NO, I wasn't having sex at work today! lol I was just thinking that would be a fine way of passing the time when slow at work! haha I do have 1 story though...
2 years ago at the last company I worked for, a customer from our city's arena , (we did their signs) and I had a thing going for each other. Well, flirting progressed to the point we went out together a few times, and went to each others places eventually, and things got pretty steamy for awhile. THEN, one day I left the workplace to go to his, at the arena to do a quote and, um, it got a little dirty and a little fun...I went back to work and I'll tell you I had a big smile on my face when my boss asked me how the quote went. Lets just say there would of been evidence. BAD KITTY!!! 😉
Never did it but would pull it off if I did though hehe.On this topic though when I worked at a pizza place one of the drivers got oral for the "money" this lady supposedly didn't have,the reason I say supposedly is because women who vacation here constantly try to get discounts on food and stuff for "sexual" favors.If it's a dude at the counter they will be asked if they will drop the price for something if the girls flash them,it's to be expected and gets old more than anything to guys though.See one set of boobs you've seen them all is literally what you think living in a drunkin tourist town for male or female lol,drunk people are annoying.
Doing it at work is the best!! I did it last year during a staff training day, with a Gemini (no suprise there!)! We had been teasing each other about it for a few weeks cos we knew how boring the training would be, so about halfway through the day, I dragged him to my office and we did it over my desk! And someone nearly caught us!! Which made it even better! Have been planning our next liasion in the office actually!!
I hate the numbers thing. I don't care how many my guy has slept with, clean and a one-woman man is good to me. If the guy rocks, who cares about his/her past.
Clean means they are checked up, what do numbers count if they've cleaned their act & are medically clean? Would you dump a guy if his numbers were too high?
12 was high for a guy?!!!!!!! Where the H E LL do you live?!!! VIRGINia? How old are you, OFA, and what's your #'s at, if you don't mind me asking. 12, a dozen? wtf!!!
12? I actually don't know if that's high or low for a guy...? Seems high if he's 19... but mid-twenties or over... ? Lets see, a couple of relationships and a couple of flings... not high. I asked my guy and he just said 'not as high as you think' and I didn't insist because I can't stand to hear about any previous girls, my mind goes bonkers cuz I tend to overthink aNd (in images). But I do remember asking him when I barely met him 3 years ago and he had said the magic number was (4?), his first at 17 yrs old, baby's momma and long-term relationships... hmmm yeah he lied... had to be more at that time, anywho and I'll add another 2 before me and then me... I guesstimate he's been with about 8 or 9. He's verrrrrry health-conscious so I do believe that he prefers to be with someone who he is in a relatinship with rather than random girls. But yeah I do agree with TG, it's more important to know how careful or health conscious a person is rather than the number. However, if it was realllllly high I'd still be grossed out. So what is high then?
Im 26 and only been with 6 people if I remember correctly,3 relationships,2 FWB's and 2 dating for awhile.So yeah,12 is alot if your younger,I had to put a bandaid on my chin after I heard a 18 year old say she did about 60 people on TV one time.
"But within a week and a half of losing my virginity, I had slept with three guys...and that wasn't all either...so yeah."
:O My mouth dropped WIDE open (for like a second!) How'd that happen?! I mean... were they like friends? Guys you talked to? Met at parties? Drunk? Used protection? Give me some insight here 🙂 But you don't sleep with random guys anymore right?
so did about 4 people in my building. talk about a germ orgy
-- I had to read this one twice, I understood you 'DID' 4 people in your building and that's how you all got the virus... lol I was thinking 'damn and he's not a manwhore?'
OFA, tease is all good. I've been called that too. That's how women should be, playful yet respecting themselves AND the man. I do respect your honesty though. That says a lot about you. 🙂
As for the people that sleep with less people, good for you, I've choosen to keep my numbers low, being a taurus & slow to trust it wouldn't be easy for me to hop in bed with someone I didn't love. However I have some friends that have had their seriously $ lutty days or exes that have had a few more lovers than I would of liked. I also have regrets in the relationship department as well. BUT that is how we learn, no? Isn't that what's most important? It's not the past, it shouldn't be. If it is, well then you're likely the type of character who forgives & doesn't forget. and THAT, is worse that a $ lutty past. Judgement.
back to the matter at hand. reading about your views and experiences in that field i can relate to quite a few things(shoot me for that last sentence, sounds so pretentious, lol). one should always go with his/her heart, but be also sensible and considerate about it. if you need a certain/special connection(mental, emotional, intellectual etc.) with someone to want sex with them, then this is exactly what you should be looking for. sleeping around would be so wrong were you like that. on the other hand, in my opinion a high number of sex partners would be only wrong if:
1. you have an irresponsible approach: don't care for protection etc. 2. you have such a low self esteem and the only way for you to boost it up is by getting everyone to sleep with you(that would be kind of sad, though 😢). 3. your motivation is questionable: you do it to buy yourself into a certain society or fcuk yourself up the career ladder or sleep around not because you have a strong sex drive but because you think that everyone else is doing it, it's fashionable etc. and therefore you should be acting the same way. 4. (your reason goes here...)
if, however, you do have a strong sex drive i don't see why you shouldn't have (countless—) affairs in the sensible, responsible, considerate way i was talking about. as long as you respect yourself and your partners...
i'm more on the low numbers end. i can think of only four women i've slept with. and another one i almost slept with. it was a one night stand and so funny. just about everything that could possibly go wrong, went wrong and we couldn't stop rolling on the floor laughing. even though we didn?t get to perform the actual "act of sexual intercourse"(LOL) we had a great time! plus, you'd be surprised what magic you can do only using your hands, lips and tongue... 😉 erm, like telling really funny jokes 😛
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