What do you do when you're bored?

OK, this could be fun, funny or damm depressing. Love to hear from you all!

We ourselves are our worst enemy. Yeah, I believe to that.

I'll start...

when I am single like right now, I do either one of these:

1. sit on dxp
2. chat
3. read
4. dressup like a freak to entertain myself
5. dance around & sing to songs i would never have my friends catch me owning a CD of
6. cook & sip of wine all romantically, ohhhhh baby, self love! lol
7. sleep on pretty much every couch & bed in the house, moving one to another to pretend I am actually doing something
8. write stuff - which sounds violent the next morning
9. do some oil painting which i either throw out later in disgust or frame & call it my new favorite
10. gawd, i'm a loser for admitting this shite!

oh & i say single, cuz my bestfriend works evening half the time & i moved a few hours from my home town to the city, still haven't met too many quality people here, some ok ones, but the ones you can just chill with and have a good time on a regular basis are rare, hard to find, & treasued like crazy.

This Scorpio guy hurt you really bad yeah. I can see that you have lost your orientation.

F*ck him. Just try to continue your routine life without many interruptions, that might help you deal with your situation.

He hurt me? I only wish that was the situation! I DO NOT stay in a relationship where I don't feel mutual. It only hurts the other person. I didn't want to drag things on, unlike many other desparate co-dependants.

Yes, I'll continue my life, it is smart to sit home & relax & think so you don't make the same mistakes again. I think that's been my mistake in the past. I really don't want to go down that road again. Live and learn.

I still am interested in what YOU do when you're bored!

So you are so perfect in everything that cannot find what to do?

english please?

Are you asking if I am perfect in everything that I cannot find what to do? That is kinda contradictory if that's what you meant.

It is not.

People live as long they have problems. So they work in solving them. If you are bored then you have no problems = you are perfect.

Interesting. Although I am not one to dwell in problems either. I am not a pessimistic and prefer to call myself a realist. I enjoy problem solving, and sometimes my "boring" times is the times I really dig deep into my creative time. Hence why I was asking what everyone else does when they are bored - or in other words what people do in their times of solitude.

OK, so haff has no response to the real question eh?

"write stuff - which sounds violent the next morning"

Oh freak I AM normal! or atleast not alone ... ? lol

1.I bug you guys.
2.I write story lines and sketch(fantasy type think LOTR's or final fantasy games).
3.Writing song lyrics.
4.Sleeping or being lazy around the house watching TV or listening to music.
5.I go over my sisters to watch my nieces for amusement(little leos and libras are funny).

Hmmmm what do I do when I'm bored?

I write- poems, very short stories(usually related to death), ideas, meanings etc
I read- magazines, articles, cereal boxes
I draw- (or doodle) I really wish I had the talent of drawing so I could draw all sorts of cool images in my head, always draw little characters and make up dumb little cartoons
I take pictures- of... mainly myself
I play with pics on the computer
I dance- which I love
I mix and match clothing and shoes and think of hairdos that I might wear with a certain outfit and think of what I might need to buy to complete an outfit that I'll never wear because when I decide to wear it I think something goes better with something else
I pay my bills which many times I discover are overdue
I comtemplate the possibility of working out
I look into my old stuff and sometimes find cool things 😛
I sometimes color in my first grade coloring book
I take a long hot bath... frequently replacing the cooler water with more hot water and eat grapes
I sometimes decide to organize my mess... sommmmmetimes
I try to reteach myself to rollerblade... someday I'll learn again!

"I pay my bills which many times I discover are overdue
I comtemplate the possibility of working out "

lol,um those are things you want to make routine my dear so you won't be bored doing them lol.Oh hey,I just thought of something with that,Taurusgoddess,if you work out first thing in the morning you will have more energy throughout the whole day moreso than you would by working out any other time of the day.Working out gives you an energy rush let alone so making it as early as possible you gives you the chance for everything else to seem like you're not doing anything.For you energy thing with the other topic,starting early working out,gives you a better jumpstart for the day so your not rushing and therefore not stressing yourself out more doing it🙂

I comtemplate the possibility of working out

HA HA HAAAAAA

Thanks Tiamat, I'll start tommorow morning with some juice, light breaky & a workout. I wanna get more into my pilates, I find that refreshing as I'm stretching as well. Right now, believe it or not I CAN'T sleep! Maybe I just have a lot on my mind and it's throwing me off balance. Between death, vacation, the holiday & a break up I really need to just put my energy & mind in the right place and start the year right.

Oh Tauruschic, "might need to buy to complete an outfit that I'll never wear because when I decide to wear it I think something goes better with something else" done it. Doesn't that suck? I swear I played dressup too much as a kid! lol

#11. - walk to fridge, get beer, sit on couch, get up look in fridge, grab food, look at flyers at table, walk back to fridge, stand with door open and guzzle milk, yank out 6 pickles out of jar and grab some cheese. Slice it up and look at stove meaningfully. Jump on counters and grab some crackers. Walk to fridge and pull out a huge assortment of veggies, meats and sauses and 4 hours later wonder how the h=ll you're still cooking a feast, oh a 2boot all for your lonesome self. 😛

"lol,um those are things you want to make routine my dear so you won't be bored doing them lol"

I know... I'm a terrible procrastinator and have the horrible tendency to do it when I have nothing more interesting to do 😛

"OK, so haff has no response to the real question eh?"

Real question? It's you who are wasted right now, not me. Perhaps you should think about it from this perspective.

I will tell you what's wrong. You are a person with no any real goal. You just live your own life and get scewed up by various people who enter into your life and you set your goals, routiene life and so on with people around you and at the end you mess up all what you have. And when they dump you you simply become you become directionless. And you know why? Because you do not have your own one to follow it. If you would have your own direction, you would not really care about people and you would never get bored since you would always find something to do according to your goal.

And yeah, your life rythm is set by others. Congrats.

I am rarely bored, I am always doing something. I am either knitting, designing, painting, reading, or on the computer if I am home, otherwise I am out with my friends or snowboarding. Planning trips is another favourite pasttime. I love to travel. That's where all my money goes, since I don't like shopping.

*totally ignores haffo's incomprehensible comments*

Looks like someone is taking this topic just a bit too seriously....

I can see your strengths, Haff. Just remember never to judge a person you don't know. Life will be much more rewarding.

Like I said, my times of solitude are times when I search deeper into my creative self. You have never seen my paintings many of which have been sold, nor read work which has won various awards, and you have never known who I am, a person who loves people and is inspired by them. I am no island. If anything God is my strength and my guide. I wish the best to you as well. You definately made me realize something Haffo, or whatever you name is, how I never want to be.

I didn't come to this topic to attack anyone TG. All I was planning to do is to bring some different point of view that actually works for me.

But I wasn't starter of bitter. Nor my nature is to be judgemental. However, when someone bugs me, I do reflect.

Haffo! One thing... SHE dumped HIM! You're so annoying.

$ hite, this was supposed to be a funny topic! oh well. 😢

"Haffo! One thing... SHE dumped HIM! You're so annoying."

Dig harder. You might find the answer in 100239847 years.

I can only imagine where you will be haff.

"I can only imagine where you will be haff."

I am always where I should be.

having fun again, ey?

the fun's always where haffo is. found you!

haffo, a happy 2006 to you, too! try to not piss off people too much 😉 some comments are just not necessary...

Welcome back Lizuana!

Happy 2006 to you too. Where you have been so long? Your absense was noticable.

P.S: If you gonna leave like that once again, I'm gonna come to Germany and spank your booty.😛

No.

bent over in front of some guy named Biff? HAAAAAAAAAAAAA HA HA HA HA

WHat is a nose retainer?

"bent over in front of some guy named Biff? HAAAAAAAAAAAAA HA HA HA HA"

No wonder that you live always bended over.

^^to Cancerlady.

we love grass too! 😛

Like a cow?

You trying to be my matador? I'll make you my b1tch.

Girls are SUPPOSED to be bent over...It's called doggy style ! Course if you had ever had sex you would know that....

I like grass...the kind that smells funny and makes you happy!

Okay. That is my final warning TG:

First you interfere between me and Cancerlady and when you get your bait you insult me. Great.

"Girls are SUPPOSED to be bent over...It's called doggy style !"

Of course they bent over...but not like you...all the time..

Poor sexually frustrated man....It's okay. There is help out there for you...keep hope alive that one day you will be the one giving it and not taking it up the rear!

P.S: If you gonna leave like that once again, I'm gonna come to Germany and spank your booty

Can you say HOMO-EROTIC! And you SWEAR you don't like men...Hmmmm, makes me wonder!

Sagi

Thanks for the info...never heard of that before.

RECOGNIZE, I am antagonizing him only because he is so STUPID!

"P.S: If you gonna leave like that once again, I'm gonna come to Germany and spank your booty

Can you say HOMO-EROTIC! And you SWEAR you don't like men...Hmmmm, makes me wonder!"

I said it in funny way, not sexual one. There is similair saying in Turkish like this one. But translating it exactly on Engish could sound very rude (it says "I come and kick your ass") so I made it mild to not offend pepople.

" how come you don't talk to me like this, you kitty"

You didn't left room for discussing. You just said you wont talk anymore, which means for me "Discussion is over".

" RECOGNIZE, I am antagonizing him only because he is so STUPID!"

Yeah I am stupid. And how come you become a lonely mother?

" Yeah I am stupid. And how come you become a lonely mother?"

But the difference between you and me is that: I do not smear shit of people on their faces like you do. That explains why you are such an asshole.

But yeah, you are getting your consequences in full force. Have fun.