Aries crushing on Taurus girl

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Howdy. I've always read posts like this but never quite made one myself. I'm an Aries who's been crushing really hard on this Taurus girl for quite some time. She's absolutely stunning, and I haven't been able to tell if she's been friendly or flirting with me within our last few encounters. I may have already missed my chance with her, so I'm considering rushing the situation forehead-first the next time I see her and asking her out.. I omitted details only to stop myself from ranting, but anyways:

She's
Taurus [Sun]
Aquarius Moon
Leo Mars
Aries Venus
Leo Rising
Aquarius Eros
Scorpio Psyche

I'm
Aries [Sun]
Libra Moon
Gemini Mars
Taurus Venus
Cancer Rising
Saggitarius Eros
Gemini Psyche

I was curious if anyone who share her signs or anyone with knowledge of her signs may be able to give some advice, er can tell right away that this is a ticking timebomb waiting to happen?
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Your venus is in Taurus so that means your ideal woman is a Taurus. (Correct me other memebers if im wrong). The only conflict I see in the chart is the sun signs. I'm a taurus and have dated a few Aries men. You guys are pretty hott and I like how masculine a lot of you guys are. For me it usually starts out hot and heavy then eventually arguments ruin things. Aries and Taurus are both very opinionated and head strong. Also aries is so carefree and social the taurus may get jealous if you have a lot of female friends. It can work if you guys are able to communicate properly and respect eachother. Just ask her out and see what happens. Good luck =).
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Posted by TauroMale
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Yowza..! Thank you Tauromale!

I can see a lot of similarities in this.. She's very quiet and reserved, it took me a while before I really got her to carry a conversation with her. But I can easily see her fire/aquarius elements come out a lot in like the way she dresses and her internet antics and whatnot. But like the last time we saw each other, I turned to see her after hearing her call my name, and the first thing she did was walk up, hug me, and kissed me on the cheek...

I've heard Aries are really supposed to be the initiators, but when it comes to pursuing love interests, I'm usually terrified. :C You need me to like, rob a train, or start a riot, though, I'm your guy.

Posted by cookies55
You guys are pretty hott and I like how masculine a lot of you guys are

This made my day! x3
Of course, the rest of your post is good to know. 😛 And yeah, we Aries can care too much and too little about the wrong things a lot.


The thing about the kiss on the cheek.. it was a few months ago, she may have gotten bored and moved on.. On top of that, she no longer works in the town I live in; she's always lived out of town and worked here, but now she lives out of town and works even further away, though she still visits out here. [This was why I mentioned I may have lost my chance. :C] Do the Tauruses feel given the situation that this quest seems doomed?


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hurrah, an aries man
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Hurrah Aries man!!
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Posted by TauroMale
Adaptability and originality moderate everything that she approaches. she has a hard
time making firm emotional ties with others. she trys to stay uninvolved and objective
about everything all the time so she can have a front of being different than others.

here is a post i found of a female who has almost the same placements and her views.


My venus in aries kind of does get bored easily but thats not the main issue. For me it's that I tend to fall head over heels way too quickly. I dont really mind that I get bored with guys quickly becuase it's like when I do find a guy that sparks my interest I immediately go crazy for him. My taurus sun is like hold up get to know him first but my venus in aries coupled with my mars in leo not to mention my aqua moon, wants to just jump right into something and think about the consequences later. Thank God for my mercury in Taurus though, that kind of slows me down when it comes to acting on my impulses, but on the inside its like a whirlwind or tsunami of love or better yet infatuation!
Crazy I know!

Taurus Sun
Aqua Moon
Taurus Mer
Aries Venus
Leo Mars
I can attest to that - the Venus in Aries has always gotten me in trouble too quickly - if I had only known way back ... and with my Mars in Pisces and Mercury in Aries, I was doomed from the get go. I do at last have somewhat of a handle on it. My bb is Libra Sun, Taurus Moon, Venus in Libra, Scorpio Rising, Mars in Scorpio an Mercury in Virgo. Not sure what all that means but this is working and I'm old as crap now. So finally since we have taken it so slow due to both of our previous total butthead relationships, I'm getting the hang/feeling of truly getting to know someone without rushing ahead. It's been a year and it's such a good feeling and it's solid and I can't even think of it not lasting ... must be something in our stars that slowed us both down this time completely - we gell so well - lol
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I have Taurus sun, Aqua moon, and Mercury in taurus. SO TRIPLE fixed and communication is hard for me but with an Aries it's not easy to open up..if I see inconsistent behavior I am going to think about stability and security for the long term. ..

I am going to open up more than you'll know if i like you which can be intense. So hope you can handle emotions.


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@SolidersOfMars- Let's see she is fixed earth, air, fire
You are cardinal, air, air

Fixed and Cardinal great friendship blooming right away.
Both can have lack of emotions but still need to open up together, actual Taurus would get you to open up if they see fit to, too see if you are a man of words or action.

Mercury is all about communication so fixed-fire talker, will show possessiveness, possibly stubborn, possibly quicker arguments and lots of talking with Gemini mercury maybe diffuse arguments quicker as Taurus will be able to hear inconsistencies of Gemini , hardly no problem if mutually beneficial..

I have cancer rising so is caring, nurturing, affectionate, and almost motherly...will always be around.

If you are in a long distance relationship with a Taurus you have to proof you are loyal and infidel, make time, because we are independent, have lots of friends, trustworthy.. if she is only a hour away make time, communication and stay honest all the time.
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iggest things that scare me about this girl is all that Leo. I don't wanna go into too much detail since we're focused on a Taurus, but my previous ex was a long-distance relationship (California to Colorado, USA), she was a Leo, and she cheated on me every chance she got [which she admitted to me at one point]. I've seen a lot of Leo's who are unfaithful [relationships or otherwise. The last Leo at our work wound up robbing us blind.]. But my ex was a Leo, Taurus moon, Cancer Mercury and Venus, Virgo in Mars, so very little can be applied here besides the Leo.


Posted by busyeyes88
I just know that Aries like the "thrill of the chase"....

We do! Normally. But Libra moons like to take that thrill and make it grab its ankles, takes a broom stick and lubes up the handle real good, and SWEEPS that thrill RIGHT out the door!

Posted by busyeyes88
That's incorrect..
Venus shows what a man is attracted to in a woman
Mars show his actions as to what he will do to get something
Moon are the emotions..

Looks to a man's moon!!!

But he said Venus shows what a man likes in his ideal women, isn't it?
For that matter, Venus doesn't work the same way for women, right? What she's attracted to in a man is gonna be the Leo, right?

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ahhhh the Libra Moon - therein likes your sweetness ...

::*high-pitched*:: Yee! x3

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My brother is a Virgo [with some elements of Scorpio], while I'm an Aries, apparently opposites on the zodiac. Despite having to meet each other half-way on a lot of things, we get along very well and usually are able to create a very good team for each of our multimedia projects [music, graphics, film-editing, animating, etc.]. Besides that, he did have an ex who was an Aries, but she was young and always nuts from the get-go so that crashed and burned. :c I'm sure our Mercury signs and other things have somethin' to do with it, but the consistency is always there.

Posted by TaurusMarine
Everyone consistent and true has a chance with a Taurus woman. Do your best! Be that friend she can always rely on ESP emotionally. Good luck

Thank you! :3 This is good to remember.

Posted by TauroMale
Yw...no one usually replies to these kind of posts so i try, and ha! brave enough to rob a train or start a riot but too shy to talk to a girl? alright man Lol
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I pick the battles I know I can win!!
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e double post, ran out of room..

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Oh yeah I have met my fair share in Aries people. .

1. Communicate
2. If you have problems liking arguing, can the both compromise. I see myself compromising more and communicating more...
3. Loyal and infidelity are important...
4. Love hate relationship.
5. Mutual attraction, physical passion, chemistry, impulsive, stubborn.

The Libra side of me has always helped me to find understandings and compassion to the opposite side of an argument without getting too hot-headed over my side. And luckily as an Aries I've always had the willpower to stay loyal.

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I have Taurus sun, Aqua moon, and Mercury in taurus. SO TRIPLE fixed and communication is hard for me but with an Aries it's not easy to open up..if I see inconsistent behavior I am going to think about stability and security for the long term. ..

I am going to open up more than you'll know if i like you which can be intense. So hope you can handle emotions.

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I just looked it up and my crush's Mercury is in Taurus.
EDIT: I think I just realized how to edit posts. I mispoke, I just said I thought my Mercury's in Pisces, but it's actually in Aries. At least we have consistency with our Sun/Mercury signs, but everything I read regarding that mixture doesn't say great things. :C

Regarding the rest, FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428, thank you for the advice. I never really know how to prove loyalty; but I don't want to be cheated on, so I make a personal effort to never cheat on anybody. And I have Cancer-rising too, so it's good to know I have that natural emotional care. 🙂

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@SoldierOfMars- You are welcome hoped it helped understanding a Taurus that will be honest at all times. It's when a Taurus doesn't see enough consistencies is when the Aquarius moon and Mars kick in and will distance or space themselves out to evaluate you. Taurus don't play games especially when it comes down to being monogamous, because Taurus want and need long term friendship that turns into a marriage for life.

Taurus start out friends and sort of just see what's up and observes. So if you tell your cow you are serious about her and wanting to take it to the next step make sure you are ready for all challenges and great bonds alike and not so alike. Every one has flaws and if they can work that, the better the friendship build. A LDR is put to the test, and if your cow isn't ready for a relationship we still want the friendship while we are making money but you make the effort, time, and effort ....

Well I have Mercury in Taurus and you have Mercury in Pisces.

So Taurus in Mercury is a fixed earth and when we talk to someone it is 99% straight up, forward, direct, and stern with stability that you can count on..
Mercury in Pisces has to talk it out in a way Taurus doesn't feel criticize and it is the way of tone you talk. Taurus are sensitive and don't know emotions so your water Pisces and her earth fixed would turn to MUD sometimes.

Taurus don't know how to express themselves and fear to avoid any confrontation, so we build it up and don't talk about it until it manifests into something bad and then you will have to sit down think about it and work it out and listen..If Taurus are comfortable in you will tell you everything that is going on with us and then Taurus would expect the same expressions from you all the time.. Actions over words....
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Aw shit man.. haha even Mercury in Aries is not going to Like Mercury in Taurus ways of communication.. You might do something or say something wrong to Taurus you will hurt her feelings. Ok some of that post is Mercury in Taurus and Mercury in Pisces. So now Mercury in Aries is= Cardinal fire plus Taurus Gemini ,might get along but still clash at times