What Scorpios need.......

I meant to add this in the previous post. What do Scorpio men REALLY want? What makes them fall? They seem to fall in and out of love quickly. Any thoughts on this? I am a LEO and I thought I was proud. I have never encountered such pride as my Scorpio. Any thoughts on this and the topic above are greatly appreciated.

Scorpios do have pride, probably as much if not more than Leos, I just think due to our secretive nature it's rarely obvious to others. Hmm, or maybe it IS? lol. The last thing we want others to percieve us as, is weak...or a pushover, or someone to be toyed with. We like to be taken seriously. If we think another person is screwing with us or if we feel our pride has been hurt, that is when the stinger comes out...we have a tendency to lash out and hurt others ten times more than they hurt US, almost on instinct, although we often feel guilty about it later, unless the other person really deserved it.

I can't speak for all other Scorpios or Scorpio men, but what I mainly want in life is stability, security, passion, depth, and true love. I don't think it's that Scorpios fall in and out of love very quickly, I think it's that we hide our true emotions so much that we might seem indifferent or as if we've gotten over someone when really we are burning with intense emotion on the inside...but we don't want ppl around us to know that so we go to great lengths to conceal it. We can go from relationship to relationship rather quickly, but it doesn't always mean we're "over" the last one...in fact with "lower" scorps you will see all kinds of games being played in the love department, for instance entering a new relationship quickly only to "sting" or make jealous our previous partner.

Boy,you've got a tough one here!
Know this-the scorpio will be the one that will rule your relationship and he won't be determined to do anything that he doesn't want to do -and that includes also the "whens" and "hows".The only way is to persuade him in a veeeery subtle way,so that he wouldn't suspect you of imposing something upon him.That means -you must beat them on their own game-which is difficult,since thay can smell your manipulations 9 times out of 10.They are very suspicious.
What makes them fall?"-you ask.Well,act like they do-misterious and hard-to-get.Sexy.Loyal.Respectful.
I'll tell what they do from time to time to see if people love them:they disappear!Do the same thing -wait for your scorp to go and look for you.You must cease being available and force him to work hard for your time and feelings.Only donot overdo it.

"From no other Sun Sign will the Lion or Lioness receive such depth of loyalty and devotion. It must be earned. Still, it's well worth swallowing a few lumps of pride now and then to be worshiped with the kind of intensity only Pluto can give. "

I hope I was of some help to you.Good luck with your scorp .Have patience.Have faith in you&him.

"Know this-the scorpio will be the one that will rule your relationship and he won't be determined to do anything that he doesn't want to do -and that includes also the "whens" and "hows"."

Yes! Bella,

You are so right! They are the ones that have to be calling the shots. The more you try and convince them, the more the more you will be frustrated by their uncompromising ways!!!

But, I will say this and I have said it before; take it from someone who knows, you won't find a better man than a Scorpio man! They are the epitome of the gender and they are worth all the effort! Unless you get a bad one and then they are really bad. They are either the best or the worst of the species!!! YIKES! Hope you get a good one!

Did I answer that correctly? Let them be in control and remain faithful etc....like the above poster described!

NS

Im kinda confused on the "Let Scorpios control" concept. Do
you guys mean for example letting them pick out movies to see,
or letting them win arguments?? And another thing that confuses
me is the scorpios knack for playing mind games....what kind??

That means letting them make the decisions. No, not about what movies they to see. LOL! And yes, let them win the arguments!!! Better yet, don't have any with them!

LOL...

Actually boycrazy, that whole letting your scorp pick the movie thing is a step in the right direction (haha). Don't worry, we usually have good judgement...you'll probably end up seeing some sort of spy movie or anything suspenseful.

As far as the mind games...my advice to you is to read older posts on this site that deal with this and you'll get an idea what you can expect with some scorps. There are good ones out there I promise--it's just that "when we're good, we're very very good, but when we're bad we're horrid"... like from that old nursery rhyme ; )

I'd go see a mystery/spy/suspense movie with a Scorp
ANYDAY. Those are my kinda movies, not the teen, romantic,
boy likes girl crap *hehe* But anyways, I'd never wanna get
into an argument with them cuz they always get the last word..