
I have very little experience with Taurus Men...anything I should know going in?



Posted by busyeyes88I have no problems with him so far! He seems a bit hesitant/reserved but other than that he seems great. Just wasn't sure if there was any advice in general...what kind of pace do they normally run on?
Phew!! You are not a scorp!! That's a good start! How can I help you?!
I love gems. You guys are the only ones out of the air family that I like!
So what your problem with this taurus?! Do you have his chart or your chart? What is your issue with him?

Posted by busyeyes88Haha this is EXACTLY what I wanted to know...their comfort level/speed. I will have to get an idea of him as far as his stability/emotional availability when I see him...slowly.
OP. Here is a quote from a well respected Gem who often gives good advice on our taurus board called Wicked. This should explain things from a Gemini perspective :
"They are the most simplest ppl around... Damn. Geminis are confusing. I'm a Gemini. I happily confuse myself. Almost everyday. Can u beat THAT?
First thing ppl forget is they are slow. Not your slow or my slow. Snail slow. Not because they are dumb or anything. They wanna feel secure. They wanna know u will reciprocate. They get hurt easily if you turn them down. Now an Aries will see that as a challenge. But most bulls are all about the sure thing. They hardly move their arse. They want u to approach them. But if you are a smart gal, you will let them make the move. That sets the overall trend for the relationship. Unless you wanna be the one to initiate all the conversations,phone calls, texts and what not.
If they ignore you, take a walk. Don't nag them. If you want them back, go listen to some music, do what makes u happy. just don't try to make them jealous. I would never give full control to a bull. They will take me for a ride. But then I'm smart.
Most important thing is set the boundaries. Don't play second fiddle to another woman. You are either his or not. He is yours only. Or not.
If he is married, stay away.
If he is damagedby some ex, stay away
If he is still onto his ex,stay away. Will take ages to change to his mind.
Whatever u do, be loyal,loving and classy."

Posted by busyeyes88I will. I wish I knew his other placements, but I only know his birthday is 4/23/1977. Older guy...that's already a plus.
Glad to be of help OP. Gems are so interesting and lively! It'll be fun! Hope it goes well and keep us posted! 😄



Posted by busyeyes88uh, no. gem males are the biggest players out there! having a front row seat for most of my life, they are truly obnoxious creatures.Posted by wickedAs long as a taurus likes to "learn" both these signs can learn immensely from each other... I like to learn new things probably due to my Jupiter in gemini and gems are perfect for this. The aqua and libra energies make me bored and I don't have patience for those energies. Gems are cool.
Hehehehe!
I like taureans... love their energy.
Cant understand why gem men especially get a bad rap... They are not natural "players". Just like taurus are not natural "players". It's just that most of the females dealing with these two signs are not smart enough or too hasty!!
The natural players of the zodiac imo are sag, libra, pisces, virgo..click to expand

Posted by SeasonI actually have Venus in Aries too. So funny because a few weeks ago I made a post about how it's hard having this placement and someone suggested that a Taurus man would be a good match for me.
His venus is in Aries and Mars in Pisces. He'll make you fall in love with him. Keep a little distance of your own. Don't let him catch you too easily too soon. This placement hates that.
Gems are good at keeping it light. Besides Gems are less emotional than many other signs and Taurus and Gem do match up well as side by side signs often do sharing the inner "personality" planets in complimentary signs. I think you two could do well together unless ascendants or moon positions indicate otherwise.
Have a good time.

Posted by wickedWell I am not wearing someone super feminine today because it's freezing, but still in heels so he'll get the idea. Also he let me pick the place so we are going to this wacky little Irish bar (super casual). I'm definitely not a demanding kind of girl in that respect, I like simple and comfortable.
Wxyx33 shame on you!!!
@OP
Pls dont listen to Wxyx33's
advice.
Just remember they are very traditional.
Use your judgement. And you wont lose anything by waiting it out. Infact you will gain a lot.
Dont be harsh while discussing people. Its always good to state your opinions about people without bad mouthing them. One way or another a taurus man will try to touch you. Not in a sexual way. Not at first. Just in a "Oh you are real and tangible" kinda way. Touch is how they feel. Lol
And yes wear something feminine, flirty and that feels good to the touch. Smell great. Keep the perfumes minimal. Maintain prolonged eye contacts.Make sure to thank him at the end of the date. And one thing I used to follow that most men have said they appreciated was, I never demanded they must take me to an expensive place. All my taurus and cap friends noted that. Especially we were at our first job and all. Money was scarce. Then. But the more I tried to avoid a date scenario, the more they wanted to spoil me. Funny world.
Just be yourself. It always works. When we are ourself.
People say Geminis and Taurus dont work. I kinda disagree. Esp if the gemini has some water placements.We can teach them to let loose and have fun. And take them over the edge. An adrenaline rush. Trick is to slow down now and then. And to let him lead you.And they are capable of bringing us back to earth and showing us life on earth IS tender, dreamy and beautiful.



Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428We are just having a drink and then possibly a movie (that's my favorite first date option because if the drink goes well, you can skip the movie and have dinner or another drink and continue the conversation, and if it doesn't go well you only have to sit through a movie and not talk to them!).
Yeah depending on weather and what's planned. I wear whatever is comfortable.. just be yourself and go to a museum or art gallery..

Posted by wickedHaha yes that was me!!
I agree with busyeyes Taurus men are practical but luuurrve women in dresses :-)still its a first date. Be comfy. That's the most important thing.
Drinks and movies? Super cool.
I have never done that. Just coffee as a first date option 😢
But then I'm a weirdo.
Oh both of you are touchy touchy? Thats awesome!
Im a venus in Aries too...I remember saying something about dating taurus men in this forum... somebody created a thread about aries in venus women. And how they like to chase. Lol.

Posted by wickedHaha I know...I mentioned that someone told me that somewhere in this thread. 🙂
Oh it was you? I said aries in venus goes well with taurus men. Lol
Wear what makes u comfy.Thats how it should be done. Its not a formal dinner. So its cool. Just go ahead and have a blast.

Posted by wickedThanks I'll let you guys know how it goes!
Awww!
Hope he is a great guy. And appreciates you :-)

Posted by SeasonI have a feeling he has the same Ascendant as me...Libra. He just looks like one haha I can't explain it.
His venus is in Aries and Mars in Pisces. He'll make you fall in love with him. Keep a little distance of your own. Don't let him catch you too easily too soon. This placement hates that.
Gems are good at keeping it light. Besides Gems are less emotional than many other signs and Taurus and Gem do match up well as side by side signs often do sharing the inner "personality" planets in complimentary signs. I think you two could do well together unless ascendants or moon positions indicate otherwise.
Have a good time.



Posted by venusianbullWoah...VB!
Just be yourself. Actually eat a meal. You'll be fine. 🙂
Posted by flowingwaterDefinitely not true in my case. I over-spend. I have a tendency to want to express love in very physical, tangible, memorable ways - which often equates to buying expensive gives, and certainly I only want the best (for both myself and my date) when it comes to dining out. I always pay, even for my friends - male or female. If a Taurus man takes you out, and comes off as cheap to you, he's either really broke, or he thought very little of you, having no desire to impress.
Taurus men are cheap.

Posted by flowingwaterlmao
Taurus men are cheap.





Posted by berrywiddleWhat about them needs to be "tamed" just curious
if you can tame the bull, it is the BEST THING EVER! I am an Aquarius and I've dated 2 Taurus men. I was with the first one 5 years and boy is it work, but it was worth it. Things ended cuz we were too young. Now I was dating a Taurus man (32) for almost half a year. AND he will love you the way you are. BE YOURSELF. he will know if you are being fake or superficial. DO NOT OVERTHINK it. Taurus men are so so so easy to please. massage, back scratches, home cooked meal, being classy, smelling nice, they are so easy! i ruined my relationship though because i got too drunk at his new years eve party and i was acting not classy and cursing at him, embarrassing him in front of friends. long story. and i REGRET it so so much. if you find a Taurus hold on to him and have patience with how slow he will open up to you cuz when he loves you, it is TRULY the greatest feeling in the world. I love you Victor A. C.

Posted by PiscesArtNot to be...overly enthusiastic or presumptuous, but how long should I wait to sleep with him? Customary 30-60 days?
Act like a lady, be gentle, caring, faithful, honest, smart and smell beautiful and definitly learn to cook. Taurus are gentlmen, they will persue you slowly but steady


Posted by ashley1734A customary 30 - 60 days? WTF?Posted by PiscesArtNot to be...overly enthusiastic or presumptuous, but how long should I wait to sleep with him? Customary 30-60 days?
Act like a lady, be gentle, caring, faithful, honest, smart and smell beautiful and definitly learn to cook. Taurus are gentlmen, they will persue you slowly but steadyclick to expand

Posted by berrywiddleI am 30 and he is 38. I'll let him take the lead on that. It's interesting because we both have Venus in Aries, so I'm curious how this will play out.
it depends. how old are you? i realized that if the chemistry is there and you have an solid intimate connection, why not a month or even 2? lol. I usually wait 3 though. But let your Taurus man do it slowly, he will love you slowly, but deeply : ) so you dont have to rush anything. I see things are going well. That is great!

Posted by AgentP911Haha I know, I know but damn I already want to ravage him.Posted by ashley1734A customary 30 - 60 days? WTF?Posted by PiscesArtNot to be...overly enthusiastic or presumptuous, but how long should I wait to sleep with him? Customary 30-60 days?
Act like a lady, be gentle, caring, faithful, honest, smart and smell beautiful and definitly learn to cook. Taurus are gentlmen, they will persue you slowly but steady
No one here can give you that answer. For me, I want to enjoy the dating process. Enjoy doing things outside of the bedroom and not have everything focused on when dick can meet fanny! If you focus on that then the rest will follow. You won't need a time scale.click to expand

Posted by lavaliquidGood to know! Which placements give that vibe?Posted by ashley1734Sex between you guys will be bomb,
Second date with Taurus guy also went really well. He drove all the way to me (we live 45 minutes or so away from each other) and took me to lunch and then I bought us drinks (he let me without hesitation, but I still didn't get the impression that he's cheap).
He was very touchy and at one point we were sitting at the bar and some drunk college kids were behind us trying to order and one of them got a bit too close to me and Taurus guy pulled my chair closer to him and sort of blocked me in with his legs...I thought it was super cute coupled with the fact that when the waiter was very sweet at lunch, Taurus made a little comment about it in a jealous/protective way. I was eating it up.
We went back to my place later in the afternoon before he headed home and it remained completely PG and when things started to get a little steamy, Taurus got all frazzled and said "I should go." I just giggled and walked him out.
I did found out the rest of his placements as well...here's both of ours:
Sun:
Me- Gemini
Him- Taurus
Moon:
Me- Virgo
Him- Cancer
Mercury:
Both Taurus
Venus:
Both Aries
Mars:
Me- Gemini
Him- Pieces
Asc:
Me- Libra
Him- Virgo
So far so good!
Scratch the hell out of him.
I know a Gemini and taurus pair. Thrirv6 months strong, and all "in love"click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88I should have worded that differently, haha I just meant should I expect to take it extra slow in that department.Posted by ashley1734Surely you are not a robot?Posted by PiscesArtNot to be...overly enthusiastic or presumptuous, but how long should I wait to sleep with him? Customary 30-60 days?
Act like a lady, be gentle, caring, faithful, honest, smart and smell beautiful and definitly learn to cook. Taurus are gentlmen, they will persue you slowly but steady
I thought a person would go with the flow....
My taurus crush and i have been platonic friends for 12 months. We have been taking it very slow at least from my angle ( he ended a 12 yr relationship in 2014) I just wanted to make sure he was over it and that he was ready for a serious relationship as I don't do casual relationships. So it does depend on circumstances.
But get to know your bull as a friend FIRST. Friendship is a much better way to go down a serious relationship route with a bull as the bull looks for longetivity in all things...click to expand


Posted by wickedWe have done nothing past making out so far...felt like college, but I swear I could feel the windows in my tiny apartment steaming up.
U wont lose anything by making a bull wait to get intimate.... and u r a gemini?? Lol
Oh u guys r in for some mindblowing sexy time
😉
Knew two female gemini and male taurus couples... my second bf was a taurus. Addictive sex.

Posted by LadyNeptuneThank you! I am very girly. Long hair, love dresses. But I do have tattoos and a bit of a mysterious energy which I think both intrigues and terrifies his clean cut Taurus nature. He comes from an Orthodox family of doctors and I come from an Agnostic family of hippies.
Taurus men like feminine women. Wear a feminine flowy top or dress, light perfume and makeup. He'll appreciate any effort you take to look flirty and feminine for him.

Posted by busyeyes88Yes ma'am. I will.Posted by ashley1734Yes. I hear you. But that is why you need to be friends with him first and study him. Your gem energy wants to rush in... Don't... Take your time. Get to know him and his personality ; where he goes; his hangouts ; is he well respected in his community ; etc. Let his actions show you how he feels about you; things like this takes time; Tauruses are never in a hurry.Posted by busyeyes88I should have worded that differently, haha I just meant should I expect to take it extra slow in that department.Posted by ashley1734Surely you are not a robot?Posted by PiscesArtNot to be...overly enthusiastic or presumptuous, but how long should I wait to sleep with him? Customary 30-60 days?
Act like a lady, be gentle, caring, faithful, honest, smart and smell beautiful and definitly learn to cook. Taurus are gentlmen, they will persue you slowly but steady
I thought a person would go with the flow....
My taurus crush and i have been platonic friends for 12 months. We have been taking it very slow at least from my angle ( he ended a 12 yr relationship in 2014) I just wanted to make sure he was over it and that he was ready for a serious relationship as I don't do casual relationships. So it does depend on circumstances.
But get to know your bull as a friend FIRST. Friendship is a much better way to go down a serious relationship route with a bull as the bull looks for longetivity in all things...
I will certainly just focus on building a friendship with him. His masculinity just definitely makes it hard to concentrate.click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88Oh he just parked at my place and we walked to lunch and had a couple drinks so he came inside for coffee before he had to drive home (he lives 45 min from me), he was there maybe 20 minutes or so.Posted by ashley1734You've had him in yr apartment already?Posted by wickedWe have done nothing past making out so far...felt like college, but I swear I could feel the windows in my tiny apartment steaming up.
U wont lose anything by making a bull wait to get intimate.... and u r a gemini?? Lol
Oh u guys r in for some mindblowing sexy time
😉
Knew two female gemini and male taurus couples... my second bf was a taurus. Addictive sex.
The only Taurus I dated was years ago and I cannot remember why it didn't work, but I do remember the sex was epic.
How many dates have you been on?click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88I like it.
Sorry OP, I don't mean to.sound like a "dictator" lol lol
Although many dictators were indeed tauruses! Lol

Posted by wickedYeah I think sun placements alone, the pairing isn't ideal...but with other placements to help with understanding each other it could be successful. We'll see. Date #3 tomorrow!Posted by ashley1734Yup epic sessions. Too many times. It messed up his schedule. And i had to break up with him because his dad asked me to. Hurt my ego so badly, I broke up with him on the spot. He was an upcoming sports player at that time.Posted by wickedWe have done nothing past making out so far...felt like college, but I swear I could feel the windows in my tiny apartment steaming up.
U wont lose anything by making a bull wait to get intimate.... and u r a gemini?? Lol
Oh u guys r in for some mindblowing sexy time
😉
Knew two female gemini and male taurus couples... my second bf was a taurus. Addictive sex.
The only Taurus I dated was years ago and I cannot remember why it didn't work, but I do remember the sex was epic.
I read few threads about this pairing. But irl I'm seeing it work. So all the best.click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88Oh there will definitely not be any sex happening tomorrow. Legs are glued haha. I took all of your advice and wore a dress on our second date and he loved it. Another man complimented my dress while we were out and I swear I saw those bull horns come out haha.Posted by ashley1734Good luck for tomorrow. Wear something feminine. Clean shoes, etc. Smell good. Look very feminine. 😄 They LOVE it! 😉 Look like a feminine temptress but with the legs firmly shut as long as you can and you will have him in the palm of your hands.. The anticipation will be immense!!!Posted by wickedYeah I think sun placements alone, the pairing isn't ideal...but with other placements to help with understanding each other it could be successful. We'll see. Date #3 tomorrow!Posted by ashley1734Yup epic sessions. Too many times. It messed up his schedule. And i had to break up with him because his dad asked me to. Hurt my ego so badly, I broke up with him on the spot. He was an upcoming sports player at that time.Posted by wickedWe have done nothing past making out so far...felt like college, but I swear I could feel the windows in my tiny apartment steaming up.
U wont lose anything by making a bull wait to get intimate.... and u r a gemini?? Lol
Oh u guys r in for some mindblowing sexy time
😉
Knew two female gemini and male taurus couples... my second bf was a taurus. Addictive sex.
The only Taurus I dated was years ago and I cannot remember why it didn't work, but I do remember the sex was epic.
I read few threads about this pairing. But irl I'm seeing it work. So all the best.click to expand





Posted by TauroMaleI'm just a litttttle concerned because I know his father passed away just in September, but his mother lives with him and he's 38. I know his mom isn't ailing or fragile or anything, but I haven't really asked many questions about it so I'm not sure what the situation is. Family matters can be touchy.Posted by ashley1734
Also, is there anything about Taurus men and their mothers? Like with Cancer men?
they can be VERY attached to their family ive seen it but generally i don't think theirs anything specific about mothers, for me at least.click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88Nope. He did mention he wants/plans to buy a place soon, but who knows what "soon" is. Kinda thinking I should inch away from this one.Posted by ashley1734Wow! His mother lives with him?Posted by TauroMaleI'm just a litttttle concerned because I know his father passed away just in September, but his mother lives with him and he's 38. I know his mom isn't ailing or fragile or anything, but I haven't really asked many questions about it so I'm not sure what the situation is. Family matters can be touchy.Posted by ashley1734
Also, is there anything about Taurus men and their mothers? Like with Cancer men?
they can be VERY attached to their family ive seen it but generally i don't think theirs anything specific about mothers, for me at least.
My taurus friend of 27 years his mother has lived with him for around 15 years ever since his father passed away. She will be living with him until death I imagine. Could you cope with that?click to expand

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