Desire and Conquer

Aphrodite was totally independent, and if she wanted a man she had him because she desired him, not because he wanted her. In spite of her promiscuity she remained married to the ugly metal-smith god Hephaestus, who adored her. Here we have a goddess who saw sex as her sole recreation, and yet she kept the security and love of a doting husband. She needed her admirers, but she also needed security. This seems pretty much a Taurus tendency to me; but tending to behave like Aphrodite is more likely if the person has both the Sun and Venus in Taurus.

"She needed her admirers, but she also needed security"

So true for me 😛

Hey, don't tell 'em our secrets! shhhhhh

Oh my god, I am the exact same way and I hate myself for it. I'm with the best guy in the world and I cannot, for the life of me, get turned on by him... the only thing that seems to turn me on is a new guy. Then I get bored with him and move on to another new guy. It's an endless cycle. What I seem to do is find someone, get tired of them after a few months but keep them as my security and then I go looking for a new guy. So I'm always working at least 2 - and it always ends up that the new guy wants me to leave guy #1 and I won't. What is wrong with me—

TaurusRules,

I'm trying to figure out the same thing. I'm the exact same way u r! I don't understand why Im like that, I just am

It's terrible. I can't decide what I find attractive anymore. My libido has completely escaped me. Do you other Taureans have any suggestions?? I find myself wishing I could find someone who mentally stimulates me... you know, the power of the mind f*ck. Are you all like that too? I don't like bad boys in the sense that they get into trouble in life, but I do like guys who are sassy and boss me around a little bit and tell me what they want... you know, the kind who will just grab you when he wants to hold you? For some reason lately I don't want sex, and I'm fine going to bed without it. Is that normal? I wish I wanted it! I'm so freakin' bored! I feel dull! I have no idea why my man stays with me...

I don't know, because I can't remember my exact birth time... I keep meaning to get a copy of my birth certificate. Is there a free site I can go to in order to figure the rest of my signs out?

Oh yeah, men has no control over themselves. Riiiight...

Okay sag, take your mind off haffo for a second and tell me what you make of this: I went to the website you linked me to...

Sun Taurus 10.43
Moon Capricorn 2.30
Mercury Taurus 25.33 R
Venus Gemini 21.10
Mars Taurus 19.07
Jupiter Sagittarius 9.08 R
Saturn Scorpio 0.23 R
Uranus Sagittarius 8.11 R
Neptune Sagittarius 28.59 R
Pluto Libra 27.47 R
Lilith Aquarius 5.02
Asc node Gemini 25.58

Thanks for the input, sag - you're obviously much more learned on the subject than I am.

Do you have any idea what it feels like to want SOOO badly to enjoy my life at home with my man, yet I'm never satisfied? I don't seek men out - I don't come onto them, I don't flirt with them. But they come to me... and I don't say no. I can't stop myself! If I do, then I start to resent the person I'm with, as though it's his fault that I'm being faithful... as though I'm being forced to do the right thing.

I'm with a scorpio and everything says to never do anything to make a scorpio jealous... but he deals with my whims. I don't know why, bless his heart, but he does.

"But they come to me... and I don't say no. I can't stop myself! If I do, then I start to resent the person I'm with, as though it's his fault that I'm being faithful... as though I'm being forced to do the right thing."

WTF is that? lol.

taurusrules, sag and me with venus in gem, anyone else? It's almost evil. hehe, let the horns & twins come out!