Approaching a Taurus Man

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I've been interested in this Taurus Man for a very longg timeee.... I met him 10 years ago but he was so so slow to approach me so sometimes I message him first & he has been hitting me up more & more since I've done so.

I've ended conversations though just to space oout our interactions a bit.

Is that normal that he is so awkward about hitting me up first? LOL. Sometimes he does but you can tell he just wants to talk but really doesnt know what to sayy. He really, really isn't the type to approach any girl.

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He's been away in the military this whole time & i knew he was going in back then... but we've been talking more now that the distance is closing....

he's actually moving to my coast so now that its more realistic he brought up ideas of things we can do... i like him because he knows me and remembers me from a much younger, more innocent time hhaha. he already understands the core of my character. we were teenagers.

I know he hasn't really changed much since then he's super consistant in character. thats why i'm attracted to him. its actually my longest running crush to record (i'm usually wishy-washy) so i just like him a lot.
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Posted by busyeyes88
I'm struggling with a two month friendship with a taurus who has three placements in sag. One being his moon and he feels more like a sag than a taurus and I've a Leo moon and leo rising.. His sag moon is really complicating things. 😢 My moon is pretty relaxed. I think we are heading for 'splitsville' again.. 😢



aww i'm sorry to hear that !! my placements are scorpio moon & venus. my rising is in venus. therefore i love sooo strongly and i like relationships and i'm pretty quiet sometimes but also super friendly & happy & outgoing. i think my leo rising makes me come off with more confidence than i actually have.

i dated a gemini with a sag moon and it was so bad because he never wanted a relationship with anyone i got sooo hurt 😢 so i totally understand. when i was a teenager i dated a sag but he was more like my bestfriend and he looved to cheat (when he was immature). i hope your guy wises up & see's what he's got! i think sag men have issues getting serious. i have fun playing and i let go pretty easily in the beginning but when i'm serious about someone i'm serious.

my advice for your sag guy is dont hold on too tight, or just dont give the impression that your holding on at all. he will love the freedom to go & come back, and if your there longer term, he will always value & appreciate you and you will end up above eveeryone else 🙂
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Posted by busyeyes88
I'm struggling with a two month friendship with a taurus who has three placements in sag. One being his moon and he feels more like a sag than a taurus and I've a Leo moon and leo rising.. His sag moon is really complicating things. 😢 My moon is pretty relaxed. I think we are heading for 'splitsville' again.. 😢



aww i'm sorry to hear that !! my placements are scorpio moon & venus. my rising is in venus. therefore i love sooo strongly and i like relationships and i'm pretty quiet sometimes but also super friendly & happy & outgoing. i think my leo rising makes me come off with more confidence than i actually have.

i dated a gemini with a sag moon and it was so bad because he never wanted a relationship with anyone i got sooo hurt 😢 so i totally understand. when i was a teenager i dated a sag but he was more like my bestfriend and he looved to cheat (when he was immature). i hope your guy wises up & see's what he's got! i think sag men have issues getting serious. i have fun playing and i let go pretty easily in the beginning but when i'm serious about someone i'm serious.

my advice for your sag guy is dont hold on too tight, or just dont give the impression that your holding on at all. he will love the freedom to go & come back, and if your there longer term, he will always value & appreciate you and you will end up above eveeryone else 🙂
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sorry i meant my rising is in LEO!
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Sags are tons o' fun. The women are so sexy too. I think its good if you have some fire in your chart though.

Sag moons though are totally nuts to me. I can't handle em...They seem to have more of the stereotypical negative Sag traits than the Sag suns I know.



haha thanks 😉 and yeah i totally agree about sag moons, they're literally the eternal bachelor!!
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
My Sags rising is in Leo...lol, she is such a show-off, always trying to soak up all the attention and get her recognition. She is gorgeous, dresses really nice, is extremely successful, but deep down? No real inner confidence. She's extremely insecure.



awww. yeah i'm a leo rising but the irony is i HATE attention (must be my scorpio moon), i just get it though- i think its the way i carry myself or my attiude. i try to shy away from Leo-ness because i feel like it makes me a lil agressive.
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Posted by busyeyes88
@simplysag. My rising is also in leo and unfortunately for me I
had an 18 month LDR with a sag and he ended it last Dec and it ended so badly that his ugly side came out and it would take a whole lot of humble pie for him to eat in order for the damage to be repaired. He was 52. I sacrificed so much and was left heartbroken.

@TLS. Leo moons and risings are as you have figured not as confident as they may appear and need a lot of love and support to do well. The taurus guy I have befriended over last two months has a sag moon and I am beginning to see the horrid negative judgmental traits. What is screwing things up is that his emotions changes like the wind and my leo moon can't handle his harsh words or his changeable mind... When he is in a good mood he is lovely and so funny and the moons gel well together but my leo moon is fixed his moon is mutable so it changes too much. I want to take things further physically but can't do don't want to get burned AGAIN. This time by a sag moon....




awww i totally feel you girl! same thing happened to me... with my gemini sag moon 😢 he TORE ME APART!! i've never been so destroyed by a man. exact same situation. theyre nuts! it took me a year to get over. my shortest term "relationship" a year, and the HARDEST to get over because he was so nuts 😢😢 i'm never dating a sag moon again
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oi you lot! i am a sag moon and i am just lovely.



Well, I admit...I've only been friends with one. And there is a lot that is good about him. I'm just seeing all the negative Sag traits right now. He's had a really rough upbringing though, so I'm sure there are other reasons why these negative traits manifest. You seem really level-headed.
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aww, thanks tls 😄

(i don't mind you all laying into us(me). you're probably right!)
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Posted by busyeyes88
@TLS. You have described the sag moon I know to a T! How do I deal with it. We had a bad text argument over shopping for food would you believe. So he told me he does not want to deal with me any more. So I'm like ok. He said a few horrid judgmental things to me whilst sitting on his ivory tower. These things hurt me as a Leo moon we don't like things that hurt our pride and all my friendships I amputate instead of trying to fix it. So the point being he fixed a bag of mine and was hoping to leave it at a store but the store won't accept responsibility for it now he has to give it to me face to face. He is due shortly... How do I deal with the situation? I'm so afraid that I will not see him or feel for him in the same way prior to the argument and would not be able to look at him straight in the face... It's too soon for a Leo moon. We need time for our hurt pride and ego to subside... What do I do? I don't want to make him feel bad but at the same time he hurt me and I can't pretend also I don't want him to see I am vulnerable.. Help?!



He should feel bad if he said those things. I'd just ignore him if I were you. If someone says they are done with me, I am done with them, no looking back. Definitely a matter of pride.