First Date with a Scorpio Female

Hello, I'm going on a date tonight with a Scorpio, just taking it in my stride at the moment as I have just come out of a 6 yr relationship with a sag which was a difficult break up for me.

I have been upfront with her so far about my break up, So are we well matched? I'm looking forward to it, I'm a Virgo Male

Posted by Stryker77
Hello, I'm going on a date tonight with a Scorpio, just taking it in my stride at the moment as I have just come out of a 6 yr relationship with a sag which was a difficult break up for me.

I have been upfront with her so far about my break up, So are we well matched? I'm looking forward to it, I'm a Virgo Male

How long since the break up?

its ok she knows this too, its more a company date and I was upfront about this with her.

My advice: don't use the scorpio as your rebound gal. That could bite you in the ass and she'll smell it a mile away.

A six year relationship must have been quite the emotional and mental investment for you irregardless of sign. Perhaps, take some time off to readjust into the singles environment in conjunction with creating healthy measures in order to reacquaint with oneself again.

Posted by Stryker77
its ok she knows this too, its more a company date and I was upfront about this with her.

Then let us be honest here - are you looking for a date or a friends with benefits or a one night stand?

Posted by LetltB

Posted by Stryker77
Hello, I'm going on a date tonight with a Scorpio, just taking it in my stride at the moment as I have just come out of a 6 yr relationship with a sag which was a difficult break up for me.

I have been upfront with her so far about my break up, So are we well matched? I'm looking forward to it, I'm a Virgo Male

How long since the break up?

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So how long since the break up—

Lib, judging by some of his older posts....maybe a month? Ish??

oh...not bad.
Virgo males (most of them) KNOW what they want...and KNOW when they are done with someone. They dump the baggage like garbage and never look back without a thought. Hence my curiosity of the break up.
They also know when something is over before it happens, and begin the process. So with that said,
If she feels the same way about him...I guarantee you it will work! I wish you much luck.

He was probably fucking her in his head two months ago. 😉

One other pointer to Stryker...

Glad you have been up front with her about the ex.

Try not to shut her out when she occupies 95% of your mind and you can't for the life of it figure out how she has done that to you. Instead of stepping back to analyze it to death, just go with it..you won't be sorry. 😉

Posted by Impulsv
Fucked the ex?? Two weeks ago. Yeah don't waste her time. Save both heart ache. Get ex out of ur system

He's a Virgo, trust me he has. 😉

Well he said he was completely open about the ex.

When a Virgo "cuts the string" (as he put it with the Sag) it's cut. 😉

Well...not to brag or anything but I do know about male Virgo & Scorpio female.

I'm responsible for telling a 49 year old man to not procrastinate with a Scorpio woman from work he was smitten with here in these forums and to GO FOR IT....

Not only did he end up marrying her, he had twin daughters with her.

I'm sorry if that bother's you elle....but it's the TRUTH

Not to mention PM's I've gotten from other Virgo males I've helped.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry

his past threads really don't jive with what you are saying....but hokay.

Well...in FACT it does. I just went and took a gander...and in his very last post he said he "cut the string" from the Sag....

So...I think I know what I'm talking about and again, I'm sorry that bother's you so deeply enough to derail this man's thread.

you need to think before you speak elle...and practice your own advice...BREATHE..step away from the key board.(s)

ok elle...ok

smh

I am not telling this Virgo anything but TO GO FOR IT.

That is all. Are you finished yet?

Any other man...I'd agree.

Not with a Virgo... I could care less who he bagged two weeks ago.

Doesn't mean I'd have the attitude of the majority of women in DXP and fuck him within two dates either.
He'd be thinking about it a lot though...

😉

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
what about his upbringing?

Gee elle...I wouldn't know. I guess we can leave that up to the Scorp he has a date with right.

Unless you want to share his upbringing with us...by all means. I'll be sure to comment more.

you finished yet? lol

Guys take it easy!! Scorpio knows the score because she has been a shoulder for me to lean on, she likes me clearly but at the moment I just want to enjoy it, maybe I shouldn't call it a date, my mistake, however letitB is right I cut the strong yesterday and it feels good, if the sag begged me now I would enjoy leaving her dangling on a string like she has done with me, I've been split since feb

Manipulate Virgos elle?

How is that?

Oh...you mean with confidence and self respect? absolutely!!!!!! They respect that.

Posted by Stryker77
Guys take it easy!! Scorpio knows the score because she has been a shoulder for me to lean on, she likes me clearly but at the moment I just want to enjoy it, maybe I shouldn't call it a date, my mistake, however letitB is right I cut the strong yesterday and it feels good, if the sag begged me now I would enjoy leaving her dangling on a string like she has done with me, I've been split since feb

Hey Stryker...I need not say anymore...

Best of luck to you both! Let us know how it goes. 😉

Posted by Impulsv
I'm not sure ur that right lib. I met a Virgo who explained on n off with ex. Sure enough before we got to our first date he apologized n said he went back with ex n he said he was done with ex previously.

Sorry to hear that...at least a whole lot of time and energy wasn't wasted.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry

Posted by LetltB
Manipulate Virgos elle?

How is that?

you've posted two posts in here insinuating manipulation tactics. You figure it out yourself.

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quotes you are referring too please. I don't take a liar's word for it. Thanks hun..I'll be sure to comment on the obvious misconceptions you've faltered on. (again)

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
are you serious?

as if I'm going to help you by explaining after you've plastered half quotes of mine all over dxp today without any explanation.

HAHA!

not a chance in hell you dimwit.

I caught it and that's all the matters. Not to mention your hypocrisy that's shining bright today.

I'm done derailing this guys thread. I've already given an opinion 🙂

Gotcha again...that makes FOUR LIES in one day for you elle. Aren't you something?

Posted by Infinite8

Posted by Stryker77
Guys take it easy!! Scorpio knows the score because she has been a shoulder for me to lean on, she likes me clearly but at the moment I just want to enjoy it, maybe I shouldn't call it a date, my mistake, however letitB is right I cut the strong yesterday and it feels good, if the sag begged me now I would enjoy leaving her dangling on a string like she has done with me, I've been split since feb

Hi Stryker77,

I've read about your and your Sag and why you broke up in the first place. I'm sorry the way this ended for you but I guess it's best to trust the process of life and learn the lessons that come with it, making you a better man in the end.
Scorpio females &virgo men get along very well. Always be honest with the Scorp, she will respect you for it and in return be a very loyal friend. I agree... Don't call it a date. This year has been traumatizing for you to say the least. It is fair to want to open the door to another relationship, but just be sure of voicing out only of what you are sure of with the Scorp. No illusions or false hopes and everything will go just perfect!

Have fun and I really hope that the rest of the year has a more positive direction! 🙂

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Thank you, I had a lovely evening and she was a pleasure to be around, nothing more, it was nice

Posted by Stryker77

Thank you, I had a lovely evening and she was a pleasure to be around, nothing more, it was nice

lol...

talking to another scorpio tooooo. the rapport between virgo and scorpios are undeniable i think... but of course there are issues as with any relationship...

also for me as a virgo.. it's a good sign that i will even make an effort to hang out with someone, even if at the moment i'm not COMPLETELY over the other person. i mean, we're human..can't just wipe the slate entirely clean. that means i WANT to heal, and if you want anything and try at it, it will happen.

Ummm Yeah..........DOH!!

LOL

😛

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/sagittarius/sag-consuming-my-mind-4922414/

He's either ANOTHER troll or just one of those rare VIRGO ASSHOLES. pick one.

Stryker77
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Posted by Stryker77

Yeah your right I haven't dated so far and I'm starting to, joined a new gym and there is a good social scene there, I know it will drive her crazy seeing something of hers with another woman, I wish I had done it earlier but my head wasn't in it.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/letting-go-of-ex-4922491/

Yes elle, I was wrong and have the balls to admit when I am, it's who I am.

Miss me or something? Looking to be called out again or something? I have a few hours.