Can a taurus advise me on how/why they can go silent on you? My guy hasnt text me evn once this week and its taking all my virgo patience no to send a text ask wtf is wrong with you!
Taurus and Silences?
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Sorry but THIS virgo doesnt talk alot! We also listen as appose to talking. I'm not asking for him to write an essay,just a hi would suffice 🙂
hi to you too 🙂. maybe he is confused or out of sight out of mind?
Did you do something to piss him off? Or upset him? Because my mother is a Taurus, and two of my bff's are also Taurus. If you make them upset they will not speak to you. They hold grudges.
no the last time I saw him was monday morning and we had a good laugh.He is very busy at work and is having housing problems so I am trying to be understanding....
so do I keep my promise and still text him through the silences?
I have to say you have a wicked sense of Humor! 🙂
Posted by idk
find something/someone you can relate with/to.
....
it's easy for me to sit here and say. do this/do that.
and i don't really have, what i pictured my life to be right now...
but...
if you are living, you are breathing... you are doing great, if you ask me.
it's kind of simple i know. but...............
there is much worse that could be happening
I have to agree and I know that given the choice to be slightly pissed off with him or not have him in my life, well.... I can get over being pissed off!lol
Posted by idkPosted by sheztina
wicked... are you trying to make me horny?!!!!!
=T.....click to expand
LOL!Is it that easy! 😛
How come my my profile picture isnt showing on the board? Do I have reach a trillion posts or something first?
I have had strong feelings for a while for a Taurus girl, and don't know if it's all Tauruses but she is very selfish. How they say Taurus and Cap are a good match is really beyond me at this point. She doesn't remember the important things that I have shared with her and I remember every little thing she shared with me. My point of view is that they can be very self centered!!
My taurus guy is a carer, so I honestly cant say he's selfish, I've seen him at work and he genuinely loves his job and I couldnt imagine a better job for him. I've been reading about how they can go into themselves when they have problems, and I know he has alot on his plate at the moment so hopefully it'll be worth the wait
My bull can get REALLY into his work sometimes to the point the entire world disappears and he forgets everything else. I've gotten used to it and it's actually become a little joke between the 2 of us. In the beginning when I was mirroring I would not reach out first as the Virgo in me would not allow it. But as time goes on I tend to just go with my first desire. So if you want to text...text. If you don't...don't. If he's truly interested he will reach out when he gets his head out of the clouds or wherever it's at. But don't be afraid to send a quick: "Hope you have a great 4th" text; it's simple and friendly...nothing wrong with that especially after a week of no contact. Plus you said he has a child. That coupled with an insane schedule is bound to keep him preoccupied with other things. What does your gut tell you? Go with that! Good luck!
Its is? How come all I see is a smiley face? I mean I like smiley faces but I like my cat picture more! I can see your adolf pic ( I aint gonna ask)lol
Posted by neuroticvirgo
My bull can get REALLY into his work sometimes to the point the entire world disappears and he forgets everything else. I've gotten used to it and it's actually become a little joke between the 2 of us. In the beginning when I was mirroring I would not reach out first as the Virgo in me would not allow it. But as time goes on I tend to just go with my first desire. So if you want to text...text. If you don't...don't. If he's truly interested he will reach out when he gets his head out of the clouds or wherever it's at. But don't be afraid to send a quick: "Hope you have a great 4th" text; it's simple and friendly...nothing wrong with that especially after a week of no contact. Plus you said he has a child. That coupled with an insane schedule is bound to keep him preoccupied with other things. What does your gut tell you? Go with that! Good luck!
Thank you neuroticvirgo! Sometimes just having someone point out what I already know helps!Its like I keep trying to tell myself,if I focus on all the things he HAS done, he's fantastic! But I just get too virgoey and miss him so get myself pissed off for no reason! I'm so glad I found these boards, I prefer talking to strangers than people who know me 🙂
Posted by idk
anybody want a burger?....
i'm... still afraid to grill any hotdogs... at least for a while
Wow we get food here aswell as advice!sweeeeet! 🙂
Posted by sheztinaPosted by neuroticvirgo
My bull can get REALLY into his work sometimes to the point the entire world disappears and he forgets everything else. I've gotten used to it and it's actually become a little joke between the 2 of us. In the beginning when I was mirroring I would not reach out first as the Virgo in me would not allow it. But as time goes on I tend to just go with my first desire. So if you want to text...text. If you don't...don't. If he's truly interested he will reach out when he gets his head out of the clouds or wherever it's at. But don't be afraid to send a quick: "Hope you have a great 4th" text; it's simple and friendly...nothing wrong with that especially after a week of no contact. Plus you said he has a child. That coupled with an insane schedule is bound to keep him preoccupied with other things. What does your gut tell you? Go with that! Good luck!
Thank you neuroticvirgo! Sometimes just having someone point out what I already know helps!Its like I keep trying to tell myself,if I focus on all the things he HAS done, he's fantastic! But I just get too virgoey and miss him so get myself pissed off for no reason! I'm so glad I found these boards, I prefer talking to strangers than people who know me 🙂click to expand
Classic Virgo behavior BELIEVE me I was the same way in the beginning. I don't call myself neurotic for nothing. The best advice I can give you is to calm yourself and go with the flow...and believe me the flow will be slow with this guy. But it's worth it for the right bull. As time goes on you will be able to see him making sacrifices for you and your happiness. It's quite wonderful but it takes time.
Posted by neuroticvirgoPosted by sheztinaPosted by neuroticvirgo
Classic Virgo behavior BELIEVE me I was the same way in the beginning. I don't call myself neurotic for nothing. The best advice I can give you is to calm yourself and go with the flow...and believe me the flow will be slow with this guy. But it's worth it for the right bull. As time goes on you will be able to see him making sacrifices for you and your happiness. It's quite wonderful but it takes time.click to expand
Thank you, I really do take all advice on board and it helps bring me out of a stupor. I have decided I will text him later to wish a good weekend off 🙂
Good luck and let us know how it goes. I'm always rooting for more Virgo/Taurus relationships!
Thank you so much! I have to admit I'm rooting for this one too!lol
Posted by Langvad
I have had strong feelings for a while for a Taurus girl, and don't know if it's all Tauruses but she is very selfish. How they say Taurus and Cap are a good match is really beyond me at this point. She doesn't remember the important things that I have shared with her and I remember every little thing she shared with me. My point of view is that they can be very self centered!!
Im a Cap too, and was too thru when my Taurus friend didnt remember my birthday. Im like its the same day as your ex bday...how can you not remember??
Mine hasnt text me much this week either, and we've been texting nearly daily for the past few months. I told him he wont see me for a while until i get my broken tooth fixed, and i guess he figured theres no point in talking either smh. Really communication has gone down since then. I started to send something yesterday but thought eff that lol. Ah well.. its like time and time again im reminded i need to let this thing go.
Posted by idk
XIN YOUR LEGS ARE DISTRACTING. this is the taurus board. and until someone tells me i have no authority, you need to cover them up. i think you need to do it now....
NOU!
Posted by sheztina
Its is? How come all I see is a smiley face? I mean I like smiley faces but I like my cat picture more! I can see your adolf pic ( I aint gonna ask)lol
I love your cat pic it's so cuuuute 😄
But anyways. I would just call him. Ill be honest right now if a man really likes you regardless of his sign he will be contacting you. The fact that he's not would make me on high alert. No man is ever too busy for a woman he likes. End of story.
Posted by XinPosted by idk
XIN YOUR LEGS ARE DISTRACTING. this is the taurus board. and until someone tells me i have no authority, you need to cover them up. i think you need to do it now....
NOU!click to expand
Oh and um. I know this is the "Taurus" board. I have Taurus in both Venus and Mars. So I qualify! HUMPH!
Posted by Xin
I love your cat pic it's so cuuuute 😄
But anyways. I would just call him. Ill be honest right now if a man really likes you regardless of his sign he will be contacting you. The fact that he's not would make me on high alert. No man is ever too busy for a woman he likes. End of story.
Thank you, its one of my favourite pics and sayings....
I have sent him a text so will see what happens. The thing is WHEN I do see him, there is no doubt in my mind! I think its just the fact he hasnt been working in this area this week, coupled with the lack of text = my brain goes into overdrive 🙂
I want a burger and a hot dog mkthanks!
@ sheztina please read "Experiences With A Taurus Male". You might be in his Harem. Here is the article
http://www.aphroditeastrology.com/2007/09/experiences-with-taurian-male.html
Thanks I will bear it in mind. Lets see how it plays out but I value any advice 🙂
Posted by MilkySoft
No communication in a week? I would only be able to interpret this one way no matter what sign: he's not interested.
As I've said previously he works from 6am till 11pm and its a very stressful job, also I know he has alot of personal problems which makes him switch off and before you say it, I'm not making excuses for him and I am guarded, but I also have to try and see both sides of the coin because on the whole he hasnt ever done anything wrong. Its just one of those times will tell situations, which reading mine and his horoscopes have fortold
I will admit I do feel neglected but have learnt from past mistakes that you dont always know whats going on in peoples lives, and as I dont tell anyone my problems (I know I'm posting on here, but I've never had feelings for a taurus before)I can understand if thats the way he feels. But I do appreciate all advice so thank you for responding 🙂
No I have text him everyday only things like morning babe etc, nothing too heavy or questions. Its my way of showing him that I'm there if he needs me but I'm not hassling him
If you did something to piss him off, that's why, otherwise, he probably just doesn't have anything to say.
hey... i think you should leave him alone, alone alone.
you need someone like me
i'm hungry. and i get this feeling you like to cook. so why don't we just get freaky? it's an awesome combo. is it going to work?
it seems kinda dyno to me
I do like to cook, but am I good at it? Hmmmm I'm not so sure! and I dont think you being hungry and me cooking is a good idea to get freaky, I mean I dont mind getting freaky but thats usually for some extreme reason, say for example I got a craving for something sweet then you show up at my door with a huge box of chocs! oh dear thats food again......
Is a bull is silent it's not a good sign
If I were u, and u feel uneasy about things, why don't u just flat out ask him what's wrong, I haven't heard from u in awhile are u ok?
It's simple and to the point
If no answer do what u have to do
If I were u, and u feel uneasy about things, why don't u just flat out ask him what's wrong, I haven't heard from u in awhile are u ok?
It's simple and to the point
If no answer do what u have to do
I've decided to leave it all weekend and see what happens Monday. Hopefully he's back on moms rota this week so I'll get to see him.....
Posted by TaurusNikki
Is a bull is silent it's not a good sign
If I were u, and u feel uneasy about things, why don't u just flat out ask him what's wrong, I haven't heard from u in awhile are u ok?
It's simple and to the point
If no answer do what u have to do
+10000 if my man doesn't respond to me within a few days .. I will not tolerate . I am a Taurus female but always respond to things unless something is wrong whether I'm no longer interested /confused or angry . Either one if u ask me straight I will tell you as we are honest people n don't play games
If you're not interested in having a relationship with someone who doesn't care to keep in touch with you then you shouldn't be tolerating one, regardless of how hard he is working etc. etc. Texts and phone calls can take seconds or minutes - not an awful lot to give to someone you care about. You're texting him and he's not replying—? I'd be telling him to fuck right off with himself.
Weirdness with the Cap/Tau dynamic, I remember everything my Cap peeps tell me.
Hey. Just wanted to know what you think about the article I sent you?
It gave me plenty to think about 🙂 I have to admit I'm just in a 'whatever' frame of mind due to my mom taking a bad turn yesterday, so I am kinda just going with the flow at the moment.....
Thank you x
I'm in the same boat girl with a newer taurus.. It sucks!!! I'm a saggie
Posted by Super-Sag
I'm in the same boat girl with a newer taurus.. It sucks!!! I'm a saggie
Do you read yours and his horoscopes? I do and they are spot on at the moment, but says if you wait it out, it'll be worth it.....Like I said above I have other things to worry about at the moment so will just wait and see.Good luck 🙂
Mine has been like this 3 weeks . i asked him he told me dealing with this and that . i atarted texting less. give time. I did the happy 4th July! Miss ya text on Thursday. He replied in five min. You too! Been working ass off w things have to work the holiday . Etc. now I'm leaving it be. For good hell either contact when ready or it's done. I feel all these things too pissed hurt confused sad and screw all this . It's brand new and this shit already. Hmmm
I call a psychic on keen. Com for yrs. always been right. She says exactly what is going on that he is personally telling me. Long story short. Hell be back AT my door! Long term don't give up give him time etc.
Good luck to you too!!
Thank you! According again to my horoscopes this is the big one for me, if not I'm gonna say feck it and get more cats!!lol
I feel like I just starred in the movie 9 1/2 weeks! Exactly. Unreal
Lol. I have cats too! Glad they here now lmao
Posted by Super-Sag
I feel like I just starred in the movie 9 1/2 weeks! Exactly. Unreal
Yes but sounds like fun too and we all need that from time to time! Oh goodness dont start me remembering things!lol
I would say don't contact him its hard but whatever he's doing he is busy and probly thinks your still there cuz we have here and there let him know . But after a while he gonna wonder . Wait a minute where she at?
Ya I been fighting myself to not remember all weekend. Holiday didn't help I've went from pissed back to bummed.
He does work long hours and also has been evicted from his flat so I know he's had a crap week. The virgo part of me is the reason I've still text him once a day.I'm now going to see what happens this week, tomorrows always another day! and I know alot of people wouldnt agree with this but right now the way things are in my life I'd rather have some hope then none at all 🙂
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