Intopisces92
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Blackpisces/arabtaurus relationship help!!!
He is playing mind games with you...He is not that interested, and he is stringing you along, because he knows that you care and that he can...
Ignore him....If the connection is real, he will reach out to you, after you ignore him for a considerable amount of time, and he will seriously pursue you, and prove himself to you... He should be reaching out to you not the other way around... He sees that you are weak for him, after standing you up, he is wondering why are you still interested in him...He smells desperation.
"I feel like he is insecure and shy."
@Skye
Yeah. I haven't been texting him for the last two weeks, so he reaches out asking if I still want to see him. He even sent me a picture of him (fully clothed) and asked if I liked it. To me that's being insecure.
In a sense where when we talk about other things, he doesn't talk that much ( he is too private) but when it's comes to sex.... fam he is open. Which makes me question his motives in the first place. If you understand what I mean.
@Skye
Yeah. I haven't been texting him for the last two weeks, so he reaches out asking if I still want to see him. He even sent me a picture of him (fully clothed) and asked if I liked it. To me that's being insecure.
In a sense where when we talk about other things, he doesn't talk that much ( he is too private) but when it's comes to sex.... fam he is open. Which makes me question his motives in the first place. If you understand what I mean.
@Easha2300us I understand what you mean.
I was ready to leave him after he stood me up, he begged me to stay. So now I'm ignoring him. He is the one reaching out this time. His disappearing act doesn't even bother me anymore.
If it was meant to be, it will be.
I was ready to leave him after he stood me up, he begged me to stay. So now I'm ignoring him. He is the one reaching out this time. His disappearing act doesn't even bother me anymore.
If it was meant to be, it will be.
@johnTheBaptist100
He reached out first.
I asked him about the distance between us. It doesn't bother him because his whole family lives in France. And I'm planning on moving to London for school.
He was muted to Dubai but he refused because he wanted to be close to his family.
I haven't been in a relationship in a long time, so it's kind of new and I'm old fashioned when it comes to love.
He reached out first.
I asked him about the distance between us. It doesn't bother him because his whole family lives in France. And I'm planning on moving to London for school.
He was muted to Dubai but he refused because he wanted to be close to his family.
I haven't been in a relationship in a long time, so it's kind of new and I'm old fashioned when it comes to love.
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@Easha2300us I understand what you mean.
I was ready to leave him after he stood me up, he begged me to stay. So now I'm ignoring him. He is the one reaching out this time. His disappearing act doesn't even bother me anymore.
If it was meant to be, it will be.
Good for you... Think of it this way. The rubberband effect. If he runs, and you chase after him, he will keep going in the opposite direction of you. but when you flip the script, and stop, he will come to you... If not, it was not meant to be......The man should always be the aggressor in my book. 😉
@sagoya
We haven't met
We haven't met
He's not interested....just intrigued.
Translation: I will f*&k a Black woman, but I will not marry her nor make her my girlfriend...
OP...
Ask him.."Would any Black man in my family be allowed to speak to the women in your culture in the same manner that you're speaking to me?"
The best way to deal with a hypocritical 'holier than thou' Taurus is to hold a mirror to their alleged morale.
He will eventually stfu.
Translation: I will f*&k a Black woman, but I will not marry her nor make her my girlfriend...
OP...
Ask him.."Would any Black man in my family be allowed to speak to the women in your culture in the same manner that you're speaking to me?"
The best way to deal with a hypocritical 'holier than thou' Taurus is to hold a mirror to their alleged morale.
He will eventually stfu.
@TaurusBull1977
I thought the same thing at first.
He said, he prefers black women because we are independent, well educated and we can hold a man down.
I ignored him for a whole week, he sent me a text last Sunday. Kept it light. He asked me if I want to see him......... No contact since then.
Today, I sent him a text: I can't wait for him, that I was done. He is too private, maybe he is married and only using me for his ego boost. We just have to be realistic about the situation ,go our separate ways. If he really wants a serious relationship, he needs to man up and prove it or else look else where.
He actually take hours to reply, not this time: he is not married and that I should his pic to my parents and tell them about him. And he is coming to see me in 3 weeks.
Thanks for your advice, I'll wait and see. But I'll keep my options open.
Merci.
I thought the same thing at first.
He said, he prefers black women because we are independent, well educated and we can hold a man down.
I ignored him for a whole week, he sent me a text last Sunday. Kept it light. He asked me if I want to see him......... No contact since then.
Today, I sent him a text: I can't wait for him, that I was done. He is too private, maybe he is married and only using me for his ego boost. We just have to be realistic about the situation ,go our separate ways. If he really wants a serious relationship, he needs to man up and prove it or else look else where.
He actually take hours to reply, not this time: he is not married and that I should his pic to my parents and tell them about him. And he is coming to see me in 3 weeks.
Thanks for your advice, I'll wait and see. But I'll keep my options open.
Merci.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by Intopisces92My advice, if he does come to visit you, keep your legs closed and your ears, mouth and eyes WIDE OPEN to watch his actions, note what he says, ask the questions and watch his reactions. Do not bed him.
@TaurusBull1977
I thought the same thing at first.
He said, he prefers black women because we are independent, well educated and we can hold a man down.
I ignored him for a whole week, he sent me a text last Sunday. Kept it light. He asked me if I want to see him......... No contact since then.
Today, I sent him a text: I can't wait for him, that I was done. He is too private, maybe he is married and only using me for his ego boost. We just have to be realistic about the situation ,go our separate ways. If he really wants a serious relationship, he needs to man up and prove it or else look else where.
He actually take hours to reply, not this time: he is not married and that I should his pic to my parents and tell them about him. And he is coming to see me in 3 weeks.
Thanks for your advice, I'll wait and see. But I'll keep my options open.
Merci.
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You know she's going to fuck him! She's ignored TB's advice. There's far too much cultural difference to make this combination work along with what his intention actually is.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100That's if he turns up! He didn't the last time...Posted by AgentP911Yes, you are certainly correct here. This is were people put themselves in a heated oven and then get alarmed when they are burnt to death! Lol lol lolPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by Intopisces92My advice, if he does come to visit you, keep your legs closed and your ears, mouth and eyes WIDE OPEN to watch his actions, note what he says, ask the questions and watch his reactions. Do not bed him.
@TaurusBull1977
I thought the same thing at first.
He said, he prefers black women because we are independent, well educated and we can hold a man down.
I ignored him for a whole week, he sent me a text last Sunday. Kept it light. He asked me if I want to see him......... No contact since then.
Today, I sent him a text: I can't wait for him, that I was done. He is too private, maybe he is married and only using me for his ego boost. We just have to be realistic about the situation ,go our separate ways. If he really wants a serious relationship, he needs to man up and prove it or else look else where.
He actually take hours to reply, not this time: he is not married and that I should his pic to my parents and tell them about him. And he is coming to see me in 3 weeks.
Thanks for your advice, I'll wait and see. But I'll keep my options open.
Merci.
You know she's going to fuck him! She's ignored TB's advice. There's far too much cultural difference to make this combination work along with what his intention actually is.click to expand
This whole thing is just bad and pointless. I speak from experience!
At 32, he's probably already married with kids. He just wants to put it in a black lady. He probably wants to put it in anything anyway!
OP should drop this guy and drop dating at least until she gets settled with her studies in London.
There are two types of Taurus men.
The introverted gentleman. He would simply court you. Most Taurus men are actually shy and very much introverts. He's not pushy at all. Not that he doesn't possess hedonistic tendencies, but it's a little more controlled. He believes that everything will happen in time, with patience, and if it's meant to be, sex will be inevitable and will flow organically. He is not in a rush to get there. However, he is still Venusian. He will be quite romantic, charming, and affectionate. He may look for ways to 'woo' you. This is why many people do not see the 'shy' aspects of the taurus man, it's camouflaged with charm and intrigueness. The courtship process will not only measure the feelings he has for you, but to evaluate whether your ideals, ethics, family values, & hard work are synonymous with his.
The hedonistic loudmouth. He has no control over his hormones. He's probably over-indulgent with everything in his life, and requires an 'excessive' amount of everything. Sex, alcohol, gambling,etc. He's a smooth talker. Venus is very pronounced here. His words will not reflect his actions. He will combine his 'down to earth' energy with his Venusian charm to draw you in. He's an Earth sign. Making you feel safe, building your trust, and getting you worked up romantically over him is his way of controlling the situation. He will get in your head. He could do this in his sleep with his eyes closed. You will never think he's a 'dirty bird'...because he will allude to everything otherwise. Making you feel safe, asking about your morals,values...but in the back of his mind, sleeping with you is the only end objective. Nothing else.
Because he is selfish and detest drama, he will protect himself from any negative repercussions of using you. Which means, he will contact you for one sole purpose only-to sleep with you. No courtship process.
He will rationalize your chaotic behavior by dismsising it as a non-existent relationship that never was, he may even be as bold to bring up facts and evidence to support his argument (Bulls are never wrong). You will feel as if you're the crazy one.
The introverted gentleman. He would simply court you. Most Taurus men are actually shy and very much introverts. He's not pushy at all. Not that he doesn't possess hedonistic tendencies, but it's a little more controlled. He believes that everything will happen in time, with patience, and if it's meant to be, sex will be inevitable and will flow organically. He is not in a rush to get there. However, he is still Venusian. He will be quite romantic, charming, and affectionate. He may look for ways to 'woo' you. This is why many people do not see the 'shy' aspects of the taurus man, it's camouflaged with charm and intrigueness. The courtship process will not only measure the feelings he has for you, but to evaluate whether your ideals, ethics, family values, & hard work are synonymous with his.
The hedonistic loudmouth. He has no control over his hormones. He's probably over-indulgent with everything in his life, and requires an 'excessive' amount of everything. Sex, alcohol, gambling,etc. He's a smooth talker. Venus is very pronounced here. His words will not reflect his actions. He will combine his 'down to earth' energy with his Venusian charm to draw you in. He's an Earth sign. Making you feel safe, building your trust, and getting you worked up romantically over him is his way of controlling the situation. He will get in your head. He could do this in his sleep with his eyes closed. You will never think he's a 'dirty bird'...because he will allude to everything otherwise. Making you feel safe, asking about your morals,values...but in the back of his mind, sleeping with you is the only end objective. Nothing else.
Because he is selfish and detest drama, he will protect himself from any negative repercussions of using you. Which means, he will contact you for one sole purpose only-to sleep with you. No courtship process.
He will rationalize your chaotic behavior by dismsising it as a non-existent relationship that never was, he may even be as bold to bring up facts and evidence to support his argument (Bulls are never wrong). You will feel as if you're the crazy one.
Can the hedonistic loudmouth convert himself into the introverted gentleman.
Maybe...maybe not.
But if it's a maybe...ESTABLISH boundaries on all levels!
Maybe...maybe not.
But if it's a maybe...ESTABLISH boundaries on all levels!
Posted by Intopisces92Bull! If that were the case, he would have felt intimidated and scared straight. He would have never attempted the 'sex' conversation prematurely....Nor indicate that he was 'dominant'. It's all GAME!
I thought the same thing at first.
He said, he prefers black women because we are independent, well educated and we can hold a man down.
It's not easy being a pisces. Our emotions are all over the place.
I have been celibate for almost 4 years, I'm not going to give it up just like that for some sweet text.
He said again: I won't come to see you just for sex. I told him, what makes him think that I only want that from him anyways?.
I asked him to come to parent's house, if he really serious.
His words exactly were, "I'm a dominant guy, I like a naughty and submissive woman".
There was a time I had a problem, told him about it. He said "why won't you mary me, and leave that place" .
I have been celibate for almost 4 years, I'm not going to give it up just like that for some sweet text.
He said again: I won't come to see you just for sex. I told him, what makes him think that I only want that from him anyways?.
I asked him to come to parent's house, if he really serious.
His words exactly were, "I'm a dominant guy, I like a naughty and submissive woman".
There was a time I had a problem, told him about it. He said "why won't you mary me, and leave that place" .
Posted by Intopisces92
His words exactly were, "I'm a dominant guy, I like a naughty and submissive woman".
This ^^^^
Posted by Intopisces92
@TaurusBull1977
I thought the same thing at first.
He said, he prefers black women because we are independent, well educated and we can hold a man down.click to expand
Contradicts this ^^^
Unless, once again, he was alluding to SEX only!
Bulls are consistent. This playboy isn't even consistent with his BS! LMAO!
Get your mind right Pisces, and out of your soapbox.
Something tells me this 4 year hiatus you have been under will expire real soon.
This Bull will be in your panties in no time.
This Bull will be in your panties in no time.
Yeah... I've had experience with Arab men and OMG the BS is like ? The best experience I had with one he just wanted to control everything about me to the point I was fallling into a depression. My advice: delete him NOW! You want to be with a guy who can only promise you domination and rough sex? Is that what you want? Just please wake up and walk away.
Appreciate your advice ladies ... Pisces are so naive, we see good in every situation, knowing well the things ain't going nowhere.
Yes Arab men are controlling, on top of that they tend to use religion to manipulate the woman.
I just dropped him like a hot tamale.
Yes Arab men are controlling, on top of that they tend to use religion to manipulate the woman.
I just dropped him like a hot tamale.
Posted by Intopisces92Good for you girl! Now the Universe can work its magic and find you a great man 🙂
Appreciate your advice ladies ... Pisces are so naive, we see good in every situation, knowing well the things ain't going nowhere.
Yes Arab men are controlling, on top of that they tend to use religion to manipulate the woman.
I just dropped him like a hot tamale.
update if interested
He is now back in my city since may. our first date was at his house. Came to pick me up. cooked for me, we talked for hours.
He works 7 days a week which i really like about taurus people, so we see each other like 3/4 times a months, i study in paris so it's kinda of a struggle.
Everytime we are together, we watch tv, kiss, cuddle,always cooks for me, i never cook. He is a true gentleman but possessive.
we had sex 1 time, so i asked him if he was cool with it. His response was "we are not sex friends, we have have a lifetime for that. I love sex but i can control myself so don't be like my exes thinking that all men are obsessed with sex".
we had our first argument two weeks ago, because he said that i party alot, so i told him i was going to change. He ignored my texts, when i called him, he was furious and mean. i now understand "the bull's anger"
Fast forward, last night on the phone, for the first time, he told me that he loves me and if i believe him on not it's my problem not his. it's the first time he tells me that and he doesn't want to talk about.
I'm shocked and confused
He is now back in my city since may. our first date was at his house. Came to pick me up. cooked for me, we talked for hours.
He works 7 days a week which i really like about taurus people, so we see each other like 3/4 times a months, i study in paris so it's kinda of a struggle.
Everytime we are together, we watch tv, kiss, cuddle,always cooks for me, i never cook. He is a true gentleman but possessive.
we had sex 1 time, so i asked him if he was cool with it. His response was "we are not sex friends, we have have a lifetime for that. I love sex but i can control myself so don't be like my exes thinking that all men are obsessed with sex".
we had our first argument two weeks ago, because he said that i party alot, so i told him i was going to change. He ignored my texts, when i called him, he was furious and mean. i now understand "the bull's anger"
Fast forward, last night on the phone, for the first time, he told me that he loves me and if i believe him on not it's my problem not his. it's the first time he tells me that and he doesn't want to talk about.
I'm shocked and confused
Oh dear OP.
just be cautious - it sounds like you are
he doesn't seem to be in complete control of his emotions
he doesn't seem to be in complete control of his emotions
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