Why does a scorpio woman turn senstive

I'm still looking for answers to my questions, my scorpio friend we used to be able to joke with each other now that has changed. I really have to watch what I say any slight criticism she feels hurt. I guess you could call it sensitive.

Around others she will get annoyed around me her feelings get hurt? Why has she turned so sensitive around me?

Scorpio women are sensitive when they are vulnerable. Vulnerability happens when "something matters" to her...

When I first met her I used to be able to tease her she gets upset if I joke about something I used to joke with her about she feels hurt. At work I can't tell her anything I have to have another co-worker to tell her she did something wrong if I say something she gets upset with me. When the other co-worker tells her she gets annoyed or just blows it off and says what ever.

It was couple weeks ago she was checking something on her car she turned right submissive I said to her it should be this she said nope it is supposed to be this she was correct. I didn't dare say anything more, ya I can see her trying to prove herself to me. She was being really submissive or seemed really vulnerable around me that day.

She will point out my mistakes all day long she likes it when she can prove me wrong on something I guess it makes her feel good? I don't make many mistakes at work she will find something I slipped up on and tell me about it. If I point out her mistakes she doesn't like it almost like she thinks I feel she is worthless. When I ignore her she will try get her 2 cents into something so I will notice. She knows what annoys me I don't give her a reaction thou unless she steps really out of line then she will apologize. If I say something I know she doesn't like she gives me the deep eye contact or she will get in a mood.

She has changed after she stung me the first time then the second time her emotions got in the way she tried stinging me again but this time she stung herself she wasn't going to do that again to me.

There are days she will say hi to me I can barely hear her this girl is loud around everybody else around me she talks so softly I can barely hear her I have to ask her to repeat stuff because I can barely hear her. It goes back to the submissive thing she's tough and bossy around everybody else not around me she almost cowers around me.

Yes she has a boyfriend she controls him like a puppet she snaps her fingers he jumps. I wish she wasn't so sensitive around me she's always trying to prove to me she can do it.

My scorpio friend hides her sensitiveness from everybody but me I can't even treat her like I'm her friend it is like I do with my other female friends.

Her timidness around me still has me puzzled this woman isn't timid by any stretch of the means she treats me differently than anybody else. There are days it seems like she is scared of me? I will never hurt her she never acts like she is scared around anybody else she is confident.

I have to laugh she posted a current picture of her and BF on vacation she has a fake smile on her face she doesn't look happy.

Are Scorpio woman known to line up another man before they dump the guy they are with?

Posted by IrresistableScorp
It's cute how there are three guys trying to figure out the same problem with three different Scorpio women. This is so adorable.

Try to catch her "I adore you" face. Smiles and sparkly eyes. If you get that, she's got a mad crush.

I can talk to men all day and all my eyes say "you might as well be a brick wall" but when I see my guy my eyes get all sparkly and I pay attention.

I was with her today her pupils were dialated when I was talking to her then she was getting excited telling me a story. Later on she started smiling with a full facial expression and her eyes were twinkling. She hasn't been like that with me for a long time. She pays attention to me there is no staring into space.

Posted by KVZZMIR11
She is trying to put a distance between you and her.

So?

She will continue picking on random things about you that piss her off (in this case, teasing?)
and make that one reason for pushing you away.

She DOES have a boyfriend, bro, and I guess she senses you like her.

IGNORE HER!

Let her come to you, be the dominant one.

Ignoring a scorpio is what got me stung the first time I thought ignoring her she would move on that backfired on me. Hurt feelings and it ruined our friendship for months.

I'm the dominant one she doesn't push me around I don't want to hurt her again, ever!

make no mistake we really don't give a treetrunk what people think but if our eyes are set on you we are perfectionist we want to appear to be the perfect package. & sometimes we think we are always right because most of the time we are but other times we are wrong. I admit when I'm wrong some have a hard time too. But all and all we only become sensitive when we have feelings for someone.

Posted by Octoberbaby91
make no mistake we really don't give a treetrunk what people think but if our eyes are set on you we are perfectionist we want to appear to be the perfect package. & sometimes we think we are always right because most of the time we are but other times we are wrong. I admit when I'm wrong some have a hard time too. But all and all we only become sensitive when we have feelings for someone.

Yes she is a perfectionist so I'm I making mistakes bugs me I don't like to admit when I'm wrong either lol

Posted by Octoberbaby91
make no mistake we really don't give a treetrunk what people think but if our eyes are set on you we are perfectionist we want to appear to be the perfect package. & sometimes we think we are always right because most of the time we are but other times we are wrong. I admit when I'm wrong some have a hard time too. But all and all we only become sensitive when we have feelings for someone.

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My goal is to fix the hurt feelings that has happened between her and I the damage I have done would have most likely sent most girls packing. She keeps coming back her and I have had numerous fights not sure if you can call them fights but she would get angry at me and stop talking to me. When we first met she got really angry at me and wanted space she started dating this Gemini guy. I tried walking away from her that caused a big fight that's when the hurt feelings happened and I knifed her through the heart. I realized I can be pretty cruel she got her revenge on me she started to try pull me back into her life. Will she ever forget what happened between us? probably not do women ever forget anything?

I have questions about Scorpio women that's why I'm here they are not open books like my other female friends, I'm not and open book either, my Scorpio friend intrigues me it is why I let her back in my life. Trust me I would have kicked her to the curb if I didn't have feelings for her she's touched my heart like I have touched hers.

She see's her boyfriend once a week he lives 100kms (62 miles) from her she has no plans of moving in with him. The way she acts and lets things slip out around me she is getting tired of him they just came back from vacation together from what I could get out of her she wasn't happy.

I'm not a beta male I can spot beta males from a mile away they are the one that move away from me when I walk into a room. This Gemini guy that is going out with my scorpio friend is no competition for me I attract women that are way out of his league I've seen women say eww when he tries to flirt with them or he can be talking to a girl and she is staring out into space. When I talk to a woman they hang on to every word or they get so quiet and nervous they get speechless.

I'm I in the friend zone? no, I can walk away from her at anytime she keeps coming back to me I don't want to break her heart again by walking out of her life. I was with her yesterday its the happiest I have seen her in a long time it made me smile.

She flirts with guys all the time in front of me when I flirt with women in front of her that is a different story her jealousy meter spikes. Around me she acts like a shy girl gets giggly and smiles at me, acts nervous and fidgety. With other guys she can chat them up with no problems there is no shyness observed.

When she met this Gemini guy she was on the rebound she had a rough break up she was looking for another guy to make her ex-boyfriend jealous. She had a goal when dating this Gemini guy I'm not getting into the details I know exactly what she was up to. She may have liked him in the beginning he was exciting and different now he gets on her nerves. She accomplished some of her goals dating this Gemini guy her other goals didn't pan out. When they say Scorpio women have ulterior motives it is true. She knows the Gemini guy is weak she knew she could control him as he is so desperate for attention. He's been providing her with money while she worked at getting her finances back in order she uses his money and she made money from her boyfriend. She is finally letting me know how much money she made off of him it just proves she was using him. He is such a people pleaser he will do anything to please people he is a doormat, unlike myself I'm not a people pleaser and nobody treats me like a door mat.

She can't screw me around she knows she can't hide anything from me I find out sooner or later, I'm finding with her you need to think like her if you don't you are in trouble. She can think like me I can't hide anything from her either she finds out I'm very aware she can find anything. I know the Aries co-workers have trouble with her they don't understand her like I do. She looks like an innocent young woman never doubt her outside appearance there is a very smart intelligent woman. She thinks she's being sneaky and I ask her why she is doing that.

Not sure what "treetrunk" means if it means banging her? No that isn't my goal I want to see what she is like I think we would have a good relationship together yes her and I have had our rough patches.

Her Gemini guy is a bit whacked he has a bad temper a bit of a fruitcake temper I have seen his anger I'm stronger and more muscular than he his but I'm no match for weapons which he is into. I really don't want to have a jealousy fight going on it is why I wanted to go my separate ways with her because he is nuts. I've been warned to stay away from him, he is scared of me he knows he is no match against me if I take a swing at him he would be lights out in one swing, I have hands the size of a gorilla.

I think one of the reasons she wants me back in her life she knows I will protector her last boyfriend was harassing her until he seen who I was he stopped harassing her.

She needs to dump the gem guy before I make any moves, of course I would like to bang her she's very attractive, intelligent women get my motor running I can't stand stundo women the ones that you look at and think wow empty between the ears.

With my Scorpio friend today she is trying to break the ice texting me again when we first met we would text a lot after our falling out that stopped. Ever seen angry scorpio woman text her fingers must have been going hundred miles a minute.

I actually broke the ice texting her again she wouldn't text me back then she eventually started texting me it was brief answers.

Funny how she is slowly clawing back what we had she's even developed a giggle when she is around me she is doing it more often she doesn't do it around anybody else. I realize now before she used to treat me more like a friend before our fall out I'm finding she treats me differently she looks at me differently.

I have changed I'm in shape again or getting close to it I have dropped 3 pant sizes when I first met her I had a huge dick do. The job I'm in I had a lot of stress it puts on the weight I never been so fat in my life I've always been fairly fit and strong as an ox.

The more time I spend with her she seems to be changing like I said it seems like she is slowly trying to get back we once had, the falling out possibly making our friendship stronger.

All I can do is wait and see where it goes I'm letting her go at her own pace. She could have walked away from me like she has done to others she has told me the people she has walked away from.

Is this common for Scorpios to come back

We come back because we are loyal and patient. I have cut people out my life for good so she must see something in you to keep coming back but we do have a breaking point so keep the drama to a minimum.

Protect your heart also she seems more of a shadow scorpio using people, jealous and vindictive. Just remain friends until she grows up a little bit bc you can't trust someone who would go get a new bf everytime you piss her off.

Posted by Stihl46
Is this common for Scorpios to come back

This is not her Scorpio Sun. This is her Virgo Moon. well, for me.

It has been almost a year since our fall out, currently she is acting like she did when we first met. I could have walked away and never returned my friends and co-workers said walk away. If it wasn't for the day Nov 10 2013 her and I were alone she looked me in the eyes we had a quiet moment it was her way of saying I'm sorry I rubbed her arm. Her and I can speak through eye contact and body language I under stand her more than anybody else.

It isn't my imagination she was the one working her way back to me I've seen her reject people and never talk to them. She's even told me she does that she said she hasn't talked to some of her friends in years.

She is more sensitive around me than others it can be like walking on eggshells I have to watch what I say. If I doubt her abilities at work that hurts her she feels offended she does try to impress me not sure why I know she is good at the job she does.

She's gone from liking me to hating my guts and back to liking me again.

@jeannegrey,
my flaw could be that I am too focused on the fact that SHE is already in a relationship. I have this theory "if trianlge then virgo". And that could be a big fat lie. But I speak only from my experience and observation.

Jeannegrey

When her and I first met she was on the rebound she had a bad break up a boyfriend that was harassing her she wasn't in a good space she was an emotional wreck. I was leery about getting to know her but did she wanted to be in a relationship I didn't want to be her rebound. We stayed friends she started dating this other guy, she was getting her emotional connection Scorpios crave from me. Our bond was growing stronger, she had a goal for this guy she is dating I seen what was going on so I wanted to part ways with her end the friendship. That turned into a huge mess because she was hurt then she turned angry that's when I seen the vindictive side she worked on trying to get me fired at work.

I dusted myself off cleared my head she seen that I didn't run away from her I wasn't scared of what she did. I got revenge on her and sunk her reputation she seen I wasn't a push over she soon found out don't tree trunk with me because I will give it right back. She's tried manipulating me she's lashed out at me in anger she's showed me her emotions I don't run away from her. There are days I look at her and think is that all you got?

I could have kicked her to the curb when she came back to me a month later after she tried getting me fired. She apologized to me she told me I hurt her feelings it is why she did what she did. She was the one trying to come back to me she made most of the effort to come back to me like I said I could have walked away but I could see what wanted me back I wasn't going to push her away.

Too this day I can look her in the eyes and she will almost start shaking, she can't hide things from me I find out she tries to be sneaky I call her out on it. I remember things, things she thought I never heard I bring them up and she is surprised. There are times I will play vulnerable around her just to catch her off guard. She doesn't boss me around like she does with others she started to get really submissive around me. I can look at her and ask her if she is okay all it takes for me is one look if something is wrong. When I speak she hangs on to every word when I asked her about a trip her boyfriend went on she could careless where he went.

She's tried stinging me again because her emotions got the best of her I was prepared this time made sure she stung herself which she did it, sealed the deal don't mess with me. Is she intimidated of me maybe she is I will never hurt her thou, I have seen her intimidate others. After

the rest of my post got cut off,

I will never hurt her again I realized now I shouldn't have went my separate ways with her but it seemed to make our bond a little stronger. The way she is acting around me now is the same when we first met she can't stop smiling around me. She's been progressively staring at me more I noticed it months ago she would stare and smile at me. She started being quiet around me just looks at me I have to speak first to get her talking.

I'm getting the feeling she's seen the comparison between her boyfriend and myself the fact I'm not a weak man like her BF I stand up to her I challenge her. Her BF does everything she wants I've seen it happen he doesn't talk back. He doesn't do it just to her he does it to everybody the man is such a push over. He puts her on a pedestal he bows to her feet its sickening he's a weak bitch. When his around the guys he wants attention so bad he tries to dominate the conversations so he gets all the attention never stops talking he can't stand silence. When he is standing alone he is looking at the ground he has slouched shoulders you can see he isn't a confident man he tries to act like one but he is not. When his female friends have said he is insecure they are right he is the poster boy for insecure men.

Posted by Octoberbaby91
We come back because we are loyal and patient. I have cut people out my life for good so she must see something in you to keep coming back but we do have a breaking point so keep the drama to a minimum.

+1

Posted by TokerX
And even if nothing's up they invent something because they assume/think something must be up.

And when they assume/think something is up, they're always right, anyway. 🙂

Posted by Whatu
you sound rather insensitive/controlling and vindictive towards this poor girl.

Like you would rather possess her than have a relationship with her where you enjoy her. It sounds to me like you have given yourself the moral high ground and that you have the right to put her in your place. I have smelt the stink in you from the start and now its really starting to show.

"Too this day I can look her in the eyes and she will almost start shaking, she can't hide things from me I find out she tries to be sneaky I call her out on it. I remember things, things she thought I never heard I bring them up and she is surprised. There are times I will play vulnerable around her just to catch her off guard"

who the fuck do you think you are? this is border line sociopath behavior. I get the impression that you do not actually have an ounce of love for her, You just get a kick off her paying attention to you.


"I could have kicked her to the curb when she came back to me a month later after she tried getting me fired. She apologized to me she told me I hurt her feelings it is why she did what she did. She was the one trying to come back to me she made most of the effort to come back to me like I said I could have walked away but I could see what wanted me back I wasn't going to push her away."

You act like you deserve a medal for this shit? do you feel like she owes you something now that you have given her something? I get the impression that you think you are some kind of saint for forgiving her, but you weren't actually forgiving her you are using the situation as leverage so you can get something off of her.

I care about her a lot you know how many hours of sleep I lost over this fight we had. When she turned vindictive on me I couldn't control my emotions and I cried.

Well this has gotten out of hand?

The reason why I split with her is I seen her using her boyfriend I didn't want to get in between that I confronted her on it she admits she uses him. You call me controlling she is much more controlling than me I watch her at work she takes control of everything I have watched her manipulate people to get her way. When they say don't get in a Scorpios way it is true she has goals in her life she is meeting them I'm d*mn proud of her.

I laugh at Gemini men because she's manipulated a crap load of money out of him I even confronted her on that she says he's got money. In a round about way he's paid to upgrade her education there is lots of stuff he's paid for. I laugh so do the other women that know him they say he deserves what he gets he thinks he is a ladies man. I was really surprised to hear the girls say its good she is spending his money. This Gemini guy calls the female staff sluts he wants to bang he is so full of himself. When I told the female staff they were so angry he is one step away from getting reported to the management I gave management an idea of what he is truly like they were interested in what I had to say they have him on file.

I want to see him suffer the way he thinks of women angers me to the core he has no respect, calling the women he works with cheap sluts. I also know about his violent temper he's told me he punches holes in the walls of his house when he gets angry. He's had temper tantrums at work and throwing furniture. He's described how he would knife somebody if he gets mad at them, wow you are one sicko.

My biggest fear is what he will do to my Scorpio friend when he can't control his anger that worries me everyday.

There are reasons why I want her back in my life if I knew I could have prevented her from getting hurt I couldn't live with myself. I see what is happening I'm intuitive I see stuff before anybody can. My scorpio friend still needs some of his money so she can finish her goals she is getting there she is happy.

Trust me she isn't a gold digger she's borrowed money off of me and paid me right back she doesn't use me for money. The Gemini flaunts the money he has the way he dresses he likes people to know he has money. The girls have told me he obsessed about money. What man takes a girl he just met on a holiday that cost him 1500 dollars that's what he did with my friend a week into their relationship he paid for everything. He pays for a lot of things for her he says to me isn't that what a boyfriend is supposed to do buy his girl things. He's even said he is cashing out savings bonds so he can buy her things he thinks he needs to buy a woman's love. He was even trying to compare the money I make to how much he makes the other day to make himself feel better. I make less money than he does he was trying to throw that in my face. Funny he was complaining a couple weeks ago how expensive women are and they cost big money.

Posted by TokerX

Posted by Stihl46
Well this has gotten out of hand?

Probably because we're getting bored with telling you the same things over and over again...

Posted by Stihl46
calling the women he works with cheap sluts.

Maybe they are?

Posted by Stihl46
I also know about his violent temper he's told me he punches holes in the walls of his house when he gets angry. He's had temper tantrums at work and throwing furniture. He's described how he would knife somebody if he gets mad at them, wow you are one sicko.

I'm more in favour of the baseball bat myself.
Problem is that we usually either don't have the weapon or the person together at the same time. And by the time we do get them together our temper's already gone. Walls, doors, furniture are the things that usually are there, so they're easy victims. And yes, we do pack a mean punch, so yes, punching holes in them is something that could occur. I'd advise him to buy a punching bag thoug, since it's cheaper than fixing something you broke.

Posted by Stihl46
My biggest fear is what he will do to my Scorpio friend when he can't control his anger that worries me everyday.

I'd actually be more afraid of her knifing him...

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I know Gemini men have tempers my dad has one so does the other Gemini guys I know one of the guys I know I grew up with his family he has a bad temper. The women we work with are not sluts they are the nicest people you can meet they love talking to me. When I told the girls what he said holy crap they were angry they were close to reporting him to management. I don't think she would use a weapon on him but she will attack his career she will find something that will get him into trouble like she did with me.

Posted by Iwill
- and finally you budging in on a relationship between two people = not okay. But it is okay for you to come here and write about it. I just hope it wont go on forever, because this whole thing is nonsense in EVERY sense. Don't you agree?

I tried going my separate ways with her because I didn't want to be in between them when she started admitting she is using him it was okay I'm out of here. She was getting really too friendly with me more friendly than I thought a girl should who is in a relationship with a guy.

Currently I can't walk away from her again it will hurt her feeling I have read what people have said here and I gather her feelings are changing for me.

I can see she is starting to not care as much as she did with him she complains he drives her nuts after while. She tried living with him it didn't work she has no plans of ever moving in with him. He doesn't want her moving in with him.

The reason why I asking the questions is she has turned a full 360 with me friends to enemies to friends again. I want to be careful that I don't screw things up again she has told me that I effect her ie I can hurt her feelings really easy. I read so many times once a Scorpio cuts you out of their life you are gone for good I thought she was gone for good. When she came to me looked me in the eyes we had a quiet time with each other I stroked her arm and felt a calm come over her I knew it was a truce. It was from that day on the rebuilding of the friendship started she was making the biggest effort.

I'm moving forward with my life she can follow me if she wants if not I keep going.

Posted by KVZZMIR11

Posted by Stihl46
I also know about his violent temper he's told me he punches holes in the walls of his house when he gets angry....

That is his way of warning YOU...

" Stay away from my Scorpio or I will pummel holes into YOUR face, you fuckin perv!"

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I'm unsure if he wants me to take her away from him or he wants me to stay with away from her. I'm still putting the clues together he was un-happy for the whole time her and I were fighting. Soon as her and I started to become friends again he started became happy again.

Do I doubt Gemini men are not as manipulating, no, I can see him doing things trying to make road blocks for her I know he made it rough for her when she moved in with him. There were days I seen him are you okay man, I'm a Cancer man I can feel peoples vibes.

Posted by KVZZMIR11
Dude...

You need to have a SERIOUS heart to heart with her next time you see her...

Ask her...

"Don't you think it is weird we see each other so frequently, what does the Gemini feel about this?"

From there you will learn where you stand in her viewpoint, and where does the Gemini stand.

Currently you are just making assumptions based on someone "smiling at you, hugging you, and just talking to you."

These things mean absolutely NOTHING in the long run.

I can't pry into her personal life I have done that already that's turned into some wicked fights I have learned with her let her do things on her own pace if she wants to tell me what is going on she will. She has turned from hating my guts and I don't exist to acting like we first met acting like a girl that has a crush on me.

I said in a post above this one there is a correlation between her boyfriend turning un-happy when I ended my friendship with my Scorp friend to when her and I started to become friends again he turned happy again. He was happy before my fall out with her after the fallout he turned un-happy his un-happiness lasted for the whole length of time she was angry with me which lasted for months. Soon as he seen she is happy with me he turned happy coincidence?

When I try talk about her with him he tries to avoid the subject from the tone of his voice and his body language he is stressed. When he first started going with her he was a happy boy after that changed when the Scorpio came out of her. The Gemini guy is no dummy he is just a little overwhelmed I've known him longer than she has I've never seen him so stressed in all the years I've known him. H*ll there was a day I was with him I thought he was going to break out into tears he walked away.

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Posted by jeannegrey
WHAT DO YOU LIKE about her?

Now that's a silly question. What's not to like about a Scorpio? Even the bad's good...

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She excites me more than any other woman I have met she is a challenge I like a challenge it gets me thinking. I don't like women that you can look at them and think is there anything between the ears.

She has surprised me about the topics she can talk about we both watch documentary shows she is full of knowledge. Her boyfriend on the other hand all he talks about is the latest and greatest TV shows I guess when you admit you are a couch potato.

She learns from me she watches me like a hawk when I'm doing something she doesn't know how to do. I learn from her too I find her interesting. You never stop learning you never stop striving to do better I'm that way so is she. She isn't lazy I'm not either, her boyfriend is lazy he says he doesn't want to work hard.

Posted by jeannegrey
WOW. Where do you work? All these people sound like shallow assholes??_ no offense.

She sounds very un-evolved to say the least. I repeat my question: WHAT DO YOU LIKE about her?

I seen the shallowness when the other staff wanted to lynch my scorpio friend even the management was like that. I don't usually talk back to management but I was angry I said she is a human being she has feelings quit talking like she is a piece of dirt. She doesn't know what management said I never did tell her it would make her feel hurt. They said why are you defending her after what she has done to you I told them I was the one that screwed up not her.

I haven't ever let go what some of the staff has said I don't think I ever will its changed the way I look at them you guys a tree trunking cruel. Management says you have to do what we say I didn't do what they said to me they wanted me to treat her. I said that's cruel they said we don't care do it I said NO. I butt heads I'm a bit of a rebel I don't jump when people snap their fingers at me it doesn't happen. I was raised to stand up for yourself never let anybody push you around.

Was I mad at my friend sure I was but I wasn't going to let her fall I don't do that to people.

She has turned sensitive because she likes you, it's simple as that.

She never treated me badly until we had our fallout and we treated each other badly she is being nice to me again. I showed her I care when I was with her this summer the time we spent together she was calm. We started to be like we first met the bond we had was coming back.

I have changed since her and I met I had a lot going on in my life I couldn't devote all my attention to her I was under stress I wasn't being as confident as I usually am. I'm healthy again my head is clear I'm enjoying having my body back I'm strong like I used to be I think she likes what she sees because she does look me up and down. Her BF on the other hand is letting himself go he looks older than he really is he doesn't look healthy he's packed on 20 pounds since he's been with her.

He might be feeling a little inferior around me he's probably heard enough of the female staff making comments about me and how good I look since I changed things in my life. The girls say to me you are so skinny now that makes me smile. I even have them asking me what I did so they can get their husbands to look like I do. I'm not a lanky guy I'm muscular it comes from working with chainsaws for a lot of my life hence my handle name you pack around a 23 pound saw you build muscle.

If she wants him she why would be telling me things that all lead to him not being in her future plans. She tried moving in with him it didn't work out she moved out of his house. She spends any length of time with him she grumbles he drives her nuts. She's acting friendly around me again she could have cut me out of her life but she didn't.

I have got a past of being a bit oblivious I guess you could call it but I have broke a few girls hearts without realizing. I find out later on from their friends she really liked you and had a crush on you this has happened numerous times. In my earlier years I was career focused I wanted to learn as many skills I could I put relationships on the back burner. I don't want to be breaking hearts I'm more aware of womens feelings my Scorpio friend has taught me that.

Posted by Smerrose
She has turned sensitive because she likes you, it's simple as that.

Her sensitivity around me has increased I used to be able to joke with her and tease her not anymore.

I should also say she owns a fur child her fur child comes first over her BF he is second best to her fur child he doesn't like her FC. On the other hand her fur child loves me follows me all over the place. The scorpio loves it that I like her FC just as much as she does that makes her extremely happy. Her BF loathes her fur child funny thing is as I said he's second best to the FC.

A man that hates animals like her Gemini shouldn't be dating a woman that loves animals. Ever want to see a Scorpio girl happy love her FC just as much as she does it cheers her up more than anything when you spend time with her FC.

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Posted by Smerrose
She has turned sensitive because she likes you, it's simple as that.

Her sensitivity around me has increased I used to be able to joke with her and tease her not anymore.

Yea because we don't like to be teased by someone we feel insecure around. She feels insecure around you, and she also cares what you think. She is unclear of where she stands with you--- and therefore is more sensitive to your teasing. If she were secure in your relationship (whatever it is you two have going on??_) she would not be sensitive to your teasing, she would play along. Be nicer to her! JEEZ!

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I try not to tease her too much we do joke about the other people we work with that annoy her and myself she starts giggling. When I first met I could tease her after our fallout and she has come back what I used to be able to tease her about she doesn't like it. I really have to watch what I say when it comes to her doing something its almost like she feels she isn't good enough. She will always try find something I have done wrong and try to correct it and leave it so I will notice. She likes to prove me wrong on things she makes sure I notice it too lol.

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Posted by Stihl46


A man that hates animals like her Gemini shouldn't be dating a woman that loves animals.

Yet she is dating him, so stop with the "white knight" attitude. She is with him, because she wants to be with him.

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She's holding on to him she has a trip planned he's paying for it of course he doesn't like going she wants to go. When he went on a annual trip he goes on with his buddies I asked her about it she could careless she didn't know the details she didn't care not one iota. I thought to myself wow shouldn't you know something nope she didn't care it is one of her BFs favorite trips. She hangs on to every detail when I tell her something.

When he got injured earlier this year she spent one day with him then went back to her place she said he is a big baby she left him on his own she couldn't handle him. There are other little things just makes me think wow you don't care about him.

I have seen a whole other side of her watching this relationship makes me wonder if it was the cause the failure of her last relationship. She knew this guy she is seeing is weak, I'm seeing a side of him where he gives her what she wants even if he doesn't want to do it.

Are scorpio women this manipulative and controlling in a relationship I know she tried what she is doing with her BF with me when we first met until she met resistance. She even admitted she can get guys to do anything she wants. I haven't changed I don't dance to her finger snaps like her boyfriend.

I'm keeping my distance she keeps coming back to me

Posted by jeannegrey
She does this ^^^^, because she cares what you think and is insecure around you. I don't know why she is, I only know that's why she does it. I only care and get upset when people I CARE ABOUT tease me, anyone else, I would give a crap. My bull teases me all the time and I get super hurt. He doesn't know it??_ but its because I care a great deal what he thinks of me, and I want him to "approve of me" if that makes sense??_. Scorp DOES NOT appreciate public ridicule, and that's what teasing is to us, public humiliation.

Ooh that answers a question that I have had she is exactly the way you described when another co-worker says something to her that offends her she just blows it off and says what ever. I do the same thing totally different reaction I get the look you will pay for it.

She was with me today even with the others around she was a little nervous around me. I'm back to trying the Kino with her she doesn't flinch when I touch her I was standing beside her shoulders touching she was playing with her fingers so I reached over and started touching her fingers she doesn't pull her hand away she smiled at me she liked me doing it. I have hands the size of a gorilla she does look at my hands a lot, her BF has slender little fingers I shake his hand he has small hands.

She is always trying to touch my hands any time I hand her something she strokes my fingers for a girl that has a BF she sure doesn't mind me touching her she doesn't let anybody else get touchy feely with her. Not sure how Scorpios are with personal space I'm in her intimate space circle all the time she has no issues with that. She even gets her face close to mine like she wants to kiss. Today she was rubbing her arms against mine she's back doing that.

I figured something out today, the other day I was with her BF he looked unhappy coincidence she was staying with him the next day I seen him he was in a wonderful mood coincidence she went home he was happy. I have observed of his behavior she stays with him he turns un-happy she goes home he's happy. When he went silent for the 8 months she spent a lot of time with him she moved back home he turned happy again. The first 6 months of their relationship he never exhibited the behavior he is now he wanted her to spend time with him now he dreads it.

I don't know how a very attractive young woman could make a man so un-happy it is like a light switch when she stays with him he's un happy barely get a smile out of him she goes home to her place he's happier than a pig in crap.

Being a cancer man I observe everything even the way people talk, the way they eat, the habits of people I see trends, I see stuff happening before things really happen. I worked as foreman on jobsites so I'm observant.

Posted by Whatu
Are you sure he is a Gemini and not a Taurus, Which would explain everything.

He's a Gemini man the way he talks the way he acts I've compared his traits to another Gemini guy they are like twins they act the same.

One of my cousins is a Taurus man he's similar to me I have a Taurus moon. This guy dating my Scorpio friend is a Gemini man he can't sit still when you talk to him he can go from one subject to another he never stops talking.

Posted by tiziani
Long story short: One day you're going to get bored of cuckolding and move on. She's in it for the attention, nothing more. When have you ever heard of a Scorpio Woman who's recalcitrant to get into a relationship with a man she really wants?

Not sure if she's in for just the attention not I know when somebody is playing me.

I watch the two videos I don't have problems attracting women, it sure makes my scorpio friend jealous when women come up to talk to me in front of her. H*ll I go into a restaurant the waitresses swarm around me at times, I have confident women try to intimidate they get taken back I'm not intimidated of them when I talk to them.

I like my scorpio friend more than just wanting to bang her it is her intelligence turns me on I like smart girls. I can talk to her and we can hold a good conversation.

I knew I was going to see her today I wore some form fitting clothes I'm in shape again why not wear clothes that fit. Noticed she was watching me when I left the table and came back did it 3 times I seen her. I have noticed she's been is watching me more than she used to like staring from a distance. She was wearing form fitting clothes she has a nice body she is a pretty girl she has no problems getting the attention of guys they love flirting with her.

I know looks are not everything I have heard enough from women they are turned off by guys with protruding bellies. My female friends complain their boyfriends are letting themselves go. Most of my female friends are in shape they take care of themselves.

Yes women care about looks I notice the difference when I was a out of shape guy to today the same girls look at me differently some of my female friends have changed around me.

Isn't the saying Women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.

I'm going to leave her be for now when I was with her yesterday she had something on her mind I was getting the look. I know how she is feeling when she looks at me I was getting just be there for me look from her.

Scorpio women are funny the way they can hide how they are feeling, she was laughing and smiling around the others she stands close to me she's looking at me being quiet I'm saying to myself ah schit your upset about something. Why can't I be like the others? Nobody at the table knew how she was truly feeling. I guess I will never be treated like I'm one of the others those days are long gone.

Funny thing the way she treats her BF she doesn't treat me like that even the day we met. When it comes to money she pays me right back. She doesn't control me like she does with her BF she learned I don't like being controlled she asks me if I want to do something.

After our fallout she's changed even more she's released control to me. Does she have control issues yes she likes being bossy.

I'm well aware what I maybe getting into. I'm thinking with my head the one on top of my shoulders.

There is some reason why she is trying to get me back. When she looks at me I can see the emotions in her eyes she is being sincere.

Maybe she's realizing I'm the one she should have been with when we first met.

I'm not playing into her game if she wants to chase me she can I'm not chasing her. I'm moving forward with my life, improved my health I feel good again, life is good, my head is clear. I know she is going to sink do I want her to sink no she is a good person

I learn from observing then I compare it to the answers I get the reason for the questions about what I have observed. I have been around an Aries woman for way too long she is blunt and right to the point this Scorpio girl is a challenge. I also don't want to hurt her feelings again.

Do I realize now she has some feelings for me? Yes.

Seen her this morning she was smiling at me and waving her hand hard enough like she was going to snap it off her wrist. She didn't have time to talk had some stuff to do for the company she's gone for the day. I haven't heard from her in 4 days she sees me today she excited.

All I can do is laugh and baffled by her behaviour. No chance in walking away now I would hate to see what kind of revenge she would try on me. She's told me about her past and rejecting people out of her life so I know she does it. Yes she has shared a lot about herself and her childhood. When I read that Scorpios are misunderstood it must have some truth to it comparing it to what she has told me.

I don't think I will ever get bored with her lol

The saga continues

Stuck in between her and her BF, been noticing his insecurities are back in full force. The confidence he was portraying is gone he's back to what he was when I first met him. They say insecure men never change it's true. He's back to walking around with head down his shoulders all slouched over. Noticed at the beginning of the week he has a nervousness in his voice when he talks to me. I see him daily so we have to talk to each other. He's got that look like he has something on his mind its not anger it's emotions. I feel that vibe from him only when we are alone. I think to myself sorry buddy I can't help you, I know he's having troubles with her. You have to deal with it not me.

When I first met this man he was 350 pounds he decided he would turn his life around he did. He's reverting back to what he used to be, he's gaining weight he must weigh 250 pounds now he was 190-200 when he met her. He's getting a gut hanging off of him pushing size 40 pants. See it in his face used to be able to see his cheek bones not anymore.

She let herself go a little bit but now I noticed she's slimming getting herself into shape. She gets the guys flirting with her all the time because she is attractive.

It wasn't bad when this Gem guy and I were overweight he wasn't so insecure around me now I'm 68 pounds lighter. He's always been an overweight guy since he was a kid so I guess that's where he insecurities stem from. I was overweight from stress I dropped the stress I'm back to the size I was when I graduated high school 19 years ago.

The scorpio likes the new me I told her this is what I looked like she smiled.

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Posted by Whatu
Dude, fucking watch the videos and reflect on how you can gain from whats being said. And how it apply s to your situation with HER not the other woman. Are you sure you aren't a Leo?

Like you said: a narcissist.

That's why he (probably unintentionally) always brags about how wonderful he is and about his success with other women.

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Makes me want to gag. Blech.

I usually only get sensitive when i care about your opinion. And it doesn't mean i'm in love with you like all these guys are saying the Scorpio girl is but it just means i respect you and i care for you and i take you seriously as a friend, boyfriend, partner etc; I wouldn't get your hopes up, but also don't think that she DOESN'T like you. Both options are a possibility. But you will never know unless you ask her because she could keep playing mind games like this forever.