Frustrating Taurus

Way i Have A Taurus Who I've Had A Form Of A Relationship With since February. Thing IS I'm Married, Recently Separated. Well We've Gotten Really CLose, He's Confessed To Falling For Me, Has Shown It In Many Ways, But Ive Akways LHad A Hard Time believing (Been Lied To A Whole Lot). Recently He's Changed (A Little, AT least IN My Eyes) And Last week We Were Supposed To Hang Out, He Texted Me Saying He Had To Help Is Grandma MOw herLawn. And That He'd Text When On HIs wlhome. gotTired Of Waiting And ToLd Him Off. He Got Furious Thinking I Was Mad He Had To Help His Fam..Now He Wont Talk To Me. I Tried Making Amends The Other Day, But He Said He Had Nothing Left To Say And That He Never Said He Wouldnt Get Over It, He Just Needs Time And Space. Im Going Crazy And Im Afraid Ive Lost Him. I Care About Him Immensely And DidNt Realize It Fully. Will He Come Around? Should I Leave Him Alone Ti He Does? Advice Needed. Thank Yoy!I Need Advice Just On This, Not My Marriage Because That Has Been Over Since Before This.

I'm Afraid If I Wait Too Long, I'll Lose Him For Good. I Was Thinking Of Sending A Funny Text Over The Weekend If I Dont Hear From Him By Then. Tomorrow Will Be A Week Since The Fight, How Long Can He Stay Mad? I Know He Asked For Time And Space, But Geez. You'd Think I LikE Made Out With His Best Friend Or Something

Us taureans are quite sensitive even when we don't want to be but small things can hit us hard so we strop about it like little kids admittedly - so yeah you probably did hurt him by brushing him off but he will come back around if not he needs to grow up haha I mean I have my moments but I get over it, the best way to cheer me up is food and laughter so yeah I think if you brush over with a new text that might do the trick we don't like to dwell on things which have past because we get defensive.

But I Dont Think I Brushed Him Off, I Just Said I Was Tired Of Being Blown Off And Couldn't Do It Anymore. I Tried To Talk About It Several Days Later, But He Didnt WaNt To Talk At All. Said I Crossed A LIne With Him. Not For Nothing But I Was The One Waiting FOr Him ANd He Didn't Have The Decency To Consider That And Say "I Dont WNt You To Wait thatLong And I Dont Know How Long Im Gonna Be"...I Felt Like He Didnt Consider My Feelings At All.

sounds to me like he's a selfish one! if I were you I would go cold turkey - ignoring him will get his blood boiling get him to crawl back to you eventually, he's just being a stubborn ass, sometimes we can't admit we are in the wrong until later and realise but our pride and ego is to high to apologise

I couldn't read that with every word capitalized.

:/

For SOme Reason My Phone Is Doing It. It's Driving Me Crazy, too

I Didn't Blo Him Off, He Did That. I Tried To Reconcile, He Needs Time. Im Confused Why He's This Angry Since He's Been So PatienT With Me And My Sensitivity. This Is The First Time Ive Seen HiM LikeThis. Feel Like Its Deeper.

I Agree, But I Miss Him Terribly.
I Dont Think It Was A LIe...He's Always Been Bothered By Me Thinking Everything He Says And Does Is A Lie. I Cant Help It, Major Trust Issues. Maybe This Was One Time Too Many. I Just Want Him Back.

Same thing with me and taurus man I like. He got pissed off when I lashed out at something he did. Got pissed for days, no response. I wrote a loving letter after a few days and that helped. he just needed time to get passed his stubbornness. But its not all be right yet. He doesnt trust me, I feel. And I dont trust it, so its a sad situation.

Give him time, BUT dont give your your identity. Its a 2 way street.

Posted by soconfusedcancer123
But I Dont Think I Brushed Him Off, I Just Said I Was Tired Of Being Blown Off And Couldn't Do It Anymore. I Tried To Talk About It Several Days Later, But He Didnt WaNt To Talk At All. Said I Crossed A LIne With Him. Not For Nothing But I Was The One Waiting FOr Him ANd He Didn't Have The Decency To Consider That And Say "I Dont WNt You To Wait thatLong And I Dont Know How Long Im Gonna Be"...I Felt Like He Didnt Consider My Feelings At All.

I am a bit confused. You said that you told him that you are tired of being blown off and couldn't take it anymore and you're upset because of his reaction to that? How did you expect for him to react? He's not going to react the way YOU want him too; he will the only way he knows how regardless if it's right or wrong. Don't play the game of ignoring and all of that. Give him exactly what he asked for is space. I know it's hard but you need to keep yourself busy and allow him to come to his own conclusions.

Posted by Brittfuzz
sounds to me like he's a selfish one! if I were you I would go cold turkey - ignoring him will get his blood boiling get him to crawl back to you eventually, he's just being a stubborn ass, sometimes we can't admit we are in the wrong until later and realise but our pride and ego is to high to apologise

But that's playing games isn't it?

All is Well, He Actually Came And Apologized To Me FoR How He Acted. Of Course I Apologized As Well For MakinG Him Upset To Begin With. Guess Space Was All He Needed. Thanks Everyone!