Does this Taurus boy even like me?

Hi this is my first post and I do apologise if it appears a little needy but I really am puzzled. I have recently become a little infatuated with a bull. I met him 5 months ago when I started a new job. Initially I had no attraction to him until he started to flirt with me in the office. I am a lady in my 50's and he is 60 so we're not kids. The flirting was very overt and the whole office laughed at our antics, and I found myself looking forward to seeing him daily. Recently I lost my job but made arrangements to keep in contact with my bull. We talk and text on a daily basis and I recently went on a date with him where he held my hand the whole day. He's always touching me with playful pokes or little touches on my waist etc. The thing is, I am getting mixed messages from him in terms of him not initiating texting or calling often and some conversations end abruptly. Given our age I think that it may be that our ways are stuck in an era that was less technological. On the other hand, I get the impression that he may not even like me as much as I like him. I'm a Gemini by the way, and I'm aware that this paring can have difficulties, but I'm not as flighty as I used to be. My mind still skips randomly from subject to subject, but I am definately a home bird these days.

Hi this is my first post and I do apologise if it appears a little needy but I really am puzzled. I have recently become a little infatuated with a bull. I met him 5 months ago when I started a new job. Initially I had no attraction to him until he started to flirt with me in the office. I am a lady in my 50's and he is 60 so we're not kids. The flirting was very overt and the whole office laughed at our antics, and I found myself looking forward to seeing him daily. Recently I lost my job but made arrangements to keep in contact with my bull. We talk and text on a daily basis and I recently went on a date with him where he held my hand the whole day. He's always touching me with playful pokes or little touches on my waist etc. The thing is, I am getting mixed messages from him in terms of him not initiating texting or calling often and some conversations end abruptly. Given our age I think that it may be that our ways are stuck in an era that was less technological. On the other hand, I get the impression that he may not even like me as much as I like him. I'm a Gemini by the way, and I'm aware that this paring can have difficulties, but I'm not as flighty as I used to be. My mind still skips randomly from subject to subject, but I am definately a home bird these days.

Hi this is my first post and I do apologise if it appears a little needy but I really am puzzled. I have recently become a little infatuated with a bull. I met him 5 months ago when I started a new job. Initially I had no attraction to him until he started to flirt with me in the office. I am a lady in my 50's and he is 60 so we're not kids. The flirting was very overt and the whole office laughed at our antics, and I found myself looking forward to seeing him daily. Recently I lost my job but made arrangements to keep in contact with my bull. We talk and text on a daily basis and I recently went on a date with him where he held my hand the whole day. He's always touching me with playful pokes or little touches on my waist etc. The thing is, I am getting mixed messages from him in terms of him not initiating texting or calling often and some conversations end abruptly. Given our age I think that it may be that our ways are stuck in an era that was less technological. On the other hand, I get the impression that he may not even like me as much as I like him. I'm a Gemini by the way, and I'm aware that this paring can have difficulties, but I'm not as flighty as I used to be. My mind still skips randomly from subject to subject, but I am definately a home bird these days.

Hi this is my first post and I do apologise if it appears a little needy but I really am puzzled. I have recently become a little infatuated with a bull. I met him 5 months ago when I started a new job. Initially I had no attraction to him until he started to flirt with me in the office. I am a lady in my 50's and he is 60 so we're not kids. The flirting was very overt and the whole office laughed at our antics, and I found myself looking forward to seeing him daily. Recently I lost my job but made arrangements to keep in contact with my bull. We talk and text on a daily basis and I recently went on a date with him where he held my hand the whole day. He's always touching me with playful pokes or little touches on my waist etc. The thing is, I am getting mixed messages from him in terms of him not initiating texting or calling often and some conversations end abruptly. Given our age I think that it may be that our ways are stuck in an era that was less technological. On the other hand, I get the impression that he may not even like me as much as I like him. I'm a Gemini by the way, and I'm aware that this paring can have difficulties, but I'm not as flighty as I used to be. My mind still skips randomly from subject to subject, but I am definately a home bird these days.

Hi this is my first post and I do apologise if it appears a little needy but I really am puzzled. I have recently become a little infatuated with a bull. I met him 5 months ago when I started a new job. Initially I had no attraction to him until he started to flirt with me in the office. I am a lady in my 50's and he is 60 so we're not kids. The flirting was very overt and the whole office laughed at our antics, and I found myself looking forward to seeing him daily. Recently I lost my job but made arrangements to keep in contact with my bull. We talk and text on a daily basis and I recently went on a date with him where he held my hand the whole day. He's always touching me with playful pokes or little touches on my waist etc. The thing is, I am getting mixed messages from him in terms of him not initiating texting or calling often and some conversations end abruptly. Given our age I think that it may be that our ways are stuck in an era that was less technological. On the other hand, I get the impression that he may not even like me as much as I like him. I'm a Gemini by the way, and I'm aware that this paring can have difficulties, but I'm not as flighty as I used to be. My mind still skips randomly from subject to subject, but I am definately a home bird these days.

Hi this is my first post and I do apologise if it appears a little needy but I really am puzzled. I have recently become a little infatuated with a bull. I met him 5 months ago when I started a new job. Initially I had no attraction to him until he started to flirt with me in the office. I am a lady in my 50's and he is 60 so we're not kids. The flirting was very overt and the whole office laughed at our antics, and I found myself looking forward to seeing him daily. Recently I lost my job but made arrangements to keep in contact with my bull. We talk and text on a daily basis and I recently went on a date with him where he held my hand the whole day. He's always touching me with playful pokes or little touches on my waist etc. The thing is, I am getting mixed messages from him in terms of him not initiating texting or calling often and some conversations end abruptly. Given our age I think that it may be that our ways are stuck in an era that was less technological. On the other hand, I get the impression that he may not even like me as much as I like him. I'm a Gemini by the way, and I'm aware that this paring can have difficulties, but I'm not as flighty as I used to be. My mind still skips randomly from subject to subject, but I am definately a home bird these days.

Hi this is my first post and I do apologise if it appears a little needy but I really am puzzled. I have recently become a little infatuated with a bull. I met him 5 months ago when I started a new job. Initially I had no attraction to him until he started to flirt with me in the office. I am a lady in my 50's and he is 60 so we're not kids. The flirting was very overt and the whole office laughed at our antics, and I found myself looking forward to seeing him daily. Recently I lost my job but made arrangements to keep in contact with my bull. We talk and text on a daily basis and I recently went on a date with him where he held my hand the whole day. He's always touching me with playful pokes or little touches on my waist etc. The thing is, I am getting mixed messages from him in terms of him not initiating texting or calling often and some conversations end abruptly. Given our age I think that it may be that our ways are stuck in an era that was less technological. On the other hand, I get the impression that he may not even like me as much as I like him. I'm a Gemini by the way, and I'm aware that this paring can have difficulties, but I'm not as flighty as I used to be. My mind still skips randomly from subject to subject, but I am definately a home bird these days.

Thank you for all your replies. He did ask me at the start what I wanted from this relationship and other little comments suggest that he is looking at our situation long term. From the comments you have all contributed, I feel that I may have been just a tad paranoid as he is displaying typical taurus traits. Recently I changed my style of texting him to a more playful manner where he has been responding more rapidly and with keen interest. He responds to them when he's not working so I think he just likes to be left to get on with his job, and is happy to give me his time when he's home and able to do so. I'll keep you updated.

Well he has called me to meet up for little chats on a number of occasions where he has met me for coffee. I'm usually quite intuitive, so I believe he is waiting to see if I follow through with my intentions, to sever ties with my husband so that he can then invest in a serious romance. This is as a result of reading the advice I've been given on here. I'm looking for a flat at the moment and he is keen that I'm doing this. It's a comfort to be aware of your partners traits relative to their zodiac sign, as in my case it's helped me develop an understanding of where he's coming from. He doesn't believe in this science, but last week I sent him a text saying "are you artistic"? The reply he darted back to me was "very"! We had a great conversation about his drawings and paintings and how good he was and how I would never have had any idea, he would be into art. I told him I was impressed. He loves me telling him all about what I've learned about him through astrology. I keep only to the positive traits though and it's always in a light hearted way. This relationship is in early days at the moment and as I said earlier we haven't had sex, so I imagine that he is waiting until I belong to him completely. It's a lovely feeling.

Posted by David13
Ohhhh... you are married ? LuuuccyYY ? You have a some es-plainin' to doooo !!!

Are you still living with said husband ? What is the situation ? ARE you serious about leaving ? Is your Taurus guy free ? Don't worry... I am not a judge... been there, done that... once upon a time. Statistically though... if one or both parties involved are married... and they haven't their marriage within 3 months of the onset of a potentially romantic relationship... THEY'RE not LEAVIN'. How much time do YOU have ?

I am leaving my husband and it's not for this guy. As a result of a very unhappy marriage and having recently realised that my children are all adults now, there is nothing to keep me here. Terrible things have gone on in my marriage and at my age, I want the last third of my life to be a happy time. Taurus guy is divorced so very much free. Statistically then from your kind advice I have until December to nail this. However, I'm leaving anyway so my thoughts at the moment are when would be a good time. I've got a new job, sorted my own bank account out etc. It's the fall out I'm concerned about, in terms of how my husband handles this. I'm concerned it will be messy and want to minimise family grief so my plan is to let family enjoy christmas. I do not want to hurt my husband but inevitably it's unavoidable. But if I've been unhappy all these years, then so has he and we both deserve to have some happiness at last. We've invested a third of a century raising and caring for our kids I think both of us have forgotten about caring about ourselves. I should really be consulting my birth chart to establish if I'm making the right decision, I am indeed a classic Gemini. However, I don't know what time I was born so I do fear generalising. Thanks for your feedback though.