don't need advice just need to vent :-(

ok so the cancer i was seeing is a total ass. he has like 15 different girls telling us all the same thing... he loves us.. wants marriage and children what a bunch of bullshit. i feel like a fool for even starting to trust him a little. right now i'm just really hurt and confused by it all... i mean he it not like he even tried to hide it very well we are all his fb friends... i'm really sorry if none of this makes since or if there are spelling errors but i'm just extremely pissed off right now.. also sorry if i posted in the wrong section.

Wrong section, wrong schmection. That idiot ( because I refuse to even grace that twat with the word 'man', that's for grown and sexy dudes with their heads out of their asses .. ) is a douchebag. He even gets the Massengill seal of approval for that. FIFTEEN WOMEN?! *smdh*

Posted by patientlywaiting22
ok so the cancer i was seeing is a total ass. he has like 15 different girls telling us all the same thing... he loves us.. wants marriage and children what a bunch of bullshit. i feel like a fool for even starting to trust him a little. right now i'm just really hurt and confused by it all... i mean he it not like he even tried to hide it very well we are all his fb friends... i'm really sorry if none of this makes since or if there are spelling errors but i'm just extremely pissed off right now.. also sorry if i posted in the wrong section.

i reckon you should write everything out

then summarise the strong points and give it to every girl involved and the guy himself

i feel its justice if you enrage him

Grrrr, still stewing over this one. patiently, you are worth far more than someone with 15 lines cast in the water. There should be ONE, for you. You are the catch, you are. Get good and angry, it's justified. Cut that hoser loose and don't look back. The right one will care for you as you stand. These good women gave you a hug. I'm waiting until you mentally kick some ass and take names. Obviously this goombah doesn't have a lick of sense, fanning women out like a deck of cards and seeing which one is magically "delicious" enough for him. Oh yes, he's crazy like a fox alright, one that's been struck by a truck going 65 mph.
A MAN knows if a woman is right for him, and the others recede into the background. She shines for him, like no other. After you shelve all the pretty poetry, the razzle-dazzle he's laid on you ( for his own bullshit reasons, and the non-stop ego stroking of all these females being one of them..I digress. ) and smell it for the pile it is, then we'll hit out for Ben & Jerry's. I think you already know there's bits of hay and molasses crammed full in there, hence your anger now, but be of good cheer. You escaped someone who does not have you at heart.

thanks everyone. i really just needed to vent the other day. i just found this all out this past weekend and even though i have been cheated on before it still hurts. i feel like i just wasted a year of my life..i was really starting to love him. today i caved a texted him i don't know why i did it and i don't know what i expect to happen i just know that i really feel crappy. btw when i said 15 women that was actually an understatement he's in the military and travels a lot not to mention that he's on every dating site he can find as well as looking for ppl on craigslist. i'm sorry to babble on about this it's just that i can't say these things to him so i guess i just have to get out all the anger and frustration.

The worst mistake you can make is texting him back and letting him come back in. He's not someone who will change especially after what you described (all those dating profiles and all).

Sorry to hear that though =/ You say you can't say this to him, does this mean he doesn't know what you feel and how much he f'ed up?

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Fuck it, just spam his facebook ?
Facebook is sending people cray cray, I thought it was just their for spam and adverts these days anyways.
(In my defence I'm guilty of trying to win an iPad for 'liking' something, outside of that...spam machine !)

Gahhh, tell me about it. The apps man *grabbing shirt* THE APPS. THE HORROR.