am I trippen or is he?

I've been seeing this taurus male for about 10mos now. I've called it quits once before b/c he just wasn't emotional enough and was soooo mean ( making jokes that hurt my feelings). I'm a pisces! But after 2 weeks of us just saying hi and bye, he called and let me know he missed me and we were back together. Well we did chat about why I called it quits and he said he's change and he did. He stopped the jokes but he's still not emotional enough for me. Now I am over to his house ALOT. I cook for him sometimes. We've been having a lot of sex lately. But that's b/c of me. He recently told me that he knows what to do from now on when he says he wants to go to sleep, he just won't ask me to come over. B/c I always say I'll go to sleep with him but always end up feeling on him and.......you know the rest. But I don't understand him. If I were him, I'd be all over me! But we're kind of more like friends but havin sex daily. ugh! So should I push the issue or just let it go? I've heard bulls like to take it slow but damn, I'm about to fall asleep!

It's like I'm not sure if he's really feeling me or am I just something to take up some empty time. I need some passion. We don't hung up unless we are in bed together.. He doesn't kiss me unless we are having sex. What's up with that?

Um your having sex with no relationship, those are booty calls or at the most FWB kind of situations, your giving him more sex than you are a relationship, try focusing on less sex and doing more relationship things, all that wifey crap is going to get played out. If you want a REAL relationship then that is something he has to give you on his own, not something that can be forced through food and sex, it works for him but not for you b/c your motives aren't really real.

Plus your beautiful, why are you not allowing a man to court you? Don't you want nice dates, nice dinners out, fun times away from the bedroom, your definitely someone a man would be proud to have on his arm, he should be chasing you and making you feel cherished and that is not something you can have by being his wifey and giving him sex all the time. Plus did you ever care to know what he missed about you, seems he missed the sex and food, always be clear what a man means when he's feeding you words because it seems you didn't get much out of the deal.

Stop treating yourself as second best by using your body to get a real relationship, you deserve the best, if this guy isn't making you feel cherished then it's up to you to address the issue or move on to someone who can do the job.

So here's my 2 cents: about him not being emotional enough. If you want to be involved with a Taurus man, it seems to me that this is something you will either have to accept or not. From my experience with my bull and from what I read, they will only show but so much emotion. My bull shows his feelings and emotions through his actions but getting him to be verbal is like pulling teeth. So I guess it depends on what means more to you..action or words?

As for not hanging out unless you're in the bed...sounds like FWB status. Not kissing unless having sex DEFINITELY sounds like FWB status. I'm sure all bulls are different but my bulls kiss is what got me hooked and we kiss ALL the time like we're in highschool or something! But there's a lot of passion behind the kisses and he seems to get lost in them (I guess cause they are so sensual) so you might not want to ignore that.

As for the sex aspect, I feel your pain as my bull gets lazy too and sometimes can't keep up which caught me off guard since I've heard so much of their stamina. Sometimes he's a marathon and sometimes he a preview! But hey, they,re only human, gotta give them a break! But I don't think you should make it so easy for him, and STOP plating wifey when he's only giving you "jumpoff" treatment. I think you've made him way too comfortable and if he can keep you around with the bare minimum of what he's doing, then why should he do more??

I say fall back and let him do the work and see if you all last. Sounds like you've given way too much of yourself. I believe that he likes you because I hear this same Taurus story way too often (being involved with women but the women not sure of their feelings) but he sounds way too comfortable and he needs to be taken out of his comfort zone. I had to do the same thing recently and I cut my bull off. Silence followed but then exactly a week later he came around but I'm still not making any efforts. I'm gonna let him do some work and see where it takes us...if anywhere! I think you should do the same. Let me know how it goes...good luck!

So here's my 2 cents: about him not being emotional enough. If you want to be involved with a Taurus man, it seems to me that this is something you will either have to accept or not. From my experience with my bull and from what I read, they will only show but so much emotion. My bull shows his feelings and emotions through his actions but getting him to be verbal is like pulling teeth. So I guess it depends on what means more to you..action or words?

As for not hanging out unless you're in the bed...sounds like FWB status. Not kissing unless having sex DEFINITELY sounds like FWB status. I'm sure all bulls are different but my bulls' kiss is what got me hooked and we kiss ALL the time like we're in highschool or something! But there's a lot of passion behind the kisses and he seems to get lost in them (I guess cause they are so sensual) so you might not want to ignore that.

As for the sex aspect, I feel your pain as my bull gets lazy too and sometimes can't keep up which caught me off guard since I've heard so much of their stamina. Sometimes he's a marathon and sometimes he a preview! But hey, they,re only human, gotta give them a break! But I don't think you should make it so easy for him, and STOP playing wifey when he's only giving you "jumpoff" treatment. I think you've made him way too comfortable and if he can keep you around with the bare minimum of what he's doing, then why should he do more??

I say fall back and let him do the work and see if you all last. Sounds like you've given way too much of yourself. I believe that he likes you because I hear this same Taurus story way too often (being involved with women but the women not sure of their feelings) but he sounds way too comfortable and he needs to be taken out of his comfort zone. I had to do the same thing recently and I cut my bull off. Silence followed but then exactly a week later he came around but I'm still not making any efforts. I'm gonna let him do some work and see where it takes us...if anywhere! I think you should do the same. Let me know how it goes...good luck!

So here's my 2 cents: about him not being emotional enough. If you want to be involved with a Taurus man, it seems to me that this is something you will either have to accept or not. From my experience with my bull and from what I read, they will only show but so much emotion. My bull shows his feelings and emotions through his actions but getting him to be verbal is like pulling teeth. So I guess it depends on what means more to you..action or words?

As for not hanging out unless you're in the bed...sounds like FWB status. Not kissing unless having sex DEFINITELY sounds like FWB status. I'm sure all bulls are different but my bulls' kiss is what got me hooked and we kiss ALL the time like we're in highschool or something! But there's a lot of passion behind the kisses and he seems to get lost in them (I guess cause they are so sensual) so you might not want to ignore that.

As for the sex aspect, I feel your pain as my bull gets lazy too and sometimes can't keep up which caught me off guard since I've heard so much of their stamina. Sometimes he's a marathon and sometimes he a preview! But hey, they,re only human, gotta give them a break! But I don't think you should make it so easy for him, and STOP playing wifey when he's only giving you "jumpoff" treatment. I think you've made him way too comfortable and if he can keep you around with the bare minimum of what he's doing, then why should he do more??

I say fall back and let him do the work and see if you all last. Sounds like you've given way too much of yourself. I believe that he likes you because I hear this same Taurus story way too often (being involved with women but the women not sure of their feelings) but he sounds way too comfortable and he needs to be taken out of his comfort zone. I had to do the same thing recently and I cut my bull off. Silence followed but then exactly a week later he came around but I'm still not making any efforts. I'm gonna let him do some work and see where it takes us...if anywhere! I think you should do the same. Let me know how it goes...good luck!

I have to agree with TheAffection. Taurus men get lazy even in the bedroom. When it comes to work or paying bills they??re great, but I tell my Taurus man he's like a robot because he never shows any emotions, but being a Cancer I can usually tell what he's thinking. I??ve been with my Taurus a year and 3mths and I don't know how many nights I??ve went to sleep frustrated and confused as to why he showed little interest when it comes to sex. We work opposite shifts but even with that I know some men will be half dead and still try to get some before they go to sleep. I think they just get too comfortable and they??re chasers, they get a rush for being in control and that's what you are when you are pursuing early on. When you get to the relationship, its normally a give and take which starts the lazy stage. I asked my Taurus last night (mind you after a year and 3 mths) if he loved me because he??d never said it, he went all around the block only to basically tell me he wasn't sure and that he's prayed about it. To me that's unacceptable, I know Taurus men take their time but after a year you should feel comfortable enough to know and tell me if that's how you feel. I'm his first girlfriend in 4 years after a 6 yr relationship where his girlfriend cheated, so I know he has some emotional issues, I thought after some time passed he??d see I was down for him and it would pass but obviously this hasn't happened. We??re about to be over because it's not worth the issues.

Tocca if he's not giving you what you want, you need to let it go. In the end you??ll be bitter that you wasted so much time on something that you had to play games to get to act right.

Dang, you guys are soooooo right! I'm sitting here reading like Damn! But oh well, I should move on this time for good. I am not sure what's up with him. And I'm kind of tired of trying to figure it out. He claimed when we were just friends I was cool but after we started having sex was when I changed. I'm like yeah! There is so much I don't understand although I was trying to get all questions answered on that night. but oh well.

Yeah it??ll be hard, but remember relationships are suppose to make you happy, not confused or upset and they always should get better with time. Also remember if a man is unsure if he wants you (regardless of the reason) then you shouldn't want him??_

OKAY CALL ME DUMB, BUT DEFINITLY DONT KNOW WHAT (DWB) MEANS.LOL. ANYWAY, GIRL OLE BOY IS RIGHT. IF HE'S TREATING YOU LIKE A BOOTY CALL, THEN THATS EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE. THE BULL LIKES TO PLAY WITH YOUR MIND, AND STRING YOU ALONG IF YOU LET HIM.(SOUNDS TYPICAL FOR GUY RIGHT?) WRONG! TAURUS NIGGAS ARE A WHOLE NOTHA BALL GAME, AND YOU BETTA BE READY OR HE WILL DEFEAT YOU. THIS IS A ONE MANS SPORT, AND THIS ONE WONT PLAY FAIR IF HE FEELS YOUR OUT TO GET HIM, OR TRYING TO LOCK HIM DOWN IF HE DONT FEEL YOUR THE ONE. YOU WILL, AND TRUST ME! YOU WILL GET YOUR FEELINGS HURT, OR HEART BROKEN. RUN GIRL. IF HE AINT TREATING YOU LIKE A QUEEN DIP LIKE DIPSET AND DONT LOOK BACK. HOLLA.