A bit confused with this Taurus.

Profile picture of iamlanaxxx
iamlanaxxx
@iamlanaxxx
9 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 181 · Topics: 27
I met this Taurus man a couple of weeks ago at one of my best friends wedding. During the reception, I could tell by the vibes he was giving out that he wanted to get in my pants so he started to become really touchy. And because I'm not really a one night stand kind of girl, I didn't let him. He continued being persistent the next day so I thought ok why not, he is a pretty cute guy and we actually did hit it off quite well. So, I took a cab to his hotel the next night and we did it. I may have said some things to him that night that hurt his ego but I was very quick to apologise and explain myself. To my surprise, he even said (through text) we should catch up when we're both back home (the wedding was in a different state). Quite surprised by his suggestion, I msgd him back saying asking if he would actually consider seeing me again after some of the things I said and he said off course.

It was then, I thought ok maybe I should actually get to know this guy. I'm not one to chase but my gut told me to chase this one guy... and by chase I mean get to know him. Btw. I'm a Pisces with a moon in Virgo.

Anyway, so far I've been the one initiating plans of meeting up. Everytime I gave him a day that I was free, he's had to turn me down. He's had valid reasons as to why, not just excuses so I've been very understanding.

Afer reading through forums and pages of what Taurus men are like, I figured they don't really say things they don't mean. 2 nights ago he was so good, being quite open through his msgs. He was always so aloof before that point. By the end of the night we were sexting and he even said he'd hope to see me before I headed back to the city (he lives a couple of hours away but I make frequent visits to the town he lives in because I'm originally from there). I msg'd him last night saying so this Sunday...? And he completely ignored my msg. Obviously being a sensitive Pisces, it left me a bit confused and upset. And not really sure what it's supposed to mean.

I'm someone who also likes to take things slow too. I've developed a soft for him but I feel like he gets the impression that i'm the kind to dive head on into a relationship. I just want to get to know him more really and then go from there.
Profile picture of AgentP911
AgentP911
@AgentP911
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 3847 · Topics: 1
Step away from the Taurus man. I dunno what your gut was thinking of but it sure as hell shouldn't be telling you to pursue a man. Sure, a little initiating can be helpful at the start but he's turned you down numerous times regardless of whether it's genuine reasons or not. He's not exactly battering your door down is he? If the dude was interested you'd know about it. From what you've said, he seems rather luke warm about you. Now that could be because he was after a fuck and eventually got it so you're in the 'harem' so to speak or because he's just not that bothered. The reason doesn't matter. It's not happening. Stop trying to force it. If he wants you he knows where to find you. If he's not locating you then he ain't interested.