Crazy Taurus Girl: Step 2

If you all have been following my threads. First was deflowering a supposedly Virgin Taurus girl, then dating her and her subsequently breaking down and me as well. This is about, how a week later, we 'talk' and then end up hanging out.

Okay so I talk to her on the phone bout how I felt about whole thing. She starts crying and then wants to come over, on the phone we basically realized we were bonded to eachother and understood eachother but have problems.

Comes over, we talk music, then my passions get better of me, and I do Latino thing where, I hold onto her like hug and talk to her, half in control of myself. I don't even remember what I talked to her about, about being bonded to her.

She said she's making this worse, and isn't sure if she should stay.
Then we keep talking, I tell her I want to take care of her, and I will, and I am loyal to her. She gets upset and says she is going to care of me, and wants to help me.

Anyways, she starts scolding me about me not 'dealing' with some stuff that happened in my past, and how everything I do, is just to hide from that. She was scolding me like a Mom and even hit me with a big Spoon when I wouldn't listen to her.

So I wrestle Spoon out of her hand and pick her up and take her to my Room.
There I lay her on bed, and hold her. She's resolute that she doesn't want to 'hurt me' and about
fixing herself' despite our talk on the phone. So we talk about things and go in and out of touching, but nothing intimate. She's very resolute.

She is confused, about our relationship, I tell her I KNOW that she likes me, she can't bullshit anymore and create diversions cuz she is guilty and unsure of herself. She silently concurs. She probes me about potential future, because I am planning to go to New York and won't be around, she probes me about how do I even really know her. I explain that to me it's not about history it's about spirit, and use Astrology to justify it. I tell her I'll stay here, if it is mean't to be, and I am willing to try. I am solid as the Rock Of Gibraltar, and won't let her down.

She takes off some of her clothes as if to stay, but then thinks it better to not.
I tell her I won't her leave until I kiss her again, she won't.
I let her go, and apologize for being so impassioned, she smiles and walks away.

Did I blow this? On the phone, she was just mush, and when she cam to my house, I was try to play cool for 5 minutes and then lost it. I'm not trying to be clingy by to

touching her, but I think it is apparent Virgo and Taurus are not primarly verbal communicators as far as signs go.
But she has this whole defensive guilt complex about intimacy or touching unless we are bound to get married now, so I don't know how to get through to her.

What do you all think, am I putting myself through trouble doing this? Am I pissing her off/driving her away, by being like a clingy Cancer? (Taurus like Cancers tho) What is Step 2, assuming I am serious about winning this girl and staying with her through her recovery.

I don't want to overbear her or smother her, but I can't help but come on strong when she's around. I don't understand the balance with Taurus girls and this, because it both drives them away but them drives them forward. They want someone who is solid but not someone who forces them. Yet she is trying to figure out if I am real from her questions.

In order to get this girl, what do I do as next step? Not talk for few days then randomly show up? Keep talking? What, plz help me Taurus women.

I am thinking of just writing out what I want to say to her, on 'why I care for her,' and committing it to memory. Just waiting till she contacts me, hanging out and doing a slow courtship, controlling myself a little better, being supportive, and perhaps giving her small gifts. Then when the time is right, going psycho guido, and telling her what I committed to memory. Perhaps tell her I love her.

Chin up sikkario. Keep fighting for your Bull.

So my persistence not to give up on her makes her want me more? And she's going to keep on keeping me around until she finally breaks?
When we argued the night she said 'she couldn't be with me', at the end she started crying, and I felt very bad, so I left. When we talked the other night, and she didn't understand why I left that night. I'm thinking, "wtf, you tell me you cant be with me for an hour and a half while I profess my feelings to you, and then I make you cry over it, and that's when you want me to stay? Pick you up? Make out with you? Makes no sense."

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Posted by sikkario

What do you all think, am I putting myself through trouble doing this? Am I pissing her off/driving her away, by being like a clingy Cancer? (Taurus like Cancers tho) What is Step 2, assuming I am serious about winning this girl and staying with her through her recovery........................I don't want to overbear her or smother her, but I can't help but come on strong when she's around. I don't understand the balance with Taurus girls and this, because it both drives them away but them drives them forward. They want someone who is solid but not someone who forces them. Yet she is trying to figure out if I am real from her questions.

We like Cancers. But we LOVE Virgos more, for the exact same reason you described above. Virgos provide more solid stability...come on strong....but are NOT clingy. Taurus women LOVE that. This is what actually propels them to Virgo men.
She's conflicted. She doesn't want to lose you. She 'secretly' loves the fact that you're still fighting for her. I hate to say this, but we're very stubborn people, resilient, and set in our ways. It will take her some time to come around. But I'm told that Virgos are quite patient, so this shouldn't be an issue.

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absolutely agree.
Also,it's a way of testing.if you keep persisting,it shows you are serious and your love is true.we are all about stability,especially in troubled times.

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Don't be afraid of your Bullette....

Well...maybe be a little afraid 🙂 just a little levity here!

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Posted by Aphrodite Bull
Don't be afraid of your Bullette....

Well...maybe be a little afraid 🙂 just a little levity here!

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😉

Virg Goki must be watching us in the wild and taking notes...

*looks over my shoulder suspiciously at passersby *

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Virg Goki must be watching us in the wild and taking notes...

*looks over my shoulder suspiciously at passersby *

*raising head from grass munching* Uhohhhhh, and I've only got my 2nd stomach full, what about 3 and 4?

Yayyyy gemtaur. 🙂

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Yayyyy gemtaur. 🙂

Seriously. Sooo glad the folks did what they did when they did (or that I came out when I did?) otherwise I'd be a big ole mess! Go Taurus no nonsense, determination, perseverance, strength, love of chocolate (had to include this of course lol) and all things f.a.b.u.l.o.u.s.

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(((welcomes GemTaur into the fold))) *goes back to grazing *

Posted by virg_goki
*holding a huge chaff of wheat and hay*

here girls, come.. good girls, yess.....

Hides lasso and cowpoke 😛

Hey YOU! Be nice to us! LOL!

*putting hoof print on gemtaur's booty*

I knew it. He's got a cattle prod. Look sharp ladies. USC, does my udder look full to you? I almost stepped on it. 😛

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*putting hoof print on gemtaur's booty*

I knew it. He's got a cattle prod. Look sharp ladies. USC, does my udder look full to you? I almost stepped on it. 😛

*steps back about 3 paces and peruses VB's udder's *

They look all good to me 😉 (HA)

*runs away from more of VG prodding - curses underbreath "damn him" *

Posted by gemtaur
Aaaawwww.

Thanks ladies.

*dusting off my newly-minted booty*

(((WOOO HOOOOO!))))

That's what I'm talkin' 'bout!

ROFLMAO Thank ye darlin'. I can always count on an honest opinion from you. *dragging udder behind me saucily*