Feelings of Guilt

Do any other Taurys feel guilty for no reason at all?

I sometimes feel that if I decide on something because I feel it's best and others don't that I tend to gravitate feeling a sense of guilt that I either hurt someone's feelings or they think badly of me.

Don't get me wrong; I stick to my convictions and don't usually make a decision without mulling it over, and even with the feelings of guilt I quickly get over it.

But can anyone else relate?

dont even get me started on feelings of guilt!! feeling very bad at mo over something i did to my guy `(over on the capricorn board) and cant get the feelings of guilt and regret out of my head! Like i want to punish myself by going over it and imagining how life would be if only i hadnt done it! LOL...guess we just feel guilty and can relate to ppl knowing how we would feel were it done to us...

to answer that, even if i know ive done the right thing i still feel guilty yes, guess its cause alot of ppl like to put others before themsleves, if u have that nuturing caring nature its easy to feel guilty but have to put yourself first sometimes...aries and cancers can do ir right?

aqua's especially have a difficult time knowing when they are wrong,

it doesnt hold true for this Aqua... i KNOW when i've screwed up and i admit i make mistakes and i always try to fix 'em....

sagitaurius, i didnt like ur attitude saying that was bull butter and so was i, if ud asked to explain further before jumping in, i would have given an example such as recently when i had to move house for work and was slightly further away from my family...even though i know they will be ok and are happy for me to pursue my career, i still feel guilty for not being in their lives anymore in case they need me...so maybe my guilt is unfounded but the worry is still there!

"If you REALLY put others first, you wouldn't have feelings of guilt- plain and clear."

Not everything in life is as black and white as this, you cant just put things in boxes you have to understand people dont always think like that

very well described taur04girl!

I always suffer from guilt and let me tell you its a bad bad feeling....

I think we feel guilt(type of guilt you described above..) because wse love our family/friends too much and hold a great responsibility in our shoulders to make them happy.so when something goes wrong with them,we feel that its our fault and we should have done something for them even when its not our fault and we can't do anything about it!

Thanks everyone. It's good to know I'm not the only person who feels a lot of weight on my shoulder to make others happy - putting others before myself.

@taur04girl

Hi ..I am a Taurean .

M not sure if I read your post properly but then it reminded me of a sagutarius..I use to date one. ..and it din't go well.i dont want to get into detail right now,but your post reminds me of her and she use to sound the same as u.she use to talk about career and stuff like that...what I feel as a Taurean is I have Soo much guilt in me I cannot get it off my head,I think about it all the time .it pains me all the time.wish I had a chance to atlst know what's hapning in her life. What would you do if you were in my place .

🙂

my Taurus gets this way. from what I understand and believe strongly. its there strong emotional connect to peoples energy's. when people feel disappointed they take on that energy and assume guilt for causing it.

as a sag, im very knowledge seeking so I have always seeked understand of my bull.

I will forever and always have to reassure him that I although im bummed for "not getting my way" I respect his personal choices and will get over it.

we are all different and we are all allowed to want and feel different things, that doesn't make anyone wrong and that doesn't make anyone at fault.

I hope he knows that , atleast when it comes to us and our love.

Posted by houstonpeach74
Do any other Taurys feel guilty for no reason at all?

I sometimes feel that if I decide on something because I feel it's best and others don't that I tend to gravitate feeling a sense of guilt that I either hurt someone's feelings or they think badly of me.

Don't get me wrong; I stick to my convictions and don't usually make a decision without mulling it over, and even with the feelings of guilt I quickly get over it.

But can anyone else relate?

Yes. I have serious issues with guilt. I am a people pleaser but now that I'm getting older, I force myself to not be that way because it's really bad for you. I still feel guilty about my ex that I broke up with. He does still contact me and says how lonely he is without me too, making me feel horrible. But even little things make me feel guilty. If I think someone is upset with me, I feel guilty about it. It's so stupid.