Taurus Woman = Completely Complex

Hi All!

I am a Virgo male who has been courting a Taurus woman for 4 months. We are both in our early 30's and work together in close proximity. Long before we first started talking (4 months ago) there was a long time mutual attraction. She is very much a Taurus, has a rule of not dating co-workers (she has worked at the same company for 9 years and has never dated a coworker), and had a long term relationship end on bad terms a year ago.

I have consistently pursued her hard during the four months and constantly asked her out. She turned me down many times, but eventually started seeing me occasionally outside of work. We have went on a couple of dates and it has gotten physical (kissing, holding, but no sex). She has told me her current mind state is to "just have fun" and I am sure she could sense the disappointment in me when I heard that.

I am really digging this girl! The time we spend together is wonderful. We laugh constantly, yet flirt enough so that we're not just "friends". I have dated my fair share of women and I have never had to peruse a woman like this. I see great potential in our relationship if I can get past 3 major hurdles:

1. Her being overly cautiousness
2. Working together
3. Affects from her last relationship

Any advice on what to do?? Should I just keep going along with "hanging out occasionally and having fun" even though I want us to start advancing past that? Would it be a bad idea of me start being more romantic based off what she has told me??

Please provide whatever assistance you can and I will be forever grateful. Thanks!

Does SHE want to advance past what is happening now?

Posted by NZAqua
Does SHE want to advance past what is happening now?

No she doesn't. She is comfortable with her current freedom to do whatever she likes and is enjoying meeting new people.

Posted by DyTryin

Geez! I gotta tell a Virgo to be patient? What is this world coming to??

LOL. Trust me DyTryin I have been patient my whole life and am very much a Virgo. I've spent most of my life keeping my partners at a distance and taking it slow. For some reason its different with her.

Question to you Bullette experts...

I've read that its hard for a Taurus to express themselves, but a HUGE sign is if they show they're comfortable around you. Is this true? She has invited me to her house, talked about family details, and will place her head on my shoulder in public. These are signs of being comfortable, but are these significant signs of how a Taurus feels or am I over analyzing this? LOL

Thanks. You guys kick ass!

if she touches you in any kind of way she likes us,i dont even get anywhere near a man if i dont have some kind of interest in him...i mean everyday normal contact is fine but when i like someone i do like to touch them in some form or fashion

i meant she likes u

I do not touch someone I don't care for. It's part of extending myself to you and leaving an impression behind.