Does he like me or are we just friends?

Hello Taurus folk!

So ive been talking to this guy, mostly on texts and we have a great connection and understanding. Hes a Taurus sun, venus, a Cap moon, and Virgo mars.

At times he'll flirt with me i think.. Calling me babes and Jules (short for Juliet abt a joke i shared with him), and other times he'll act distant.

He texts everyday, and replies to everything I say, never leaves me on read. But sometimes his answers are just yes, no, indeed, okay etc

He teases and jokes around, and usually tries to alleviate any awkward silences. Shared his past with me, and his issues.

But Im not sure if he's romantically interested or just considers me a good friend?

Posted by GC05
I feel like you will know for sure when a guy is really interested in you romantically & these things won’t be a question in your mind.

If you have to question it...it’s probably just friends.

Hmm, youre probably right.

But what if he's unsure and doesnt want to make things awkward? Because I have been pretty clear to him that Im not looking for a relationship. He is also younger than me.

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Posted by GC05
I feel like you will know for sure when a guy is really interested in you romantically & these things won’t be a question in your mind.

If you have to question it...it’s probably just friends.

Hmm, youre probably right.

But what if he's unsure and doesnt want to make things awkward? Because I have been pretty clear to him that Im not looking for a relationship.

Your over thinking it.

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Haha! Could be

Posted by Aquaman4848
He seems friend at present...tauruses are fucking slow...

They need very romantic moments to fall for u...like take them to a walk at night...ask them about their selves...appreciate them always...take them food...gift cute things...

But it's really difficult for aqua and taurus to get into romantic aura

Yes I've experienced their 'pace' haha Another Taurus guy told me he loved me after years of random flirtation.

Those are good ideas! Thanks 🙂

Well, him and I have a good flow, probably because of the common Cap moon and my Cancer mars. In general Ive always gotten along well with Taureans, and not so well with air signs lol

if you're not looking for a relationship perhaps back off yourself. that would leave him in no doubt of your intentions.

Posted by Trust_Issues
i made a move day 1

He isnt like that.. His last girlfriend was his friends for years before he told her

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Posted by like-an-ocean
Hello Taurus folk!

So ive been talking to this guy, mostly on texts and we have a great connection and understanding. Hes a Taurus sun, venus, a Cap moon, and Virgo mars.

At times he'll flirt with me i think.. Calling me babes and Jules (short for Juliet abt a joke i shared with him), and other times he'll act distant.

He texts everyday, and replies to everything I say, never leaves me on read. But sometimes his answers are just yes, no, indeed, okay etc

He teases and jokes around, and usually tries to alleviate any awkward silences. Shared his past with me, and his issues.

But Im not sure if he's romantically interested or just considers me a good friend?

How long have you guys been texting? Have you met?

Did he initiate a meet? Or made plans for a date?

If you guys have met, look at his eyes. I feel Taurus/Scorp axis guys cannot hide how they feel, esp when they really like someone.

My Taurus ex, when we were new to each other and getting to know, he was like that with me. He would ask tons of questions, nothing sexual. Nothing over the top. Pretty subtle. But he would be around me. Not in a clingy way but more like I'm with her type. Even when there were others around me, he would be there. Idk I feel you will notice it when you see it. There is something very stoic about these guys.

He blurted out he loved me when I least expected it, so that was surprising because I didn't think he loved me. Actually most guys blurted it out. It wasn't smooth at all. Not what you would expect. But the intent and the feelings were very clear.

You will have to show him you like him. Once I asked him out(initial stage) and he didn't like it!!! He brushed it off. Two hours later he called and asked me to meet him the next day.

I would use body language to express interest. Nothing sexual. Maybe eye contacts? They are suckers for intense eye contacts 😄

And they are amazing at picking up body language...

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Hi!

We have been texting for 4 months now, but texting daily started a little more than two months ago.

And no, we havent met yet, I'm out of town, but he has said a few times that we should once I go back.

Good advice! I will definitely look at his eyes (without coming across as a creep haha) and also he told me he's shy around those he likes, so maybe that too.

That description of your ex before you guys were together is exactly whats happening. He also makes it very obvious to me that he's keeping a track of my social media and cheerleads big time when I accomplish something, which is sweet.

I know what you mean by blurting it out.. Another Taurus guy did that and I was so shocked because he would be very quiet otherwise.

Gonna go practice some schmoozy body language now haha

Thank you so much for the lovely reply 🙂

Posted by jeane
if you're not looking for a relationship perhaps back off yourself. that would leave him in no doubt of your intentions.

I agree with you, but I dont mind a relationship, I just want to be VERY careful and look for someone who has the same values as me.. and this guy might be that.

But because I'm not sure, I have always been nothing but friendly to him, even detached.. I just cant seem to gauge where he's at

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Posted by jeane
if you're not looking for a relationship perhaps back off yourself. that would leave him in no doubt of your intentions.

I agree with you, but I dont mind a relationship, I just want to be VERY careful and look for someone who has the same values as me.. and this guy might be that.

But because I'm not sure, I have always been nothing but friendly to him, even detached.. I just cant seem to gauge where he's at

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well, just concentrate on your friendship for now. it certainly seems that he finds you to be a good friend. by not rushing things it can allow you to see if he is someone you would like more with and you can make that decision at the right time.

the best relationships come out of a solid friendship anyway. work on giving yourself a good foundation and the rest will follow.

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Posted by jeane
if you're not looking for a relationship perhaps back off yourself. that would leave him in no doubt of your intentions.

I agree with you, but I dont mind a relationship, I just want to be VERY careful and look for someone who has the same values as me.. and this guy might be that.

But because I'm not sure, I have always been nothing but friendly to him, even detached.. I just cant seem to gauge where he's at

well, just concentrate on your friendship for now. it certainly seems that he finds you to be a good friend. by not rushing things it can allow you to see if he is someone you would like more with and you can make that decision at the right time.

the best relationships come out of a solid friendship anyway. work on giving yourself a good foundation and the rest will follow.

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LOVE THAT. Thank you! 🙂

I completely agree and will be doing exactly that.