why did my scorpio cheat on me with a virgo?

i dated scorpio first, then he broke up w me (his excuse being i was too young at the time). He dates virgo, 1 year later - he leads me on and claims hes single. Leads me on for a few days, then ignores me - shady as ever!! I say whatever.. move on. Then, a year afterwards - we get into a serious relationship. He swears he has changed into a good man yet i've noticed bipolar behavior (maybe influenced by this virgo gf he's still dating behind my back). It's as if he's leading a double life (virgo moon sign may i add).

This serious relationship lasted for 6 months until I discover the truth (his second girlfriend) whom he moved in with just before I found out. He's using her for money (rent, presents, bills, etc..). I knew this guy was trouble, just didn't listen to my intuition. I did accuse him of cheating many times, his defense: "I can't believe you don't trust me." I just believed him to stop any arguments.

Since then, I have anxiety attacks and a hard time trusting men STILL. Our relationship finalized a year and a half ago, but I still get this anxiety. Anyway, they ended up breaking up for good. Currently, he rents a room out of a house 5 minutes from me (before, he lived 50 minutes away). He has texted me again with, "I'm a changed man," bullshit, but I haven't seen him since. Why does this man keep contacting me? He's evil, typical scorpio, hm.. nice TO YOU, but you never know their true intentions..

Doesn't matter why he's contacting you.You know he's evil,so ignore him.when you do ignore him though...he's going to try all the harder.do not give in,unless you are enjoying this now,and want a lifetime of even worse.trust me on this,they don't ever wake up one morning,suddenly great men.
Get some Valerian root tea to help with the anxiety,and see a Naturopath/Holistic healer to get your adrenals fixed,which is most likely the root of the anxiety.
I'm serious,please let him ruin the other chick's life,health and happiness...and you fight for yourself.you're young,you've got a life full of happiness ahead if you don't throw it away on someone evil.

For the love of GOD,why won't your stupid ass go away—

thank you bella for the advice 🙂 very nice insight.

helpplease, we were on and off for years. The only reason why I took him back was due to the fact that he claimed he was single and lonely. I don't understand how he mirrors me, he even admitted to being a pathological liar.. I fell for his nonsense before hand.

LOL,Scorp's do mirror.only,they are misrepresenting how they do it here.
It's funny...for years before I knew anything about astrology,or had ever heard the term "mirroring"...I'd comment on how my ex would get called on his bs,and out would come his mirror he'd hold in front of his face and deflect everything back on to me.
everything was all my fault....and he'd start picking at all my flaws.that way see,the negative spotlight would be on the one calling him on what he had done....and accepting responsibility would be diverted.
Just like the two Scorp's here are doing. 😉

But brights,it really does not matter.Scorp's and Tau's are a notoriously incompatible pair,and you can try for a thousand years to force that square peg in that round hole....but all you'll end up with is a wasted thousand years,and a low tolerance for bullshit.

So,to be clear....Pisces mirror....Scorpio's deflect.

Most Scorpio's i know are liar's and they even believe the lies their telling... it's crazy and sad. They should come up with a book called "A million different ways to lie" hahaha 😛

"Is this bash a scorpio day and I missed the invite?"

I'm not bashing you at all,I'm spanking you for bad behavior.I'm blunt and matter of fact in what I know,and you guys hate it,but it makes your little stingers hard at the same time.

tough love,you all know you need it. 😉

And,you have no idea if she has a pattern of attracting ass hats or not.there is no indication of that here at all.
she's very young and vulnerable(and apparently he is older),and if she does not throw years away on this jerk she will be fine.
How does her intuition telling her he was cheating equate to her have "trust issues"? that's straight up horse crap.
She said he moved in with another chick right before she found out....Always,ALWAYS trust your intuition!!! NEVER trust someone who repeatedly tells you, you are wrong for doing so!
Tau's and Scorp's see everything,EVERYTHING almost,in different ways.
I can't see why you are turning this back on her at all (actually,I instinctively know why,just not logically),and you can't see why I see it my way.
Just enough light for the step she's on....that's maybe all she needs right now.does not matter if she holds any fault...she needs to get out of the situation and heal,move on and forever and evermore...JUST SAY NO TO THE S.C.O.R.P.I.O!!! (All of 'em!)
Lovely people...but we are not good for each other at allllllllll.

On a side note...it's hilarious that Scorp's would accuse a Taurus of having trust issues....WHOOT!!! 🙂

^ GOOD! You said it, I was gonna. I don't know why it's always turned back round on the woman like she's the nincompoop. BULL TWINKIES! Two way street there.

LOL "Way cooler" ..we're so cool we're frrrrrrrrrrrrrrrosty. 😛

So glad you are enjoying the show. *deep curtsy*

*Bella looks at drama carrot,smiles and walks away*

Purpose? And why hide the post saying what cold and soulless creatures Taurus is while frequenting the Pasture?

Not really. But I am rapidly discovering all I need ever know.

^^^^WHOOT ! WHOOT!! WHOOT!!!!

Just say NO to the S.C.O.R.P.I.O!!!! :p

Posted by ellessque
I dated scorpio first, then he broke up w me

1 year later leads me on for a few days

Then, a year afterwards - we get into a serious relationship

I did accuse him of cheating many times

I have anxiety attacks and a hard time trusting men

^^^^This is what I seen.

Why in the FUCK is she STILL messing with him? Scorpio or NOT?

Side effect,not cause.
and she's messing with him because she is young,and it is like being in quicksand.she has to grab the stick I'm offering her.

Are we fighting?

Sorry, were we still discussing the neo-maxi-zoom dweebie ex of hers? I'm bopping along to a kick ass song here.

And brights? Dump that asshole for good, distance yourself. Leave tire tracks. Get your head better, heal. Be strong and whole. THEN..then. You're ready to allow someone in, and someone good for you.

Posted by helpplease
Do you smile often on your drama carrot mirror like a crazy lady admiring your drama carrot looks? Lol 😛

I don't think I'm the crazy lady here....

And what you wrote,and hid...confirmed to me my suspicions.I know who you really are,and I'm trying to be nice with you.

Posted by venusianbull
Sorry, were we still discussing the neo-maxi-zoom dweebie ex of hers? I'm bopping along to a kick ass song here.

And brights? Dump that asshole for good, distance yourself. Leave tire tracks. Get your head better, heal. Be strong and whole. THEN..then. You're ready to allow someone in, and someone good for you.

😄 Hey there.

And right you are!

😄 Hello lady. Thanks, every once in a while a low wattage will flicker on. 😉

Hey poopsie,I thought you were dead or something!!!
Give me a hug! ((( — )))

😄

I know I'm not a Taurus or a scorpio male but I just wanted to say that the same thing happened to me (except he was a cancer)...I have the whole anxiety thing left over from it as well as panic attacks and now that I'm with someone new I still can't let go of the worry so I just wanted to lend you some understanding but also...I think when people do something THAT horrible and heartless it doesn't have anything to do with their sign. I mean..of course traits of their sign come out but I think that has more to do with morals than anything else.

Don't give in to him contacting you. My ex still contacts me and it's been almost two years...I have no idea what goes on in their heads except that it's all about themselves.

sorry to hear your initial post but scorpio will do that - virgo is also a compatible sign with scorpio like taurus

Posted by brights
i dated scorpio first, then he broke up w me (his excuse being i was too young at the time). He dates virgo, 1 year later - he leads me on and claims hes single. Leads me on for a few days, then ignores me - shady as ever!! I say whatever.. move on. Then, a year afterwards - we get into a serious relationship. He swears he has changed into a good man yet i've noticed bipolar behavior (maybe influenced by this virgo gf he's still dating behind my back). It's as if he's leading a double life (virgo moon sign may i add).

This serious relationship lasted for 6 months until I discover the truth (his second girlfriend) whom he moved in with just before I found out. He's using her for money (rent, presents, bills, etc..). I knew this guy was trouble, just didn't listen to my intuition. I did accuse him of cheating many times, his defense: "I can't believe you don't trust me." I just believed him to stop any arguments.

Since then, I have anxiety attacks and a hard time trusting men STILL. Our relationship finalized a year and a half ago, but I still get this anxiety. Anyway, they ended up breaking up for good. Currently, he rents a room out of a house 5 minutes from me (before, he lived 50 minutes away). He has texted me again with, "I'm a changed man," bullshit, but I haven't seen him since. Why does this man keep contacting me? He's evil, typical scorpio, hm.. nice TO YOU, but you never know their true intentions..

Dude sounds like a leech if his woman's paying his rent,bills, etc or a little underdeveloped imo .
No-one knows anothers 'true' intentions until they're experiencing/in the thick of them though.