Withdrawing after expressing feelings?

Is it normal for Scorpios to completely disappear and withdraw after you express feelings?

I am seeing a Scorpio male (Saturn in Scorpio) and I am a Cancer male (Sun in Cancer). We have amazing chemistry and have lots of things in common. We've been seeing each other for three months and are taking things slow. We have not yet been intimate with each other. He is very shy around me but my goofiness opens hin up. He always wears and stone cold mask when I am with him, hiding his emotions. However, two weeks ago, we went out with his friends and danced and there was a point where our dancing became intimate (nothing raunchy, people - just a very sensual slow dance) and we looked into each others eyes. Also, everytime I danced, he kept trying to steal glances at me but then pulled away once I caught him and he would smile to himself.

Anyways, at the end of the night, I told him that even though he is busy (he has a very demanding job - he's in the entertainment business), I still want to get to get to know him more and he smiled and was very happy.

I texted him a few days later wishing him a good week with the busy work he has ahead of him and happily replied. But now, it has been two weeks and he has not responded to my texts. I sent him two last week (a quick, how are you and a "would you like to come to such and such even with me this weekend? it would be great to see you") and no reply. I texted him today and again no reply. I know he likes me. My gut tells me so and I am not worred (oddly enough being the SUPER sensative Cancer I am - no joke - full moon and I am an emotional mess!). I know he is interested in me because his eyes just say it and inutition tells me he's the one for me but could he be withdrawing because maybe he is feeling strong emotions? Or maybe just needs his typical space? Is it normal for scorpios to withdraw after intensity romance wise?

imo, scorps generally take responsibility over someone else's feelings very seriously. they're perceptive and can sense what you want from them and if you can handle them and their autonomy. they dont just see the present, they also make very educated guesses about the future. i think scorps are essentially busy sizing up situations when they withdraw... and/or seeing if you can handle the kind of space they need from time to time.

He is a SATURN in scorp, or SUN in scorp? There is a big difference.

Saturn in Scorpio! I am Sun in Cancer

Yes he is a Scorpio (born 10 November 1983).

But I am Cancer ....28 June 1988. Sun in Cancer

Posted by 88NPISCES
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this question got my attention. I am not a scorpio but my moon is in scorpio, and yes I do that. for some reason it is hard for me to express my feelings. I show my feelings with actions, I do small things, or big things for someone I expres my affection that way, some may not see that that is how I love someone or show love. Then when I am hurt I let them know how much I loved or love them, I express my feelings and when I do I completely disappear.

I dont know if this makes sense, or if it is just me or other scorpio mooners as well.

makes total sense 88, i am the same way. its like i say it and then the "why did i do that" phase sets in immediately. tbh, i only withdraw based on what the other person has shown me previously. if im not quite sure how your going to take what im saying, i will withdraw. if your embrace me immediately and its met with the same intensity, you will NOT get ride of me 🙂

when any scorp sun, moon, or venus disappears its not that theyre trying to blatantly avoid you. we are trying to avoid the feelings you bring out of us. we must remain in control of our feelings. most of the time we are just so upset with ourselves or even revealing these secrets. to see you is like whoa.