Do I chase him or wait?? Confusing Taurus.. long story sorry

I met this Taurus man at a dinner with friends 2 weeks ago. I went in hearing that he had a crush on me, but I wasn’t expecting anything. When we met, immediate chemistry and sparks flew. That whole night he couldn’t keep his hands off me and we clicked. We hung out till the next day 3pm just talking and cuddling in bed. We did not have sex. But we kissed and it was the most passionate kiss I have had. Same night he put his number on my phone to text him.

One week later last Friday, I texted him and he asked me for drinks. He came over, we hung out at my place drinking and chatting the night away. We ended up having sex 3 times that night. I’m conservative and never do this unless I am seriously dating but with him, I was so passionate and couldn’t hold myself. I do feel bad about having sex so early on but we have something I can’t quite explain. We are both kinky and had explosive sex. Next morning he was still sweet, and we went and had lunch together. I dropped him around 4pm to his friends.

Problem is: he’s from oversees and here for business. But chemistry is undeniable. He slyly mentioned he will come to US more often for work and will try to make it where he works from here. He also asked me to go visit him and he wants to show me around. I feel like does like me. Sunday night, I texted him and he called me and we spoke for an hour about random stuff. He went to LA this week and is gone all week for his work and will be back next week before heading off to overseas. My problem is he hasn’t texted me. I don’t always wanna be the first to text. He said he wants to go shopping when he’s back from LA and we did establish we will hangout.. but I don’t know what day that is. Does he like me? Why isn’t he texting me? What should I do? Be patient and let him come to me?? Help!!

Hellllp lol do I reach out? Why don’t Taurus men reach out first?

Posted by The_Mad_Hatter
If you haven't texted him, text him.... it'll be okay..

I did Monday night saying “how’s la going?” And he never even read the text and hasn’t responded yet! It’s just weird because even our mutual friends told me he was raving about how he loved my place and stuff. They said he likes me. I’m confused. He didn’t even reply though?

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If you haven't texted him, text him.... it'll be okay..

I did Monday night saying “how’s la going?” And he never even read the text and hasn’t responded yet! It’s just weird because even our mutual friends told me he was raving about how he loved my place and stuff. They said he likes me. I’m confused. He didn’t even reply though?

Text him again.. better yet, call. if he's a busy man your text might have gotten lost in the shuffle. I do it all the time. Maybe cell signal got screwed up and he never really got it..

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Very true. I just feel so lame! This is my third time reaching out first! Maybe I’ll text towards the end of the week seeing when he comes back! Is this normal for Taurus to do this even if they like someone?

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Posted by The_Mad_Hatter
If you haven't texted him, text him.... it'll be okay..

I did Monday night saying “how’s la going?” And he never even read the text and hasn’t responded yet! It’s just weird because even our mutual friends told me he was raving about how he loved my place and stuff. They said he likes me. I’m confused. He didn’t even reply though?

Text him again.. better yet, call. if he's a busy man your text might have gotten lost in the shuffle. I do it all the time. Maybe cell signal got screwed up and he never really got it..

Very true. I just feel so lame! This is my third time reaching out first! Maybe I’ll text towards the end of the week seeing when he comes back! Is this normal for Taurus to do this even if they like someone?

It's pretty normal. It also sounds like you're a little excited and anxious. Most Taurus are pretty calm and slow. Just relax.. do you.. call him after the work days over. And leave it at that for a while.

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Lol yes I have a big crush already so I’m anxious. But I never let it show. Will text when work days over! Thank you!!

So I am going to call him in 3 hours.. fingers crossed!

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So I am going to call him in 3 hours.. fingers crossed!

Keep us posted girl 🤗

So I called an hour ago and no answer. So I texted “call me when you’re free 🙂” and he hasn’t read my text or called back.. this is very odd. He was all over me when we hung out and def made me feel like he was into me with all the stares and questions and making plans etc.. I will not reach out anymore. ):