An Aquarian, having trouble with a bull.

We're in school together, and it all started off with she giving all sorts of hints to me that she digs me, and I like her too, so even though neither of us asked the other out, we made it clear "somehow" that we're together to the rest of the school. In all this mess, I managed to get her to admit she likes me, and then I told her I do too and that I will ask her out to be my gf on a weekend when we go out this weekend for a movie with our friends, she said she just she couldn't wait for it.


Even with all this, when we're together - alone - its too awkward. I get nervous a little, and when we're with our friends, she hardly talks to me.

Yet still, when we pass by each other during periods, she looks and smiles and wait for me to react with the same, and we meet up online in chat in the nights and talk a lot of stuff (school stuff, even some romance).

I know aquas and taurs aren't supposed to bond well anyways, but are there any tips still?

Might just need help from both Aquas and Bulls here.

MercInAries:
Sometimes if you can't say something positive dont bother saying anything! 😉

AquaFocus:
On a more positive note....COMMUNICATE! The aqua/taurus relationship is a very difficult one..i know! Tell the taurus girl how you feel, she won't bite..she may even disclose her undying love for you but you better believe that until she's sure how you feel about her, she'll keep the relationship cool, calm and collected. I've been seeing an aqua recently and to be honest he drives me crazy...i like him but he doesn't act in the way i feel someone should act whose "in love" as he calls it, so i end up pushing back on my emotions and feelings. Us Taurus girls are very independent and stubborn but we need a lot of security, stability and reassurance from our loved ones...as far as i'm aware those 3 things are not part of the Aqua make-up. If we are sure you're keeping it real with us and if we can trust you then hey you'll get the keys to our heart but if we can't work you out, we'll spend time analyzing and may then conclude you're not worth our time! Taurus people can be quite shy when around a lot of people, they prefer one-on-ones, so don't take her quietness around friends personal. Oh and when she sees you during periods and is smiling...HELLO - she's flirting with you!!! - she probably doesn't want to look all desperate, so she just smiles (deep down waiting for you to come over!)...next time why don't you take the lead and smile and say something to her first. I notice aqua's have a very hard time expressing their feelings but if you want to be with a Taurus then its all about expression....so take that puppy dog look off your face when you see her, grab your balls in your hand and step to her like a man! 🙂

MercInAries: true! true!

Taurus and Aquarius in business we are like peas in a pod but in love well let's just say air is moving and earth takes it's time, the two signs aren't the best love signs but they can work if both are willing. You need to build on it and try, we aquarians hate showing emotions but we need to tell what is going on in our minds to the good natured taurinian.

she may just be feeling nervous and unsure now that you've actually taken the step toward a relationship - we bulls are stubborn and go full force for what we want - but once we get it we don't always know what to do with it.

Well, I just did it. I asked her out to be my GF 2 days ago, and today I went even a step further told her I love her (which...I do..!) and that its been really hard for me to express my emotions in school and all.

She was all very, very cool about it....this kinda' makes me feel like a fool now, lol.

Well in any case, I needed to try this once 😛 Thanks for the suggestions people.

...there are dating coaches? lol.

Good job Aqua Im glad you came out and said it directly. Im a Taurus and in public subtle is best but when something needs to be said find a comfortable intimate spot and say it directly with little left to question and doubt. It may take time for her to be more outgoing with affections and emotions, especially with inviting herself into your personal space, as I sometimes talk about it more than I do it, but give your Taurus girl a little time, comfort, reassurance, and security and she should begin to shower you with affection.

"most dating coaches advise against it, but then again, those dating coaches are still single."

merc - sometimes I almost think you're a genius...... careful , you don't want to give anyone the wrong impression !