PiscesSteph
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Are Pisces and Taurus actually compatible??
A Taurus man asked me to marry him. He was really nice and put up with a lot from me. I broke his heart. Sad really. He was 10 years older than me though. Maybe it would have worked out had he been my age, but I don't know. We didn't remain friends afterwards. He didn't want to talk to me. I think he had an image of me as a "wife" and when that didn't go his way, he realized he didn't actually like me as anything else.
I've so been where you are. ..lol..many times. The best way to describe it is this. Patience will be rewarded. Just find your own rhythm to your own song. He will hear it, find yours and follow. But he's got to find his rhythm first.
As Pisces we want attention and open affection. At first m it seems like bulls don't care and only take from people. This is how they weed out who to trust. Kinda like a prove it to me first. Now their testing time can be a long time. But if you hang in there and just be amazing you he will come around.
As Pisces we want attention and open affection. At first m it seems like bulls don't care and only take from people. This is how they weed out who to trust. Kinda like a prove it to me first. Now their testing time can be a long time. But if you hang in there and just be amazing you he will come around.
Ok so this behaviour is normal....it just seems so abnormal! Hopefully I have enough patience to wait at least one Taurus out! 😛 If this one doesn't work out I doubt I will bother with another. Too much work!
Posted by shortii
I've so been where you are. ..lol..many times. The best way to describe it is this. Patience will be rewarded. Just find your own rhythm to your own song. He will hear it, find yours and follow. But he's got to find his rhythm first.
As Pisces we want attention and open affection. At first m it seems like bulls don't care and only take from people. This is how they weed out who to trust. Kinda like a prove it to me first. Now their testing time can be a long time. But if you hang in there and just be amazing you he will come around.
"hang in there and just be amazing"....does this mean I have to keep my emotions contained? It's really difficult with him.
I have separated from my Taurus.
What killed me were several things:
1.) Her psychopath friend who constantly damaged, destroyed or otherwise sabotaged our relationship. Taurus always defended her, even when the psycho bitch woild lie to her face.
2.) Her coldness with me in public. I am a huge fan of sitting next to someone I care about while in a restaurant, rather than sit across from them. She hated this affectionate posture from me, which in turn was very hurtful.
3.) She hated my voices and sillyness, which also hurt.
4.) I recently had to work all day in the sun, and stopped by a bar to visit her and her psycho friend. I tried to hold her hand, and she rejected it because she didn't want "awkwardness" between us while her friend was there. I calmly got up and left, and she followed me outsidr where I ended the relationship. I am her friend, but I really do not want anything else from her anymore.
Did I make the right decision?
What killed me were several things:
1.) Her psychopath friend who constantly damaged, destroyed or otherwise sabotaged our relationship. Taurus always defended her, even when the psycho bitch woild lie to her face.
2.) Her coldness with me in public. I am a huge fan of sitting next to someone I care about while in a restaurant, rather than sit across from them. She hated this affectionate posture from me, which in turn was very hurtful.
3.) She hated my voices and sillyness, which also hurt.
4.) I recently had to work all day in the sun, and stopped by a bar to visit her and her psycho friend. I tried to hold her hand, and she rejected it because she didn't want "awkwardness" between us while her friend was there. I calmly got up and left, and she followed me outsidr where I ended the relationship. I am her friend, but I really do not want anything else from her anymore.
Did I make the right decision?
BTW, Steph, my taurus was also notorious for refusing to initiate anything with me. I had to start the snuggling, the kisses and all the affectionate behavior. She was never the one to start it, and it drove me nuts. I mean, if I am gonna rub your back, at least offer to rub mine too, yiu know?
Posted by ScorpioFish
I have separated from my Taurus.
What killed me were several things:
1.) Her psychopath friend who constantly damaged, destroyed or otherwise sabotaged our relationship. Taurus always defended her, even when the psycho bitch woild lie to her face.
2.) Her coldness with me in public. I am a huge fan of sitting next to someone I care about while in a restaurant, rather than sit across from them. She hated this affectionate posture from me, which in turn was very hurtful.
3.) She hated my voices and sillyness, which also hurt.
4.) I recently had to work all day in the sun, and stopped by a bar to visit her and her psycho friend. I tried to hold her hand, and she rejected it because she didn't want "awkwardness" between us while her friend was there. I calmly got up and left, and she followed me outsidr where I ended the relationship. I am her friend, but I really do not want anything else from her anymore.
Did I make the right decision?
Wow, I definitely think you made the right decision!! I don't have a lot of experience with Taurus's but the one I have is very affectionate in public. He can't keep his hands off me. How long were you guys together?
I have read that Taurus are ridiculously loyal to their friends and they would choose their friends over a lover if the lover made them but I do not know if it is actually true and I've never been in that situation.
It sounds like you should find someone who appreciates you. Sillyness is an awesome thing and I know a ton of people who WISH their partner was a bit silly at times.
At the end of the day we need to make sure we are getting what we need out of a relationship.
Haha craving it like a junkie!! That`s the perfect way to describe it! Sounds like my Taurus and I.
Maybe the first one already did the slow progression of figuring out if he really liked you while you guys were friends then was this supposed great Taurus mate that comes along once they`ve got things figured out.
I haven`t fallen for this guy - he makes it too difficult to so far but I feel as if I could one day. I just don`t know if the patience is in me. Especially since he may decide that he doesn`t actually like me after all is said and done. Such a gamble.
Maybe the first one already did the slow progression of figuring out if he really liked you while you guys were friends then was this supposed great Taurus mate that comes along once they`ve got things figured out.
I haven`t fallen for this guy - he makes it too difficult to so far but I feel as if I could one day. I just don`t know if the patience is in me. Especially since he may decide that he doesn`t actually like me after all is said and done. Such a gamble.
Yeah can I just be at the stable loving part already—?
Posted by MilkySoft
PiscesSteph, I don't like the fact that he never calls you (only texts) and disappears for days. In fact, that's one thing I use to gauge real interest, whether or not they feel like they need to at least hear my voice if we can't see each other. When they really like you they need to call you.
It's funny that a lot of your complaints are similar to the ones I had with a Pisces. I gave it some time but it became clear he wasn't interested in a real relationship. Some people just aren't that compatible. He had NO earth and his only water placement was his sun sign.
It's true that Taurus can seem handicapped when it comes to talking about emotional conflicts, but the typical bull is still very affectionate and attentive. I think you found a defective one or he's not suffiently interested.
Overall, I'd have to agree with this. Not every bull is the same just like not every fish is the same.??If you really aren't feeling this guy and don't feel like he's worth the effort then move on. I was speaking in general terms before of if pisces and Taurus are compatible. I know a bull who's Pisces ex-gr is "the biggest mistake he ever made" according to him. Doesn't all mean that every Pisces and every bull work out. One of my bull exes is an amazing sweetheart who has a loud mouth and a horrible temper when brought out. Notice I said ex...lol he will remain a friend but no future romantically ever. .lolEach situation is different but life is too short to be unhappy. Move on and if he really cares or cared he'll come running
Wow, I definitely think you made the right decision!! I don't have a lot of experience with Taurus's but the one I have is very affectionate in public. He can't keep his hands off me. How long were you guys together?
About a year. Was trying to make it work with the emotional warmth, but it didn't take to the level that it should. I want a human being whom is reciprocal to the emotionally warmth I provide. This shit about jerking her hand away because her asshole friend was there was really it. I mean, what's wrong with sitting beside a person you care for while at a restaurant? Especially since you only get to see that person a few times a week due to work and school responsibilities?
I have read that Taurus are ridiculously loyal to their friends and they would choose their friends over a lover if the lover made them but I do not know if it is actually true and I've never been in that situation.
I believe you. This psychopath "friend" of hers is such a little asshole. Psycho bitch only dates destructive men who use and mistreat her, and she hates the concept of what my ex and I had. She would come into their shared apartment at 3 AM and turn on all the lights and smash pots around in the kitchen to wake us up. Then she would tell all these lies the next day about how "she doesn't remember acting like that." No apologies for being like that, despite the fact that I would have to get up early for work and both my ex and her bitch friend knew that. She also nearly killed 2 other people in her DUI head-on collision one night at 2 AM. Then she shamelessly gets some high-powered lawyer to get her out of prison time with some technicality or another. With her psychotic friend, I was like motherfucker, I just want to punch you in the head until my arms get too tired to swing anymore.
It sounds like you should find someone who appreciates you. Sillyness is an awesome thing and I know a ton of people who WISH their partner was a bit silly at times.
Thank you. I am actually quite good at doing voices and impersonations. I hope to find someone out there who will also appreciate this.
At the end of the day we need to make sure we are getting what we need out of a relationship.click to expand
Yes, absolutely. I mean, my Taurus had some stellar attributes such as very honest personality and wonderful abilities to make meals in the kitc
At the end of the day we need to make sure we are getting what we need out of a relationship.
Yes, absolutely. I mean, my Taurus had some stellar attributes such as very honest personality and wonderful abilities to make meals in the kitchen. But the coldness in public and psycho bitch "friend" basically drove me nuts.
Yeah, she is constantly texting and calling me in an effort to get me back.
I am a decent guy, so I don't believe in icing her out and being a dick about everything.
But, I am kind of hurt by her behavior and I am certainly disinterested in seeing her "friend" ever again.
I am a decent guy, so I don't believe in icing her out and being a dick about everything.
But, I am kind of hurt by her behavior and I am certainly disinterested in seeing her "friend" ever again.
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFishPosted by shortii
As Pisces we want attention and open affection. .
Yes. Consistent affection and attention. You can't be all into me one day, and then the next day just be like meh. It fracks with my emotions and I don't like that. If anything I expect to be the emotionally unstable focker in the relationship. 😛 And if he's the inconsistent one it just does not work, Taurus or other wise.click to expand
LOL
pisces and taurus are cute lovable signs!
Actually, her psycho bitch friend is a CAPRICORN.
I am not kidding around, either.
She is about 3 feet tall, and a true-to-life definition of "total asshole."
I think part of the reason she is such a crazy bitch is that her parents told her she was an unwanted child. They accidentally conceived her when they were in their 40s, so it makes sense as to why they wouldn't really care to pay much attention to her. Hence why PB is such an attention whore.
I am not kidding around, either.
She is about 3 feet tall, and a true-to-life definition of "total asshole."
I think part of the reason she is such a crazy bitch is that her parents told her she was an unwanted child. They accidentally conceived her when they were in their 40s, so it makes sense as to why they wouldn't really care to pay much attention to her. Hence why PB is such an attention whore.
Posted by PiscesSteph
Ok so this behaviour is normal....it just seems so abnormal! Hopefully I have enough patience to wait at least one Taurus out! 😛 If this one doesn't work out I doubt I will bother with another. Too much work!
TOTQLLY AGREE!! I'm giving only this ne Taurus I am dealing with and if it does not work out; I will totally avoid them going forward. Too much work and too mentally draining.
Posted by crabberries
Be cautious, read along the internet, search forum ,blogs about taurus man and you will see how they act that causes mess, I think they are the most complained sign.
I think they are too.
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Reading all these posts on dxpnet I am wondering the same thing. Are Pisces and Taurus compatible? Because you are right patience is not a Pisces virtue.
I've only seriously dated one and he consistently wanted to be with me and was very sweet, so that was my expectation for every Taurus. Of course we were also friends before dating, so we had some common interests. The other bull was hot and cold. When I had his attention it was great. When I didn't, I felt myself craving it like a junkie who didn't know when they would get their next fix. I didn't like that feeling, so he had to go. I assumed the second one was the exception to the rule. Maybe I was wrong.
I tend to encounter Taurus sun or Taurus moon men a lot. I don't know if we are compatible, but my heart betrays me every time, no matter what my brain says. I'd probably give it another try. I don't expect to be compatible with every Taurus I meet. Attraction can only take you so far.
No one seems (I at least I have yet to read) to mention the fact that Taurus' like to have control. It's all about when THEY want to, when THEY are ready. Everything is in their hands to control the situation until THEY trust you. It's never the other way around.
I dont know how Bulls can deal with emotional beings...every bull I tried that with failed
they are cold imo unless your about to have sex
they are cold imo unless your about to have sex
Posted by MilkySoft
PiscesSteph, I don't like the fact that he never calls you (only texts) and disappears for days. In fact, that's one thing I use to gauge real interest, whether or not they feel like they need to at least hear my voice if we can't see each other. When they really like you they need to call you.
It's funny that a lot of your complaints are similar to the ones I had with a Pisces. I gave it some time but it became clear he wasn't interested in a real relationship. Some people just aren't that compatible. He had NO earth and his only water placement was his sun sign.
It's true that Taurus can seem handicapped when it comes to talking about emotional conflicts, but the typical bull is still very affectionate and attentive. I think you found a defective one or he's not suffiently interested.
I would definitely say if you are not hearing from a Pisces then they are not into you. If I am not into keeping regular contact with someone then I am just no that into them. Which is probably why my Taurus has me thrown for a loop.
It's funny we've never really talked on the phone. Neither of us calls each other so I cannot blame that on him. He is usually really great until I complain about something. Then he shuts down for a couple days and I don't hear from him. This time it's going on 4 days and nothing. As a Taurus will he actually end things or will I possibly never hear from him again. I'm not good without closure.
I feel so torn right now. I do not know if I should just give him the space he possibly needs and wait for him to come around or just end things. Yikes!
^oops messed that up 😛
I'm curious to know how many Taurus' on here feel that I should move on?
This guy is absolutely great when we are together (plans our evenings, cooks me my favorite things, very affectionate, calls me pet names, talks about going to Arizona with me in a few months) then when we are apart....nothing. So I complained and now he will not talk to me. He's done this before (the last time I complained). It seems to me he's getting more distant. I actually thought he was losing interest until he made plans with me and we had an incredible evening (a double date with his dad and his girlfriend though....) :S I have not talked to him for 4 days now and before this the longest we went without talking was 2 days. I will admit that I caved and apologized last time but I do not think I owe him an apology this time. Is he just being stubborn and possibly going to come around or is he just pushing me away until I break things off?
This guy is absolutely great when we are together (plans our evenings, cooks me my favorite things, very affectionate, calls me pet names, talks about going to Arizona with me in a few months) then when we are apart....nothing. So I complained and now he will not talk to me. He's done this before (the last time I complained). It seems to me he's getting more distant. I actually thought he was losing interest until he made plans with me and we had an incredible evening (a double date with his dad and his girlfriend though....) :S I have not talked to him for 4 days now and before this the longest we went without talking was 2 days. I will admit that I caved and apologized last time but I do not think I owe him an apology this time. Is he just being stubborn and possibly going to come around or is he just pushing me away until I break things off?
You guys are right. I told myself I'd give it time so I will but I have to decide how long.
His moon and Venus are Cancer so perhaps that's it. I don't know a lot about these things. Is there a good book you might recommend?
His moon and Venus are Cancer so perhaps that's it. I don't know a lot about these things. Is there a good book you might recommend?
Posted by schneakyPosted by bkbella86
I dont know how Bulls can deal with emotional beings...every bull I tried that with failed
they are cold imo unless your about to have sex
I disagree.
My partner is a Pisces and my best friend is a Cancer.
I'm a warm and loving partner and a good friend.
Don't confuse not getting caught up in other peoples emotional states with being cold. The voice of reason comes in handy sometimes 🙂click to expand
Arent you a women though?
If your profile is correct then I wasnt talking about you....I was talking about the four Taurus men I have dealt with along with the countless stories on DXP of this behavior pattern found in your male counterparts.
They maintain control that way, best way to deal with it is to control your emotions as well or move on.
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
I'm having second thoughts about this Cancer moon thing. I thought it was something I wanted but clearly not. I don't think my rational placements can handle Cancerian placements outside of friendship.
PiscesSteph this isn't directed specifically at your comment about your bull. It was just on my mind.
Im talking to a Taurus Cancer moon now supposed to go lovely with my Pisces moon
I think the Cancer moon adds to the bulls cautiousness
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFishPosted by bkbella86Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
I'm having second thoughts about this Cancer moon thing. I thought it was something I wanted but clearly not. I don't think my rational placements can handle Cancerian placements outside of friendship.
PiscesSteph this isn't directed specifically at your comment about your bull. It was just on my mind.
Im talking to a Taurus Cancer moon now supposed to go lovely with my Pisces moon
I think the Cancer moon adds to the bulls cautiousness
I'm starting to feel this compatibility stuff is bunk LOL.click to expand
its hard for two people to mesh....i get it
but damnnnnn it semms alot harder with the bulls
So if cancer moon adds to a bulls cautiousness does this mean you should be more forward with them? I haven't heard from my Taurus in about 5 days now (never happened before with us) and I don't know if I should just send him a text or keep waiting for a response since the last text I sent him was a question.
Posted by PiscesSteph
So if cancer moon adds to a bulls cautiousness does this mean you should be more forward with them? I haven't heard from my Taurus in about 5 days now (never happened before with us) and I don't know if I should just send him a text or keep waiting for a response since the last text I sent him was a question.
no i dont think it means be more forward
what i notice from them is that they like praise and attention...even if they dont show it, they do...and lots of reassurance....but it has to be a two way street....not one person getting all the love adoration and attention
if he isnt your Bf i would go off and do my own thing because waiting is a waste of your time.
He is my boyfriend and he made sure of that. I'm still going to go off and do my thing while still being respectful to him. I just hope that it isn't over without my being aware of it.
Can anyone tell me if these two are actually compatible?
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I think I accept it because we have only been dating for a few months and I know he doesn't love me. If he loved me and acted like this I wouldn't be able to handle it. That being said, I don't love him either. I guess I hoped to one day. I tend to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, friend, lover of foe. It's a weakness I guess.
I also have this weird need to figure situations and behaviours out. I'm not sure if it is a Pisces trait or not.
I also have this weird need to figure situations and behaviours out. I'm not sure if it is a Pisces trait or not.
So my Taurus calls me today, and asks what I am doing tonight. I reply "not much, since my work day began at 3:30 this morning and I've been on my feet for 15 hours."
She then says she is eating dinner with PB "friend," and that maybe we can have a drink thereafter.
I respond that I won't do that. I make it clear that the only way what we had will ever blossom is if PB is completely out of her life.
She didn't take that very well, but dammit, I will stand up for myself when her PB friend consistently tries to destroy everything.
I fucking hate capricorns as it is, but this capricorn bitch makes me want to take a ballbat to her head until I cannot swing anymore. The fucking fact that she didn't apologize for waking us up the night before I had to work still pisses me off....
To be that fucking arrogant and disrespectful....
Fucking capricorn.
Perhaps I should stop being mad about this, and simply even the score.
It's been written that revenge helps people refrain from anger.
She then says she is eating dinner with PB "friend," and that maybe we can have a drink thereafter.
I respond that I won't do that. I make it clear that the only way what we had will ever blossom is if PB is completely out of her life.
She didn't take that very well, but dammit, I will stand up for myself when her PB friend consistently tries to destroy everything.
I fucking hate capricorns as it is, but this capricorn bitch makes me want to take a ballbat to her head until I cannot swing anymore. The fucking fact that she didn't apologize for waking us up the night before I had to work still pisses me off....
To be that fucking arrogant and disrespectful....
Fucking capricorn.
Perhaps I should stop being mad about this, and simply even the score.
It's been written that revenge helps people refrain from anger.
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFishPosted by PiscesSteph
I think I accept it because we have only been dating for a few months and I know he doesn't love me. If he loved me and acted like this I wouldn't be able to handle it. That being said, I don't love him either. I guess I hoped to one day. I tend to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, friend, lover of foe. It's a weakness I guess.
I also have this weird need to figure situations and behaviours out. I'm not sure if it is a Pisces trait or not.
Sounds very piscean indeed. I reserve judging people until get to know them. I give everyone the benefit of the doubt as well. And before I make a final judgment, I try to see if I can understand their thought processes. If the person just proves to be an asshole after I have given them ample opportunity to show their true self, I'll cut them off for good. But basically everyone starts at 100% credit and makes their way to zero based upon behavior.click to expand
I'm the exact same way
Posted by PiscesSteph
He is my boyfriend and he made sure of that. I'm still going to go off and do my thing while still being respectful to him. I just hope that it isn't over without my being aware of it.
scratch that even if he is ya bf and even more so I would do my own thing.....this behavior is selfish and controlling. I can assure you this wont be the last time if you tolerate this bs. Fuck being respectful...he is being disrespectful why meet him with anything different?
Posted by schneakyPosted by bkbella86Posted by schneakyPosted by bkbella86
I dont know how Bulls can deal with emotional beings...every bull I tried that with failed
they are cold imo unless your about to have sex
I disagree.
My partner is a Pisces and my best friend is a Cancer.
I'm a warm and loving partner and a good friend.
Don't confuse not getting caught up in other peoples emotional states with being cold. The voice of reason comes in handy sometimes 🙂
Arent you a women though?
If your profile is correct then I wasnt talking about you....I was talking about the four Taurus men I have dealt with along with the countless stories on DXP of this behavior pattern found in your male counterparts.
They maintain control that way, best way to deal with it is to control your emotions as well or move on.
Yep I'm a woman but I have a dear male friend who is a Taurus and he is with a Pisces lady.
He's so mooshy it makes you want to throw up in your mouth a little.
And he's an accountant!click to expand
girl thats one friend....take a good look around the Taurus board and tell me how many women you see with the same Story....and just on the first page....im just saying
there is a pattern that at this point cannot be disputed.
Posted by schneakyPosted by PiscesSteph
So if cancer moon adds to a bulls cautiousness does this mean you should be more forward with them? I haven't heard from my Taurus in about 5 days now (never happened before with us) and I don't know if I should just send him a text or keep waiting for a response since the last text I sent him was a question.
Why do you accept this behaviour?
I have never been out of contact with my partner for that long....ever! I wouldn't tolerate it!
I'm not being horrid but truthfully asking the question.
That's complete arrogant ignorance on his part and I would not stand for that!
A man who is in love with his woman would not want to be out of contact with her.click to expand
+1
bull or no bull this is bs behavior
Posted by ScorpioFish
So my Taurus calls me today, and asks what I am doing tonight. I reply "not much, since my work day began at 3:30 this morning and I've been on my feet for 15 hours."
She then says she is eating dinner with PB "friend," and that maybe we can have a drink thereafter.
I respond that I won't do that. I make it clear that the only way what we had will ever blossom is if PB is completely out of her life.
She didn't take that very well, but dammit, I will stand up for myself when her PB friend consistently tries to destroy everything.
I fucking hate capricorns as it is, but this capricorn bitch makes me want to take a ballbat to her head until I cannot swing anymore. The fucking fact that she didn't apologize for waking us up the night before I had to work still pisses me off....
To be that fucking arrogant and disrespectful....
Fucking capricorn.
Perhaps I should stop being mad about this, and simply even the score.
It's been written that revenge helps people refrain from anger.
LOL
i think a little revenge can be healthy too...i usually just make it funny nothing too crazy
Although I'm an Aqua, the Taurus guy I dated (on and off) for 6 Months had the ability to bring out the Pisces Venus in me (only guy I've dated who could do it, my Aries ex, 6 years together, called me ice queen) . In some way, you and i are pretty similar (benefit of a doubt, not wanting to give up, etc), except your Taurus hasn't said anything about breaking off, so I think he still likes you for sure. my speculation of why your Taurus is becoming distant is probably because you 'disturbed his peace', the term my Taurus used when I asked why he didn't contact me. long story short, we arranged to meet that evening for dinner after he was done meeting his friends, he was done, but no calls, no texts, turned out he went grab a bite to eat with them, but without letting me know approx when he would be done, so I was waiting, wandering around the streets). so my texts disturbed his peace and he broke off . I was very shocked of course because as an aqua, my texts are not firey at all... they are always in an as a matter of fact way.
I think what Taurus guys (at least the one I know) do is they don't just look at your behavior as a singular incident with its own context, factors and causes, instead, they magnify the result alone and put it on their long term life plan, and assume it's gonna be a pattern, then, they get really terrified. All the happy moments you two had before? don't matter anymore coz in their eyes, you could be a lunatic and their future happiness is very threatened by you.
Your Taurus just needs to observe you a bit more and be certain that you won't disturb his peace again and that is not a pattern thing. Mine just broke off like that, made up his mind, no negotiations, no talks, wouldn't communicate or try again coz 'I'm not your bf anymore and I have no obligations to put into any time or effort into a non - existent relationship'. Very cold. But I think he regrets now but that'll be another story for another day. :-)
I think what Taurus guys (at least the one I know) do is they don't just look at your behavior as a singular incident with its own context, factors and causes, instead, they magnify the result alone and put it on their long term life plan, and assume it's gonna be a pattern, then, they get really terrified. All the happy moments you two had before? don't matter anymore coz in their eyes, you could be a lunatic and their future happiness is very threatened by you.
Your Taurus just needs to observe you a bit more and be certain that you won't disturb his peace again and that is not a pattern thing. Mine just broke off like that, made up his mind, no negotiations, no talks, wouldn't communicate or try again coz 'I'm not your bf anymore and I have no obligations to put into any time or effort into a non - existent relationship'. Very cold. But I think he regrets now but that'll be another story for another day. :-)
Posted by ScorpioFish
BTW, Steph, my taurus was also notorious for refusing to initiate anything with me. I had to start the snuggling, the kisses and all the affectionate behavior. She was never the one to start it, and it drove me nuts. I mean, if I am gonna rub your back, at least offer to rub mine too, yiu know?
I am very taurean but that isn't me at all.
I love giving affection, holding hands, stroking partners face, hair, shoulders etc.
Weird.
Ps I just had an experience with a piscean guy.....I tried ro engage in emotions, bond, be affectionate, call him nicknames, hold hands ....he held back a lot if the time.
He was ok most of the time but not very demonstrative.
He was ok most of the time but not very demonstrative.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by schneakyPosted by PiscesSteph
So if cancer moon adds to a bulls cautiousness does this mean you should be more forward with them? I haven't heard from my Taurus in about 5 days now (never happened before with us) and I don't know if I should just send him a text or keep waiting for a response since the last text I sent him was a question.
Why do you accept this behaviour?
I have never been out of contact with my partner for that long....ever! I wouldn't tolerate it!
I'm not being horrid but truthfully asking the question.
That's complete arrogant ignorance on his part and I would not stand for that!
A man who is in love with his woman would not want to be out of contact with her.
+1
bull or no bull this is bs behaviorclick to expand
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Well I personally think true compatibility is all about security.
Im a Capricorn, supposedly one of the most compatible with Taurus, but in all honesty, there isnt a great deal of security when it comes to our feelings, despite the obvious when we are together. Its when we are apart where our feminine sign withdrawn habits kick in and it all becomes mental. A relationship could never work if there is no complete trust and security in how the other feels, and when our thoughts kick in is when i personally think we have issues.
Im saying this to say, feminine signs tend to be a bit more withdrawn and a bit more insecure honestly. There are no mind or emotion readers, so at the end of the day its all about self protection/perservation. If there is trust and you make eachother feel confident and secure...the relationships works Id think. If you like eachother, but there is no trust, and you are sometimes confused on feelings or depth of them....then its confusion and what appears to be game playing on both ends. Most things have to align i think with taurus, and other earth signs.
Im a Capricorn, supposedly one of the most compatible with Taurus, but in all honesty, there isnt a great deal of security when it comes to our feelings, despite the obvious when we are together. Its when we are apart where our feminine sign withdrawn habits kick in and it all becomes mental. A relationship could never work if there is no complete trust and security in how the other feels, and when our thoughts kick in is when i personally think we have issues.
Im saying this to say, feminine signs tend to be a bit more withdrawn and a bit more insecure honestly. There are no mind or emotion readers, so at the end of the day its all about self protection/perservation. If there is trust and you make eachother feel confident and secure...the relationships works Id think. If you like eachother, but there is no trust, and you are sometimes confused on feelings or depth of them....then its confusion and what appears to be game playing on both ends. Most things have to align i think with taurus, and other earth signs.
Posted by ScorpioFish
So my Taurus calls me today, and asks what I am doing tonight. I reply "not much, since my work day began at 3:30 this morning and I've been on my feet for 15 hours."
She then says she is eating dinner with PB "friend," and that maybe we can have a drink thereafter.
I respond that I won't do that. I make it clear that the only way what we had will ever blossom is if PB is completely out of her life.
She didn't take that very well, but dammit, I will stand up for myself when her PB friend consistently tries to destroy everything.
I fucking hate capricorns as it is, but this capricorn bitch makes me want to take a ballbat to her head until I cannot swing anymore. The fucking fact that she didn't apologize for waking us up the night before I had to work still pisses me off....
To be that fucking arrogant and disrespectful....
Fucking capricorn.
Perhaps I should stop being mad about this, and simply even the score.
It's been written that revenge helps people refrain from anger.
Oh gosh, just when i thought you cooled down on bashing caps you meet another one you cant stand. Do her in good...just so we wont have to hear about how bad you want to for months/years lol.
"The best way to describe it is this. Patience will be rewarded. Just find your own rhythm to your own song. He will hear it, find yours and follow. But he's got to find his rhythm first." This is the best advice I read here. He's doing his own thing. Taurus men aren't big initiators either, which is funny, bc they are dominant. They need gentle coaxing, not criticism. Use your womanly ways when you need attention. They can get fixed on their career/other things too. Sometimes I feel like hey! pay attention to me! But instead of saying that I go out and do or say or send him something 'inspiring' then he's the one coming after me. Think about what he likes..if you want him to speak to you, send him a little something to chat about. If he's not responsive, he may not be into you, but it doesn't seem taurus like to be in a relationship where they don't dig the person. And if all else fails, just communicate to him you need more initiation from him. But again, mine isn't a big initiator (he gets better over time). And he can be quite daft about things and just wants me to straight up tell him want I want..and it works. We work it out. Good luck!
Everyone has such great advice on here! Thank you all!
It's been over a week since I've heard from him so I am going to assume he is done. It is frustrating that he was too cowardly to end it with me but, whatever, we all have our weaknesses.
ksaquayve - you are probably right. I've complained before and he withdrew. He stopped talking to me when I complained again so he could very well see this as a pattern.
Ultimately I do not think he would give me what I need. Sadly, I think this may have turned me off dating Taurus'! They seem to be drawn to me though. :S
I really do love hearing about those relationships that work. 😄
It's been over a week since I've heard from him so I am going to assume he is done. It is frustrating that he was too cowardly to end it with me but, whatever, we all have our weaknesses.
ksaquayve - you are probably right. I've complained before and he withdrew. He stopped talking to me when I complained again so he could very well see this as a pattern.
Ultimately I do not think he would give me what I need. Sadly, I think this may have turned me off dating Taurus'! They seem to be drawn to me though. :S
I really do love hearing about those relationships that work. 😄
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