Why be so bitter—

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DaLionessOfLove
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Scorpio Ex Boyfriend is something else. He's mad because I broke thing off when he would not get help drinking. He is a bit of an ego/hardcore guy sometimes I think he is a little narcissist. He is never wrong. He seems to express no empathy whenever I am sick or I am down but he jumps at anything that is negative.

Recently he has been posting negative things on my Facebook post which he thinks is about him. LOL. Always, always something negative..he never likes anything on my page that is of a positive message. Only those he think is negative or can be twisted in a negative manner for his liking.

Also we broken up several times before(by his own doing). Now that we have been broke up more than a week or so and I'm not playing his games he seems to hate me.

Why so much negativity now?
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Posted by xdimplez
leo with a scorpio eh? welcome to the club. i learned that love and hate are two extremes of the same thing. if he loved you with so much intensity, he sure as hell will hate you too... but its all in love

maybe he is being negative or liking the negative or doing anything on the negative to say..hey im still here. dont forget about me. to keep him on your mind

negative or positive. a reaction from you is still a reaction... and i think thats what he may be seeking. just to see if you still harbor love for him maybe



very true and i realized that when i ended up responding ...yes he's only looking for a reaction just why negative seems like he is destructive I am trying to remain cool with him but lately he's been on the "wish we never met but I still kinda care for you" vibe...guess because i dont text or anything now cause I really do want him to work on himself while i work on myself too
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Posted by seraph
This all sounds hella one-sided.



if i got into all the details it would take ages trust too much drama ...too much push and pull...and im not trying to bring my personal life into play into FULL details because I will end up bashing him that is not what I want to do

I left him on a good note...trying to keep it that way even trying to be friend with him still

he's had some destructive ways in the relationship that i dont care to mention...something are better left unsaid ..one sided or not...
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Posted by Ellybean
If he is such a negative drain then maybe you might benefit from removing him from your life at least temporarily. Especially if it is affecting why would otherwise be a sunny lioness disposition.



word.

wish him the best and block him on fb, lol.
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i acutally deleted him before and he added himself back on lol...and thus he's the type if you ignore him he does the random text to get a response then if I dont respond in time ...even now that I am his ex he will then show up at my house out of the blue...so I don't even text him for that reason ..