what are your thoughts on Taurus's?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by saweetz1988 on Friday, July 5, 2013 and has 18 replies.

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@saweetz1988
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I am curious to see scorpion's point of views..what are some of the Pros and Cons for Taurus's..

What were your experiences? did you date one..did it turn out ? how was the connection..etc

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@TaurusNikki
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I dated a Scorpio

It was awesome at times, but he had impossible standards

Plus we liked to dominated each other which kept things interesting, sex was always an adventure as both of us are outgoing

But at the end he was very controlling, and try'd to manipulate a lot, not good for Taurus

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Neurotoxin
I dated ONE Taurus.

Her and I connected at first, but I was too emotional and clingy (unevolved) so she dumped my ass.

. Patience is the key cause I think once u earn the bull trust and commitment it is for life .πŸ˜‰

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I agree with u there, if the fucker wasn't so damn psycho, I still be with him, treated him like a king for the most part, loved doing it

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Posted by TaurusNikki

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Neurotoxin
I dated ONE Taurus.

Her and I connected at first, but I was too emotional and clingy (unevolved) so she dumped my ass.

. Patience is the key cause I think once u earn the bull trust and commitment it is for life .πŸ˜‰

aww 😒 something about scorpions male that are so damn sexy and addictive ! They are like drugs seriously ! I have not seen the controlling side of a scorpion YET so I can't have a say in regards to that. Lack of trust makes it a lot worst. I cant deal with controlling or jealousy either so if he shows those signs I will also dump his ass πŸ˜‰

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I agree with u there, if the fucker wasn't so damn psycho, I still be with him, treated him like a king for the most part, loved doing it

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I didn't have a problem with his dark side, he's wicked sense of humor, I compromised to understanding him, which wasn't so hard to do at all, but to get him to compromise was like he shouldn't have to type way, like how dare I ask him to compromise, so I did what any bull would do, I challenged him instead, that was fun

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Posted by TaurusNikki
I didn't have a problem with his dark side, he's wicked sense of humor, I compromised to understanding him, which wasn't so hard to do at all, but to get him to compromise was like he shouldn't have to type way, like how dare I ask him to compromise, so I did what any bull would do, I challenged him instead, that was fun

I can relate to that !! So he did not Try to listen to your point of views? Two stubborn people can turn into a night mare ! I am not as stubborn as a typical bull for some odds reasons so I often go with the flow πŸ™‚

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by TaurusNikki
I didn't have a problem with his dark side, he's wicked sense of humor, I compromised to understanding him, which wasn't so hard to do at all, but to get him to compromise was like he shouldn't have to type way, like how dare I ask him to compromise, so I did what any bull would do, I challenged him instead, that was fun

I can relate to that !! So he did not Try to listen to your point of views? Two stubborn people can turn into a night mare ! I am not as stubborn as a typical bull for some odds reasons so I often go with the flow πŸ™‚

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To be honest he wasn't all bad, he just had impossible standards and no willing to compromise, my problem was I didn't want him bored with me, as sometimes I'm a homebody, he got me outta that part of myself and I started to be adventurous, but when u try to control and manipulate me, I'm gonna challenge u, why did I always have to compromise and not him, not cool

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@ScorpioLaday
13 Years

Well my best girl friend is a Taurus and we have the strangest sisterly connection. As for dating, the only Taurus guy I was ever head over heels for was and still is a player. New girlfriend every month. We never got past the 2nd date.
Although, my thoughts are still lusty for him and we are friendly to each other on social media sites....

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Posted by TaurusNikki

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by TaurusNikki
I didn't have a problem with his dark side, he's wicked sense of humor, I compromised to understanding him, which wasn't so hard to do at all, but to get him to compromise was like he shouldn't have to type way, like how dare I ask him to compromise, so I did what any bull would do, I challenged him instead, that was fun

I can relate to that !! So he did not Try to listen to your point of views? Two stubborn people can turn into a night mare ! I am not as stubborn as a typical bull for some odds reasons so I often go with the flow πŸ™‚

To be honest he wasn't all bad, he just had impossible standards and no willing to compromise, my problem was I didn't want him bored with me, as sometimes I'm a homebody, he got me outta that part of myself and I started to be adventurous, but when u try to control and manipulate me, I'm gonna challenge u, why did I always have to compromise and not him, not cool

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my venus is in gemini so i'm the one who ask for adventurous activities. I love my home though but stimulating activities are so important to me as well.
HOw was he controlling you exactly... i can see my scorpion be a little controlling but i give it back to him at times..sometimes i think it is best to keep my mouth shut >< n just let him lead the way...I think i have a deep respect and trust for this one so it comes naturally to me...however guys dont i don't share the same respect and trust i will never tolerate their behaviour.

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Posted by MilkySoft
Sometimes we're pink on the outside too.

Anyway, I just read that scorp men like the innocent, bouncing, pastoral types. Salt-of-the-earth kinda girls.

If this is true than I should be attracting a lot more of you fellows.

I feel we are pink on the outside only to those we love and care for. They think we are cool ,calm and collected and sexy ( natrual flirts and often harmless) Warm hearted and i wouldn't change one single bit. We are slow to move and most people don't have the patient . !!

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Oh boy, I am F born 4/29/82 dating M 10/28/79 this has been a flirtatious game of cat and mouse since April. We have truly in my eyes started dating for a month and a half. I can see already that I will never get board and that this truly will be an emotional roller coaster. I am so afraid b/c I already know that he has the power to hurt me, not something any other man really has. He has so many flaws but his positives outway them... so far that unlike my normal instinct to run after 3 weeks if I find 3 or more red flags I just want more. Any advise truly ~~~

He will not discuss anything, when I start he always says play it cool we will resume this another night... and DONE!

I think I am may fall but I need some tips because this animal is not my norm and I feel like he is a male version of me. So, not sure what is too much or not enough. Should I call him ever? I never have.......... he used to and no longer does..... I may have set the stage in the wrong direction.. I want to change it. Someone give me some solid advise, I know he is crazy about me, besides the fact that he has told me.... The way he looks at me says it all.

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Posted by sweetpea0429
Oh boy, I am F born 4/29/82 dating M 10/28/79 this has been a flirtatious game of cat and mouse since April. We have truly in my eyes started dating for a month and a half. I can see already that I will never get board and that this truly will be an emotional roller coaster. I am so afraid b/c I already know that he has the power to hurt me, not something any other man really has. He has so many flaws but his positives outway them... so far that unlike my normal instinct to run after 3 weeks if I find 3 or more red flags I just want more. Any advise truly ~~~

He will not discuss anything, when I start he always says play it cool we will resume this another night... and DONE!

I think I am may fall but I need some tips because this animal is not my norm and I feel like he is a male version of me. So, not sure what is too much or not enough. Should I call him ever? I never have.......... he used to and no longer does..... I may have set the stage in the wrong direction.. I want to change it. Someone give me some solid advise, I know he is crazy about me, besides the fact that he has told me.... The way he looks at me says it all.

I feel that if one of you learn to compromise and become less stubborn this could work πŸ™‚. The fact that you are asking whether to call him or not .. Why not? He used to call you and is probably tired of calling you . We are stubborn bulls too and no I never used to call my ex Virgo ever. Love is not a game so give if you can.. It takes a lot of patience n trust to win his heart but I feel once he's committed it's a deal or a contract of some sort . We are not a big fan of making a move... We have our guard up most often than not.. Actions speak louder so there's no need for discussion.. Just SHOW him. Give him lots and lots of affection.. N tell him how much you enjoy his company etc. I know what connection u r talking about. We both want the same thing in life. Loyalty love and commitment. . I feel that both of you are having your walls up so high .. Let it down a bit and he will open up to you more...

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I have both male and female taurus friends.

Good-Steadfastness and reliability.

Bad-Narrow vision,inability to view a problem from various angles,pig-headed stubbornness.