Yes

Heard from him last night. Only took 9 days for HIM to text me. He apologized for the silence. Said hope I am well and happy halloween. Im glad I heard from him but I dont think I want anything more than friendship. Not going to respond. He will get the hint. The fact that he acknowledged the "silence" tells me it was deliberate and I just dont have the time or patience. Not to memtion any trust.

stop taking a leaf out of his book. unless you want this cycle to carry on. i-can't-text-her-yet-because-she's-expecting-me-too-oh-i-can't-text-him-yet-because-he-acknowledged-the-gap-in-communication-i-wanna-be-friends. am-drams.

saying 'i don't think i want anything more than friendship' sounds indecisive. and airing him out is passive aggressive. you don't like it being done to you. at the end of the day, you could get him to be straight with you, but for whatever reason you're not doing it.

Posted by FireDragonScorpio
hmmmm. i have to say that it's really hard not to get childish in this situation. impossible for me. i'm currently ignoring a leo out of gameplay and not for any other reason than wanting him back. as days go by i'm becoming aware that i'm kidding myself and probably don't even want him back but i'm just too stuck in the game to stop playing it 😢

i know how u feel.

Posted by Shagattarius
Heard from him last night. Only took 9 days for HIM to text me. He apologized for the silence. Said hope I am well and happy halloween. Im glad I heard from him but I dont think I want anything more than friendship. Not going to respond. He will get the hint. The fact that he acknowledged the "silence" tells me it was deliberate and I just dont have the time or patience. Not to memtion any trust.

now remember this is a grown ass man almost 40. hes been doing this all his life.

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Posted by Shagattarius
Heard from him last night. Only took 9 days for HIM to text me. He apologized for the silence. Said hope I am well and happy halloween. Im glad I heard from him but I dont think I want anything more than friendship. Not going to respond. He will get the hint. The fact that he acknowledged the "silence" tells me it was deliberate and I just dont have the time or patience. Not to memtion any trust.

now remember this is a grown ass man almost 40. hes been doing this all his life.

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which is why i've decided to not pursue anything more. call it childish but he gets what he gives. he blew it.

scorp do what they want, when they want. 9 days aint really shit to be waiting for a scorpio to call. scorpios have come back to people after YEARS. years dont seem like years to some scorpios, they seem like mins when its eternity to the rest if us. something will trigger then come back. could be that theyve finally decided after doing some serious thinking or they have to be in a horrible relationship to finally see the good in an old one.

if and when he wants to come to you for relationship, sex, whatever...it will be on his time.

Posted by DMV
scorp do what they want, when they want. 9 days aint really shit to be waiting for a scorpio to call. scorpios have come back to people after YEARS. years dont seem like years to some scorpios, they seem like mins when its eternity to the rest if us. something will trigger then come back. could be that theyve finally decided after doing some serious thinking or they have to be in a horrible relationship to finally see the good in an old one.

if and when he wants to come to you for relationship, sex, whatever...it will be on his time.

This is sooooo true. Im dealing with a Scorpio that has come back to me three times. One time it was 7 months, second time it was 2 months, and here we are.

Sometimes the silence isn't necessarily what you think it is.
Case in point....

Posted by Shagattarius

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Posted by Shagattarius
Heard from him last night. Only took 9 days for HIM to text me. He apologized for the silence. Said hope I am well and happy halloween. Im glad I heard from him but I dont think I want anything more than friendship. Not going to respond. He will get the hint. The fact that he acknowledged the "silence" tells me it was deliberate and I just dont have the time or patience. Not to memtion any trust.

now remember this is a grown ass man almost 40. hes been doing this all his life.

which is why i've decided to not pursue anything more. call it childish but he gets what he gives. he blew it.

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Glad you see the games and realize it's not for you NOW instead of later, unlike most people.

Kudos to you