOUT abuse(or mistreatment)! So now, they feel alone and possibly scared and unsure of themselves. They have the freedom they wanted, but now they have to deal with that freedom! Does that make sense? And what is your Venus/Mars signs, if I can ask? You've got a bit more force-of-personality than a typical Scorpio female. That's why I ask.I do see your point, and I can also understand why it would make sense to some. Alone is not a bad thing. Settling for abuse is. Learning about one self, becoming independent and knowing you are going to be ok should a relationship take a shit is a VERY GOOD thing BEFORE you get into one. It makes you less dependent on the other person and allows you to be real and yourself throughout the relationship.
Venus in Scorpio - 8th house
Mars in Sag - 8th house
4 other planets in Scorpio in the 8th house including sunNow explain "force-of-personality" please? I'm curious 🙂 Don't think I've heard that one before.
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Most Scorpio women I know don't flat out call out men's women trouble and call them weak. They have a little bit more patience than that. Hence "force-of-personality". It's a brunt quality that I don't like in women, but I know that women are not all the same either. Notice that I didn't call you a bad person, but I DID call out a personality trait that is not desirable to me personally. I've seen you be a very kind person and I've now seen you like this. I think when it comes to guys and their women troubles(idk them, I don't read the ones you've mentioned, except maybe the Taurus guy's post), a defter hand is required, for the message to get across. So flat out calling men weak, who already down on themselves is a little tasteless and tactless. However, I DO know that Scorpio women like strength too, so...
Posted by Reincarnation
I'm going to guess that you are still unmarried without children.Some crow's feet and some cats perhaps.
I think you may be wasting your time LIB with comments like this ^^^. Is this the *script* now when a woman puts forth her opinion ~
references to age, and references to cat women ~ so blood predictableSheesh
Yah...hence why I ditched his weak attempts back on page 2. 😉
A bit of originality wouldn't go amiss ~ do they copy and paste from each other i wonder lol
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Who cares? It adds spice to a thread from time to time, and hopefully lifts them up to higher levels.
(anything for "enhancement" purposes..ya know what I mean?) Glad I can help. 😉
Most Scorpio women I know don't flat out call out men's women trouble and call them weak. They have a little bit more patience than that. Hence "force-of-personality". It's a brunt quality that I don't like in women, but I know that women are not all the same either. Notice that I didn't call you a bad person, but I DID call out a personality trait that is not desirable to me personally. I've seen you be a very kind person and I've now seen you like this. I think when it comes to guys and their women troubles(idk them, I don't read the ones you've mentioned, except maybe the Taurus guy's post), a defter hand is required, for the message to get across. So flat out calling men weak, who already down on themselves is a little tasteless and tactless. However, I DO know that Scorpio women like strength too, so...
Interesting. You are at the same level of misunderstanding as Rabbit is. Did you read each of my posts from the beginning?
I can't help but re-read my first post and see how some don't get the point I was making and are trying to tell me that I said men are weak. Where the hell is that coming from?
Merc is direct too.
Meh...oh well.
Regarding my personality..you are entitled to your opinion, and I thank you for your honesty. When I'm challenged, insulted yea...thanks to my wonderful father and three brothers, and upbringing, I stand up for myself. I choose that route and I choose not to sugar coat. Actually, I've been quite nice througout this thread and tried like hell to remain on topic. An insult was shot, and I blocked it. I am very kind to those who are kind to me. I share my opinions and advice directly when asked in a public forum just like everyone else. I also share my frustration and make threads like everyone else.
Anyway...I've tried for the last 3 or 4 posts, to clarify what some of you are clearly misunderstanding, but it seems it's not being grasped at all. My efforts are exhausted on that..and no longer my problem. Spin it, spit on it, deflect it shit on it...doesn't matter. It's all here in black and white for those who choose to comprehend it in it's context.
Posted by Rabbit
No I got the point....You're pissed about "weak" men.
Women created these weak men. It's what they wanted. They wanted a man they could compete with within the confines of the relationship instead of being partners.
A man who embraces and owns his emotions and knows how to appropriately deal with those emotions can't be bullied.
Noooo...again Rabbit. I'm not pissed about "weak" men. I'm pissed that men are too weak to say
"ENOUGH!!! OR "NO!!!!" to the abusive female partners and leave their sorry asses. Instead they stay, and try to pacify which tells the abuser her behavior is acceptable. Noone (male or female) has a right to abuse their significant other. Instead of whining about it...DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.Uh...yeah...that's a weak man. Semantics aside...it's the same shit.
Men have been programmed by society to take abuse from women. Seriously, I rarely give advice anymore because telling someone to grow balls and stand up is met with derision and the accusation I'm being too cold from females.
Every year...men are emasculated more and more. Men have no incentive to be anything but weak any more.
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Oh no, now you are going to play victims advocate here? seriously? Again...the POINT OF THE ENTIRE THREAD is MEN HAVE THE FREEDOM TO WALK AWAY FROM ABUSE JUST AS WOMEN DO. Unless they are SHEEP and follow society without any type of upbringing or not taught at a young age right from wrong.
Where the hell is cap tenn, cowpuncher and djbuck? All three of which would smack a fellow man in the head that accepts abusive behavior from women and stays with them, cuz society tells them to.
This thread is turning to a pile of horseshit real fast.
Posted by LetltB
I've never seen so many posts here from weak ass men crying, whining, complaining about women (Scorpio women or not). What the hell is this shit and why the hell are you so dense to remain with the women described as absolute nasty bitches? No balls? Mommy syndrome? WTF?I'm embarrassed for the male species.
Maybe these are just unself-discovered gay men...I dunno, but it's really pathetic.
There truly are decent women out there. Stay away from the women who have their heads up their asses, your's won't fit up there when it's already occupied!
Hmmmm....
I think right here you've called these men weak.
Unless the English language has changed.
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Oh no..you've got the word weak right, but tell us all rabbit what defines the weakness?
Can you do that? Or are you just trying to save face here and wasting my time?
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I've never seen so many posts here from weak ass men crying, whining, complaining about women (Scorpio women or not). What the hell is this shit and why the hell are you so dense to remain with the women described as absolute nasty bitches? No balls? Mommy syndrome? WTF?
I'm embarrassed for the male species.
Maybe these are just unself-discovered gay men...I dunno, but it's really pathetic.
There truly are decent women out there. Stay away from the women who have their heads up their asses, your's won't fit up there when it's already occupied!