Pursue a relationship or remain friends? F Taurus Sun, Gem moon, Gem Venus + M Aqua sun, Leo moon.

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I know an Aqua for over 6 years now, on and off as friends, and very rarely, fwb (Friends with benefits.)

However lately, he's more up to my spontaneous maps, and hanging out with my friends. Our connection's become more close in the years. He enjoys my company, but I'm so worried about asking him out. I don't want it to affect our friendship. But I see him as a long-term partner, only because of how well we understand each other.

What do you think about this pairing? We're like children together, but can also have intellectual conversations. Should I tell him and give him lots of space, or would that throw him off? Or should i cleverly disguise us being together as a joke of some sort? Please advise. UPDATE : He’s a Scorpio moon. 🆘 I have trouble communicating with him about my feels... but we can talk about literally anything else.
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I know an Aqua for over 6 years now, on and off as friends, and very rarely, fwb (Friends with benefits.)

However lately, he's more up to my spontaneous maps, and hanging out with my friends. Our connection's become more close in the years. He enjoys my company, but I'm so worried about asking him out. I don't want it to affect our friendship. But I see him as a long-term partner, only because of how well we understand each other.

What do you think about this pairing? We're like children together, but can also have intellectual conversations. Should I tell him and give him lots of space, or would that throw him off? Or should i cleverly disguise us being together as a joke of some sort? Please advise. UPDATE : He’s a Scorpio moon. 🆘 I have trouble communicating with him about my feels... but we can talk about literally anything else.


Astrology aside, don't you think being able to communicate about your feelings is important in a relationship? I do. As for the Taurus Aqua thing. I've never had a successful long term love relationship with an Aqua guy though they do make great friends - W / no benefits.
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My mum is Taurus with Gem Venus. Father is Aqua with Leo Moon.

She took the initiative, in fact she "tricked' him into marrying her. They are still together.

So yep, go ahead!

I’d love to know what your mom did! Shoot me a DM so I have some inspiration 😂 (I’m born on the 11th actually)
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They were dating for a few months (and were university colleagues). She said she may take a teaching job in the same village as his mother, for the next decade or so. She may keep her company and look after her, but only if she becomes her daughter in law soon! The Aqua happily agreed/proposed. He already had a position at the University and thought he will get to enjoy his freedom while being married, and also have his mum looked after for free.

The wedding was planned for May. A few weeks before, she tricked a colleague of hers into taking the job in that village. She came home crying crocodile tears that a rogue person stole the job from under her nose. And what now...is Aqua going to abandon her...?!!!!

Aqua said he will keep his commitment to marry her.
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My mum is Taurus with Gem Venus. Father is Aqua with Leo Moon.

She took the initiative, in fact she "tricked' him into marrying her. They are still together.

So yep, go ahead!

I’d love to know what your mom did! Shoot me a DM so I have some inspiration 😂 (I’m born on the 11th actually)

They were dating for a few months (and were university colleagues). She said she may take a teaching job in the same village as his mother, for the next decade or so. She may keep her company and look after her, but only if she becomes her daughter in law soon! The Aqua happily agreed/proposed. He already had a position at the University and thought he will get to enjoy his freedom while being married, and also have his mum looked after for free.

The wedding was planned for May. A few weeks before, she tricked a colleague of hers into taking the job in that village. She came home crying crocodile tears that a rogue person stole the job from under her nose. And what now...is Aqua going to abandon her...?!!!!

Aqua said he will keep his commitment to marry her.
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Wow this is brilliant! I love your mom's quick thinking!