Advice please, can't meet Taurus women cos of vacations.

Hi, I need advice again. Same girl I was asking about before, she doesn't really initiate with me but she always say yes when I ask her out. We’ve been on some good dates. And I wasn’t sure if she’s 100% , I don’t think she is, but she hasn't ruled me out. I think she was interested and now I get the feeling maybe she was using me as a distraction over an ex, that’s kinda how it feels but it’s just speculation, might not be true. Her priorities have changed since we first met, as she did want a boyfriend and now I think she wants to travel and do a summer job abroad.

I’d like to keep things going if I can, or at least keep trying for now. I asked her out last week and she said she was really busy, it seemed genuine, like it wasn’t a made up excuse. Then she was on vacation this week. And then I’m on vacation next week. I’m just worried this kind of break is too much? (3 weeks without seeing her) But I’m not sure as it might not be too bad for a Taurus and maybe it’s a good thing as it gives her time to think (if she is thinking that is)? My plan is to message her when I get back from holiday (a week from now). Then it just kinda gives her a bit of space, I can’t see any other way round it at the moment? But is this a good thing or bad thing?

We do kiss, just at the end of the night, before I have to drop her off at work. We've always done that.

Yeah I know, I guess I should have to wait?

3 weeks is nothing.

just let whatever happens happen. if she is using you as a distraction, seeing her every week isn't going to change that.

if she wants to travel, your timetable will have no effect on that.

there are only so may variables you can control.

at this point just be in the moment. continue enjoying her company. be happy you met someone you find interesting and continue getting pleasure out of spending time with each other and learning more about her.

breathe. stop sweating the small stuff. if it fizzles out, then it fizzles out. you had an experience. it's all part of life.

Hmmz I just checked her chart, she has Venus in Aries and so do I.

Maybe I was too slow all this time. Difficult to know what all this means. Maybe she wants to go quick but wants to check I’ll stick around and wants to make sure I won’t try to control her. Just guessing.

She also has Leo rising.

Hmmz if she has Venus in Aries then I’m thinking I might have lost this, she could be bored of me.

OP! Calm down. I think you're stressing way too much. I haven't read your previous thread but from what I read here, I honestly think you're stressing too much. I think whatever Jeane said is on point. You can't control everything. Just go with the flow. If you want to text, do it. Don't plan so much in advance. You text whenever you want, even now! People text and its okay. Unless you're bombarding her with a dozen texts or she's cold shouldering your texts, its fine! And honestly, 3 weeks is nothing, and it's for genuine reasons too. Also, if she'll want to be with you, she will. If not, she won't. So relax and do what makes you happy. It's no use if you're always walking on egg-shells.

Hey, I’m stuck again. I’ve sort of given up on this girl. Last Wednesday I asked her out for my birthday, which was yesterday. She said it would be nice but she was out of town this week. I asked if she was around at the weekend (ie last weekend) and she said no. Just a one word answer, and I sent a message back just saying let me know when you’re around. That was it.

Then I noticed from social media, she was out of town at the weekend, but not this week. Obviously I know plans can change, so who knows. But then yesterday she didn’t message me to say happy birthday or anything, and I know that doesn’t matter too much either. But all week I’ve just been thinking, it’s time to give it up. And today I really felt like I had, or can, for the first time. Because I was always initiating, I kind of just thought she has to be the one to message me back now.

She goes to work abroad for the summer, and I don’t think she’ll come back here after, I think she’ll go somewhere else, she might but who knows. She’s a dancer so she can go anywhere really easily, but who knows.

I just can’t tell, and I think it’s because she’s a Taurus, and it’s the messages, they are short. I know it’s been well covered all over the internet how Taurus message. And my brother is the same, I messaged him every day for a week, because I really needed an answer to something. He never messaged back, had to wait to see him and he just said he forgot. So I kind of think this girl is like that. But I don’t want to chase her if she doesn’t want to be asked out. And I want to appear secure obviously. She was just a bit funny when she messaged back, like the wording was a bit funny and not particularly polite, but not sure if it’s just in my own head. She used to suggest another time. I doubt she wants to get with anyone before she goes away too, but I would like to see her before she goes. I feel like I can give it up now though as I’ve sort of gone into protection mode, so I’m not sure. She would message me if she was interested, and I think that’s all there is to it?

I don't know if this helps at all, but before my Taurus seemed fairly serious about me, she would make excuses and disappear when we were supposed to meet, cancel or go home early, etc.

She would also suggest a different time and delay things. Once she is interested, she is 100% committed. Seems like a Taurus / young person thing as I never experienced this with anyone else who I dated before..